To think swinging is URRGH!?

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There is are two couples on This Morning just now talking about their love for swinging. They're just your normal looking every day couples. One couple own a swinging hotel and they do to clubs.

I find this really sleazy and just plain weird. She's saying that it's really common amongst primary school teachers too!!

Eeeew I bet they'll be swapping after the show.

AIBU to think this is a very strange thing to do and be so open about?

apologize for spelling.

If you use deodourized wipes on your foof then you will end up with it smelling and tasting like a mackerel, as the wretched things do you no favours and can often make any foof problems worse.
If you have got a whiff or a discharge, go to the doctor.

haha i remember when i was a student in London and we used to picket Boots complaining that feminine deoderisors were the work of the devil/men "dont you like our smell"we would shout

No...not pissed off but sometimes this negative suggestion that women smell "not very nice" down there can be quite damaging for both women and men. It gives some men an excuse for not giving oral sex, and some women hang ups about receiving it.
Not really what you want in a relationship.

gay i really was just having a laugh (and you did say the dick joke to be fair)
Having a hell of a day and just was lightening the load on here,if you knew me in rl which i know you dont,you'd know im the last person to be like that.Im not really going to dis my own vagina am i?? haha

Why do people feel the need to denigrate other people's choices? I am equally disgusted by the attitudes of people who say that their love-lives are immeasurably better and more imaginative because they swing/enjoy spanking/are sub/Dom as I am by those who think swinging must mean that someone is in a soulless, meaningless marriage, they have zero self-esteem, and are weak women being manipulated by bullying men.

I believe that LeQueen and fbwife have equally fulfilled, loving and wonderful marriages. I believe that people have an absolute right to find the thought of swinging to be urgghhh - they just don't have the right to judge or denigrate those who don't agree with them.

did anyone notice the op posted then cleared off,am i wrong?

Havent read the whole thread (yet), but what StayingDavid TennantsGirl said.

I must say, some of the blissfully happily married people on here who rhapsodise about the soulful, spiritual, hot sex they enjoy with their (getting more gorgeous by the minute DH) is making me gag even more than the descriptions of the wipe clean furniture in the Labia room.

Get over yourselves you smug caaahs.

Incidentally, chickens, is the Volvo guy still there d'you know? Is it a newish Volvo, or an older model? I could do with a lift home.

Caveat: Except for the thing David said about not having the right to judge. I always reserve the right to judge.

The reason single men are excluded from swinging clubs is because they can become intimidating to women, and sometimes become sex pests, bothering women when they're not welcome. Women hold the aces, they really do, yes they are entertaining men, but they're also entertaining themselves.

For some reason, women's bisexuality is less of a taboo than men's, probably because men find it sexy, but it's a brilliant opportunity for bi curious women to give it a go.

Some clubs do admit single men on some nights and not on others; some clubs also have dedicated bi nights where bi and bi curious men go as well as bi women.

It used to be the case (apparently) that one reason you saw less man-on-man/bi male action was because it was illegal or thought of as illegal for men to do anything sexual to each other when there was anyone else present.

Pmsl - nicely put northernrock

NorthernRock - my apologies for my use of the word 'judge' - I must have temporarily forgotten where I was posting - lol!