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Help me with some good replies for rude men

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petitpasta · 13/08/2026 14:47

Twice recently I've had negative comments from men when in gym gear.

For context I have lost nearly 9 stone and have joined two gyms and am enjoying weights, yoga, pilates and circuit classes. I'm still overweight and am still losing weight slowly. I'm a size 16 (down from a size 28 two years ago)

The first comment was in a shop when I called in to pick up a parcel on my way to a class. A man said "think you need to spend a bit more time in the gym love" and laughed at me. I couldn't come up with a clever comment but told him to fuck off.

The latest one was outside my house when I was heading out for a weights class and the guy laughed and said "don't think the gym is working for you sweetheart". The only thing I could come up with was to say "I'm getting more exercise than your brain is".

I'm not really bothered by the comments - they say a lot more about the men making them than they do me - but I would like a few more putdowns for these stupid men because I think they should be shamed for their comments and I think they're banking on me / women being too embarrassed to reply.

So, any good comebacks please?

OP posts:
SemiRetiredLoveGoddeess · 14/08/2026 18:46

How about. You need to look at yourself

  1. You ugly get.
  2. You sad bastard
  3. Jimmy 10 bellies
  4. Quasimodo.
  5. You are not fit to kiss my arse. Do one.

The list is endless.

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