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AIBU?

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Original poster

to dump a SMALL WILLY!

290 replies

gobbledegoop · 03/11/2010 13:55

Bit of backround for you, this is a fairly new relationship, he's a nice guy and wants everything i want from life but AIBU...... to finish with him because his willy is too small for me to get any satisfaction Blush

Ive been in relationships in the past where they have had sexual problems/issues and it's soul destroying, i've also had very satisfying sexual relationships so i know what it can be like.

Opinions please.............

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Lotster · 03/11/2010 14:11

A word of caution.

I went out with a guy once and had the same problem. Thing is it seemed to grow a month or two down the line! Not by a yard or anything, but enough to make a difference!! I think looking back he'd not been quite as relaxed and confident in the early days and it had never reached it's full er, potential.

So unless it's definitely stiff as a board and still tiny, maybe give it a chance?

RealityBomb · 03/11/2010 14:11

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joanne34 · 03/11/2010 14:12

Fishy minge can be cleansed... small willy, ermm, well, Nope.... DUMP.

Been there, its way too important, sorry !

ChickensHaveNoLips · 03/11/2010 14:12

Well, you can't make his willy bigger or your nethers smaller, so I guess you had better end it. But FGS don't tell him it's because he has a small cock. The man will never stop crying.

Kaloki · 03/11/2010 14:14

I think you should, for his sake not yours. Sounds like he'd be better off without you.

Original poster
gobbledegoop · 03/11/2010 14:15

Yes i do realise there is a man attatched to his genitalia and i like him! Hence the problem!

Yes we have done the deed a few times. He also doesn't last very long (ie, a few minutes)

Sorry if you don't like my wording but that is the exact question i want opinions on.

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Original poster
gobbledegoop · 03/11/2010 14:16

And for the record, i would NEVER tell him that his willy is too small. I am not a complete bitch!

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tinierclanger · 03/11/2010 14:17

Really? That's the exact question? You're dumping a penis, not a person? Well yes,as per earlier post, if he's as nice as you say, he is indeed better off without you.

Kaloki · 03/11/2010 14:17

My ex was small and didn't last long. But you figure stuff out, if you bother to make an effort and care about the guy enough. And the sex was good once we'd got to know each other better.

But I still stand by my previous post.

(FYI he's my ex because he was a nightmare, bot because of his cock)

narkypuffin · 03/11/2010 14:17

Why is the OP a bad person for wanting a satisfying sex life?

TheEvilDead2 · 03/11/2010 14:19

only you can decide, he might get better when he is more comfortable with you (how long he takes) but his cock will never get any bigger.

I always thinks its more to do with width anyway

capricorn76 · 03/11/2010 14:19

I once broke up with a guy because his penis was way too big...

wouldliketoknow · 03/11/2010 14:20

if this was a guy asking us if his partners genitalia was a good enought reason to dump her, we would having a picnic with his by now, what make you think it is any different because you are a woman...?
yabu and a really bad person, leave him , he will find someone better than the line, that loves him, not his willy...

cory · 03/11/2010 14:20

I think it was the way she referred to him in her title thread that grated on people, not the fact that she might end the relationship. Most MNers would probably not take kindly to a male poster who referred to his partner as Baggy Fanny in his thread titles, however much we may sympathise with the needs of male sexuality.

Original poster
gobbledegoop · 03/11/2010 14:20

A title like, should i dump my ever so lovely boyfriend would not have attracted the same amount of responses. I specifically wanted to know if i should dump him because of the size!!

I have also stated several times that i do really like him.

Interesting to know that it may 'grow' though, thanks.

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Kaloki · 03/11/2010 14:21

Where's the other thread gone?

HecateQueenOfWitches · 03/11/2010 14:22

If you're not happy with your sex life, then why don't you discuss it with him?
I don't mean saying "You have a tiny todger", but if you can't discuss your sex life with the person you're doing it with - that alone should tell you the relationship isn't working.

It just amazes me how many people will stick various parts of their body into another person or allow same Grin yet won't talk! I don't get it.

Original poster
gobbledegoop · 03/11/2010 14:22

thank you narky.

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MoralDefective · 03/11/2010 14:22

Why has the baggy fanny thread gone and this can stay?Confused
Surely no double standards here MNHQ?

NordicPrincess · 03/11/2010 14:23

oh who cares, as long as you dont tell him its because of his knob does it matter why you end the relationship? im sure people break up with partners for other seemingly insignificant reasons, bad breath or manners etc... break up with him if its too small

larrygrylls · 03/11/2010 14:23

Is the OP really so shallow that her feelings have no interactions with her sex life? Can she not find a way to make things interesting (different position, more oral and manual stimulation etc)?

It strikes me as an extraordinarily shallow position for someone to take. If it really is meaningful and long term, how much of your time together (over 10 years say) is really going to be shagging? Personally, I would prefer a bore in bed but a kind, witty person than someone fabulous in the sack but dull, dull, dull out of it.

On the other hand, relationships are about personal satisfaction and if you are not happy, why be in it? In that case, just find a polite excuse and finish it early enough for him not to be hurt. I am 100% sure that he will find someone who loves him both in and out of the bedroom.

HecateQueenOfWitches · 03/11/2010 14:24

because the baggy fanny thread was a pisstake of this OP and I assume came under the waa waa I'm a baby who needs mummy to sort out the mean kids for me personal attack policy.

tinierclanger · 03/11/2010 14:24

She isn't a bad person for wanting a satisfying sex life, or indeed for dumping someone because his cock is not big enough to please her. It's simply that the wording of her first post is vile. If I saw a man posting 'should I dump a slack fanny', I'd think that was similarly unpleasant. If she'd said 'should I dump a man with a small willy' it would read very differently.

scaredoflove · 03/11/2010 14:25

I personally wouldn't continue the relationship

I can only orgasm from penetration, never once through oral from partner or manual from partner or on my own and believe me, I have tried everything alone and with partners

A larger penis garentees (sp?) me one or two orgasms for every session, the bigger the better. Luckily, ex hubby was huge, prob too huge for most women but it worked very well for me

I have tried relationships with men with a smaller penis but if the only way I can orgasm is by whipping out my rabbit EVERY time, then I don't want to live like that

Sex is to me, a huge part of my relationships and I would prefer to be with a man that can satisfy

MoralDefective · 03/11/2010 14:26

So....if the other thread's OP left it a week or so then the baggy fanny thread would be allowed?Hmm