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Massive holiday cock up !

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TheDogsMother · 23/09/2026 11:10

We’re on a ferry on our way to a small Greek Island and I was checking the accommodation arrangements. I have just noticed I booked from 23-30 October not September 😮. The booking is for a week and not refundable. This is so unlike me but what a bloody idiot !

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Nottulip · 23/09/2026 14:33

Iamawomanofconstantsorrow · 23/09/2026 14:30

Am envious of your holiday and very, very skint. Also, according to others, a nasty piece of work, so that's me told

Perhaps avoid this type of thread then @Iamawomanofconstantsorrow

Iamawomanofconstantsorrow · 23/09/2026 14:33

lazyarse123 · 23/09/2026 14:30

There's really no excuse for being a cunt and getting it wrong in the process. Not everyone can cover a loss immediately.

Didn't realise I was being a cunt. Will adjust my internal cuntometer

Do you have a word for when someone is being worse than a cunt, because I think I will need it at some point

Iamawomanofconstantsorrow · 23/09/2026 14:34

Nottulip · 23/09/2026 14:33

Perhaps avoid this type of thread then @Iamawomanofconstantsorrow

Thanks but I'll be ok

LittleGreenDuck · 23/09/2026 14:34

I’m glad you’ve managed to find an alternative and I hope you can now enjoy your holiday.

I’ve done similar twice. Once booked the Eiffel Tower for the wrong day, but luckily it was the day after, so we just went back the next day.

Also managed to book horse riding in the Alps. Right day, right time, wrong mountain. Given it was France, they couldn’t have given less of a shit and just shrugged. My mistake, but gutted.

In my defence, I’m responsible for booking EVERYTHING in this house and I’ve made hundreds of successful bookings. No one is perfect 👌

MookieBananas · 23/09/2026 14:34

So pleased it has been sorted. :) I once did a very similar thing. First holiday for our family in years and I misbooked dates for the accommodation. This was in Cyrpus and the very lovely hosts sorted it all out for us while I wrangled a 4 year old autistic DS and his 2 year old brother while sobbing gently.

Walkerzoo · 23/09/2026 14:35

AHH. So glad you got sorted and not the beach

Greek islands are lovely so have fun

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Halsall · 23/09/2026 14:36

TheDogsMother · 23/09/2026 14:23

Well here we are in entirely different accommodation and a bit further out but the hosts could not have been lovelier. They came to pick us up and have been amazing with all the information. Think we will need to hire a car now which we had ‘t planned to do but turning this into a positive we can really explore the island now.

Thank you for all your great suggestions and sorry to those who have had similar cock ups. It’s good to know it’s not just me.

Gosh, what a stressful experience @TheDogsMother but sending supportive vibes, and hurrah for it all working out!

CremeDeMure · 23/09/2026 14:36

We arranged to go on holiday the same week as friends, first week of the summer holiday, same as we had done for years. It was only when we got there that we realised their kids broke up a week later. We ended up on another local campsite for an unexpected second week's holiday rather than upset all the kids that they weren't getting their holiday together.

Any chance of going back next month to use the other booking?

sherbetlemonade · 23/09/2026 14:38

OP, really glad you have managed to find accommodation, and Paxos is lovely. I went there by boat years ago.

placemats · 23/09/2026 14:41

TheDogsMother · 23/09/2026 14:16

No rooms left unfortunately but the people were very lovely.

Are you getting a refund?

Dumbledora8 · 23/09/2026 14:43

Iamawomanofconstantsorrow · 23/09/2026 13:58

I think people are missing the point slightly, OP doesn't care about finding a place to stay, OP cares that they have spent money and won't get it back.

OP also only booked 'non refundable' to save money. From this I deduce that OP is ok for money because OP is preoccupied with money, and saving money, and being refunded on things they have clearly deliberately booked as 'non-refundable'. I already feel a bit sorry for the owner of the accommodation tbh

You clearly have a lot of issues and are projecting. I hope you get the help you need and find peace

Nottulip · 23/09/2026 14:44

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Iamawomanofconstantsorrow · 23/09/2026 14:45

Dumbledora8 · 23/09/2026 14:43

You clearly have a lot of issues and are projecting. I hope you get the help you need and find peace

I'm just in a bad mood, I don't think I have issues. Maybe I'm wrong

Nottulip · 23/09/2026 14:45

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Iamawomanofconstantsorrow · 23/09/2026 14:49

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I get that you don't give a shit if I'm ok, but also why shouldn't I join a thread about holidays if I'm skint?

I was responding to your advice, i.e. I acknowledge your advice, I am fine being on the thread actually, thanks.

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DaftHapeth · 23/09/2026 14:50

@TheDogsMother

Did the original accom agree to refund you?

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Guess so

PrincessFiorimonde · 23/09/2026 15:02

Glad you managed to find alternative accommodation, OP. Have a great holiday!

Livingthebestlife · 23/09/2026 15:03

Oh good excuse to go back in October ☀️🌞⛱️😎🍹🍸🧉

MotherofPufflings · 23/09/2026 15:04

CleverlyBeery · 23/09/2026 14:02

Really sorry to hear this... but would love to know more?!

Sorry to be annoying, but I'd rather not go into details because:

a) It's not super-interesting, I'm just an absolute idiot.
b) I'm still really, really upset about it and I cannot deal with other posters sticking the boot in, which they inevitably will.

I'm really happy for @TheDogsMother that they have accommodation and I hope you've also secured a refund 🤞

PS love your username - I love Ramona (although I'm more of a Beezus!)

Nottulip · 23/09/2026 15:05

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StarlightLady · 23/09/2026 15:07

TheDogsMother · 23/09/2026 14:23

Well here we are in entirely different accommodation and a bit further out but the hosts could not have been lovelier. They came to pick us up and have been amazing with all the information. Think we will need to hire a car now which we had ‘t planned to do but turning this into a positive we can really explore the island now.

Thank you for all your great suggestions and sorry to those who have had similar cock ups. It’s good to know it’s not just me.

I’m sorry this happened and pleased you are sorted even if poorer. Don’t beat yourself up though, it may not have been you. I was booking a flight once and the “click on calendar” suddenly jumped a month. Fortunately l noticed it, but that was down to luck not my scrutiny.

l stopped booking no cancellation options when l lost out during Covid. In addition, l try to get a friend to stand over me when booking anything expensive, so she can cross check.

Enjoy your holiday.