To not bath my son in a month

[Ryoko]

He's 7 months old and it's too damn cold in here, (he is starting to get stinky tho).

I think you forfeit the right to any sympathy once you start claiming that your partner deserves abuse.

You are having a laugh.

This is literally unbelievable

I've just realised that I read one of your other threads about waiting for your PS3 to be delivered.

I'm sure I won't be the only one to wonder why on earth you're buying a games console when your poor child is going without a bath.

Sorry to be so blunt but it beggars believe that these are your prorities.

I so hope this isnt for real. If it is Ryoko, i'm sorry, but you really need to sort yourself out for the sake of your baby.

Please get help from your health visitor.

I don't think scrubbing him under the arms will sort him out (unless you're talking about your df) you need wash his bum and boy bits.

So you're waiting for a delivery of a PS3 and wont put the heating on so you can bath your poor baby because of the money. Jeez, you need some support big time.

Having said that your df could probably use that advice as could you.

"Well DP has about 2 grand in the bank after everything is paid for, not really enough to save and never really goes up because if it starts going up you can be bet your arse somethings going to turn up that needs paying ASAP.

I got over 1en grand in a current account, I'm going thru it tho as I'm not working so I wouldn't call that savings, I did want to put some in a savings account but as I don't have a valid passport right now I have no proof of ID and don't see the point getting a new one when it's not I'll be leaving the country anytime soon."

above is a quote from OP from last month.

bloody hell, I've never had that much money, our house is cozy and warm even tho we don't have double glazing and we all have baths tho.

tho

you've just said:
"I had a job when I bought the games and consoles"

but you've also said (re the parcel you're waiting for):
"I am 100% sure that HDNL have nicked it, they know it's a PS3 and some tossers getting a free one for christmas"

...and you've got several grand saved? but you cant afford a little heating for bathtime?
sorry, it still doesn't add up.

If you're sure that HDNL have stolen your parcel I'd suggest you call the police today and report it.
A call or visit from the police might ensure it turns up.

And going back to the bath issue could your DF stay in the house while you take your DS to the local swimming pool where he can at least have a shower with you.

This is not a real poster we;ve been had!Who says the might attack their child under the arms with a sponge.You sound so angry with everyone and everything I feel so for the baby

Thumb - thanks

OP - please bathe your ds, yabu, his little creases around his neck, arms and groin will be getting sore. Can't understand why you can't wash. What's your df's excuse?

noddy - the op has over 500 posts....

If this is for real, yes of course YABU.

"I've had enough of this it was a simple question"

it was a simple question, shall I bath my baby, but for some reason your life and priorities are so skewed, that you have to come onto an internet forum to ask a bunch of strangers what to do.

Why are you all living like this? Why are you doing this to your baby?

Shame that you are a loner, cos perhaps someone that knew you, seeing all that has been described here, would call SS and get that poor baby somewhere it'll be cared for properly.

You are not even trying to meet its needs.

it is a good jopb you are a loner.
because A) any friends would tell you that you stank and B) they would be reporting your for neglect.

don't get huffy because people point out what a vile person you sound

I don't pay the heating bill, I don't pay the rent, I only pay for the food, he's the one not wanting me to get a fan heater and telling me not to and promising to help tomorrow and never helping cos he's too tired, he's got man flu etc.

The PS3 is to keep him off my Jail Breaked one, because he would brick it. (look that up if you don't understand) spend money, to save money.

So you have two ps3's in your home and yet you chose not to wash either yourself or your child because it may cost an extra 50p on the gas bill?

You are a skank.

i look forward to seeing you on jeremy kyle

Ryoko - have you got a health visitor? Perhaps you could have a chat with them?? You do seem to have a little of issues that can't be doing the baby any good.

Oh god god stop the excuses.
If you can afford a ps3 for ANY reason you can afford to heat you room. Both of you need to grow the hell up

And get rid of your iphone, laptop , pc or whatever you're posting from - that'll save you a few bob and maybe you can start to meet your child's basic needs.

I thought you might be deranged at first.... that's crediting you with being far more interesting than you really are. Yeap, Jeremy Kyle sound about right

what bollocks!