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What has happend to Darren, Mark and Lee?

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Eastie77Returns · 17/08/2026 10:10

When I was at primary school (late 80s) half the boys in the school had names like Darren, Mark and Lee. They would now be men in their late 40s/early to mid 50s but I don't hear those names much anymore. I can't remember the last time I met a Darren!

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TheImpOfThePerverse2026 · 17/08/2026 18:45

Eastie77Returns · 17/08/2026 15:09

Any footballers called Lee were invariably featured in 1990s/early 2000s tabloids where they exposed as love rats or just general wrong'uns.

See also Lee from 'The Office' 😅 So glad he lost Dawn to Tim ❤️ All the trouble makers on our local FB page are Lee's 🤨

The company I work for has employed three Darrens, they've all been fired.

Darren 1 had a coke habit
Darren 2 threatened to stab someone
Darren 3 was stealing from the company

Also had a Wayne who was friends with Darren 1; he got wasted at the work's Christmas do and knocked his own front teeth out when he fell over. The next day he came in (toothless) and accused two of his colleagues of roofy-ing him and pulling his teeth out with pliers 😱 Fortunately CCTV footage emerged of him face-planting the pavement the previous night. Wayne's teeth were never found 😬

Ribenaberry12 · 17/08/2026 18:59

Someone earlier mentioned the Rebeccas. I went to school with a Rebecca, two Beckys, a Becki a Becks and a Bex. I also know a Becky married to a Darren. 😂

Aluna · 17/08/2026 19:14

Ribenaberry12 · 17/08/2026 18:59

Someone earlier mentioned the Rebeccas. I went to school with a Rebecca, two Beckys, a Becki a Becks and a Bex. I also know a Becky married to a Darren. 😂

Yes I’m friends with 3 Rebeccas: Rebecca, Becky and Beck.

3 Sophies, 2 Emmas, 2 Kates, 1 Katie, 1 Catherine, 1 Kathy, 2 Hannahs

That’s why I’m in favour of more original names - so you don’t end up as Ella C.

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Moveoverdarlin · 17/08/2026 19:20

Eastie77Returns · 17/08/2026 10:41

Ok to claify, I am not saying there are no adult men called Darren, Lee or Mark. And I'm not claiming I've never met men with those names. That would be weird.

I was just pointing out that I come across proportionally few given that when I was a child a large number of boys had these names. I still live in the same city I grew up in. Maybe they've all moved out.

Or maybe it's because of the posh, rarefied circles I now move in😆

It’s exactly that. You mix in different circles now.

I sound the same age as you and Darren and Lees were absolute scallywags when I was at school. I don’t put Mark in to the same category as them.

User6761 · 17/08/2026 20:07

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 17/08/2026 17:05

I am always astonished that DS(17) has a friend called Ian. There’s nothing wrong with being called Ian, it’s just not a name I see very often, if at all, on the under 50s.

My 5 year old child's classmates include Allan, Doug, Colin and Katie - names that wouldn't have been out of place in my 1980s primary class!

x2boys · 17/08/2026 22:09

Ribenaberry12 · 17/08/2026 18:59

Someone earlier mentioned the Rebeccas. I went to school with a Rebecca, two Beckys, a Becki a Becks and a Bex. I also know a Becky married to a Darren. 😂

Ah yes the Rebeccas
I knew a few in my 80s childhood.

x2boys · 17/08/2026 22:12

MrsMoastyToasty · 17/08/2026 17:34

Warren.
Brother to Darren, Karen and Sharon.

Lol i shared a house when i.was a student nurse with a Sharron whose brother Darren.

Helpwithabuildingissue · 17/08/2026 22:34

On our house renovation there have been 3 Darren’s, 2 Mark’s and a Lee!

Bananacrepewithnuts · 17/08/2026 22:56

Oliwiaa · 17/08/2026 10:29

Darren and Lee are approaching their 50s now. They married Claire and Michelle respectively and their children, Callum and Ellie have just become parents to baby twins Arlo and Hudson

Love it.
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SweatyWarrenBetty · 18/08/2026 07:13

Spidey66 · 17/08/2026 12:46

Yeah. We were the top readers in the class Smile and went to each other’s houses for birthday parties. I changed to a different school for juniors though so not seen her since age 7 and I’m 60 now. I’d like to think she remembers me Smile

Tamsin Grieg is one of my absolute favourites!
Well done you! 😁

Nighthop · 18/08/2026 07:41

I was teaching then . Many Darren's and Lees but you missed Craig and Garry. For years I always had them on the class list.

Ohwhatfuckeryitistoride · 18/08/2026 09:18

And Shane, Darryl, Richard Stephen and John. John, for centuries was the most common British name, peaking in 1914, last year there were under 600 born in the UK. You dont see many baby Franks, Stewarts, Colins or Ians in England.
I like solid names, like John and Mark and Luke. But we ended up with 3 slightly pretentious ones.
I forgot Tim. I was going to be Timothy if a boy. Another reason to be glad im a woman. Think in my 60s/70s suburban Australian school id have had the shit kicked out of me regularly.

Ohwhatfuckeryitistoride · 18/08/2026 09:23

BeWarmKoala · 17/08/2026 17:11

I remember four Marks from secondary school in 1970's, 3 of them in my A level chemistry class. There seem to be lots of Danny's in their 40's a plaster and plumber we use plus two of our neighbours.

I have a 65 year old cousin Danny. What was cute in a chunky 3 year old is slightly incongruous in a 6'4" ex copper. I think Danny is more family though, everyone else call him Dan.

SweatyWarrenBetty · 18/08/2026 10:01

User6761 · 17/08/2026 20:07

My 5 year old child's classmates include Allan, Doug, Colin and Katie - names that wouldn't have been out of place in my 1980s primary class!

I thought Alan had died out.

AnitaCam · 18/08/2026 11:26

Alan has died out I think. What about Terry?! That name seems to have gone too. I thought Terry was friends with Kevin and Mark but where is he now? Did he emigrate to Menorca?

PhilosophicalCheeseSandwich · 18/08/2026 11:48

Terry and Alan are the uncles who never married and were always at your nan's house.

AnitaCam · 18/08/2026 11:51

Ha, brilliant. I hope they were wearing home knitted cardigans.

Bellaphant · 18/08/2026 12:08

MerylSqueak · 17/08/2026 10:33

Simon also.

In my class at secondary, we had two Simons, two Darren's, two Stephens, two Ian's and a Mark, a Neil and a Lee.

In 25 years working in Secondary, I haven't come across any of those names apart from Mark.

Edited

Nah, they are at church. Had a meeting with 10 people the other week, 2 were called Simon, at least 20 years apart.

AnitaCam · 18/08/2026 12:13

So is Simon the opposite of Lee.. interesting!

Allmarbleslost · 18/08/2026 13:04

NoCommentingFromNowOn · 17/08/2026 10:33

Darren is now a plumber.

Lee is a grifter.

And Mark is in my heart as Mark from Flambards, one of my first loves.

The one Darren I know is actually a plumber 😂

User6761 · 18/08/2026 13:46

PhilosophicalCheeseSandwich · 18/08/2026 11:48

Terry and Alan are the uncles who never married and were always at your nan's house.

That's what I thought. But turns out Allan is preparing for his next venture (Year 1) 😂

Abhannmor · 19/08/2026 10:20

I wouldn't write Nigel off. He seems to have regenerated in Ireland. Years ago an English friend called Nigel was working in a Dublin factory and bought a ticket for a Christmas raffle. Guy asked his name - 'Nigel' - and walks away. ' Ere , don't ya want me surname?' Yer man : nah don't worry there's no other Nigels in Cabra , pal.

I wouldn't bank on it now pal . There was even a Nigel running for the council as a Sinn Féin candidate.

Organicsunflower · 19/08/2026 15:27

Abhannmor · 19/08/2026 10:20

I wouldn't write Nigel off. He seems to have regenerated in Ireland. Years ago an English friend called Nigel was working in a Dublin factory and bought a ticket for a Christmas raffle. Guy asked his name - 'Nigel' - and walks away. ' Ere , don't ya want me surname?' Yer man : nah don't worry there's no other Nigels in Cabra , pal.

I wouldn't bank on it now pal . There was even a Nigel running for the council as a Sinn Féin candidate.

It seems quintessentially English, but in fact Nigel is derived from the Irish name Niall.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nigel

YoungSoak · 19/08/2026 15:38

Gary is near extinction too. One day the children of today will ask, “Mama, what is a Gary?”

EBearhug · 19/08/2026 16:05

Today, there has been lots of Chrises- I don't know if they're Christophers or Christians.

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