What's the most attractive thing a man has done unintentionally?

[worldshottestmom]

Can be your DH/DP/random man. I'm single, so my instances will be of a random man.

When I was at work recently, a man who works there, who is really chatty with me, asked me how my birthday was and idk why but it was such a turn on. Literally no-one else remembered, and I don't expect them to as I don't make a fuss of it, so the fact he remembered it was just really attractive. The bar is in hell guys, pray for me.

Another time was a few months ago; we had a contractor come in to work to fix the lift. We let on and asked how each other is etc, I mentioned being annoyed as I hadn't been able to take a break yet after 6 hours work, so he said go for your break and if anyone says anything he will sort them out. Already a turn on. I go for my break, come back and he is arguing with my manager that I should have had a break by now because of working so long etc. I think I may keep breaking the lift in hopes that he comes back.

Making this thread as I've been on a lot of threads today that ended up being really negative and want a shred of positivity on my Friday night - so, what is the most unintentionally attractive thing that a man has done that you found attractive?

Down, girl!

Rugger buggers also tend to be misogynistic twats. Just saying.

OP, you really need to get yourself a good vibrator! 🤣

Oh God yes, there's nothing sexier than a man who can deal with your period.

In my experience, there's a clear divide between men on this point. Those who went to state school will happily have sex on your period. (One memorable chap said he wasn't going to waste 25% of our time together.) And another - or might have been the same one - said it felt different.

And public-school educated men, friends, shriek like little girls and run a mile from having sex on a period.

My abusive exH has truly ruined all faith I ever had in men. I can't think of a single thing a man could do that would make me think he's hot or a good bet. At least, not an in-the-moment thing. I suppose someone could still earn my trust slowly over a long period. But, sadly, on reading many of these posts, I've got a little voice in my head saying "You do realise he only did XY in front of you/for you so that he could get into your knickers."

And I used to be such a romantic, before my horrible marriage.

He loves animals and I saw him being very kind for 40 minutes to a disabled sheep on a farm once. (We were visiting a local farm as it had an open day.)

And he moved in with his dad for 18 months, as the dad had Alzheimer's.

And he takes very good care of his niece, who has special needs.

None of this stopped him being an absolute bastard to his wife. Everyone thinks he's marvellous. His bad side is saved only for his spouse.

So forgive me if I read a lot of these stories with a cynical eye.

I strongly agree, and I've been noticing this a lot lately in real life, but I'm still enjoying the thread and finding it heartwarming.

This is a lovely, light-hearted thread. Please can we keep the funny stories coming - they've really made me laugh!

Agree!!!

Why are there Thread Police on every thread these days? People can say what they want, and you can keep scrolling.

In 2007 my husband, 11 year old son and I were having a break in Paris

Husband and son went through the turnstile at the Metro and didn't notice that it hadnt worked for me and I was stuck.

This absolutely handsome French businessman in a dapper suit lifted me up, went through the turnstile and set me down on the other side saying good morning

(Awaits some posters telling me I was abused, in truth I was quite chuffed 😅)

Yes and as an extension just maturity in general. Dealing with periods, illness, stuff like that in a laidback and understanding way. Not being all awkward about contraception/sex and bigger conversations.

I remember an OP posting on here upset as she had slept with a colleague (who IIRC was quite flirty with her for a while beforehand) who was then super awkward and distant with her when she next saw him at work. I remember thinking what a turn off that would be for me and many saying similar. It’s just a display of being uptight and immature.

I don’t find rugby players that hot or even masculine! I totally accept others do, but the ones I’ve known have all been quite vain and even camp in their own way? Their physical prowess on the field didn’t seem to then translate into being good at any other physical ‘manly’ tasks.

I think the hottest men are in ‘service’ type jobs as there’s that element of responsibility and dealing with people confidently that appeals to me.

Lucky we’re all different!
Men who fix things are for me the sexiest especially as they just can’t help fixing things.
Current squeeze is ex/rugby and ex/army and also an ex/exec chef.
Fixes stuff.
Tender and affectionate.

My friend is a doctor. We were on the same flight (not going anywhere together) and someone took ill and he jumped in and did doctory things. I’d never thought of him as attractive but at that moment I saw him in a different light. Didn’t last - he’s back to being my geeky friend with no lustful thoughts

Was reading this thread and thinking “hey, I do most of these things without thinking” and as just part of my natural being.

It’ll definitely give me a bit of a bounce today and encouragement to keep on doing what I’m doing. Thank you.

We've found one of the good guys!

If you're a rugby player I wish you a fantastic day

Ill just use s good forearm, even better

Tbh I would probably never date an athlete as all the ones ive met are really obnoxious, but I do quite like gawping at them as they are in motion 😍

How awful to write of a whole ‘category’ of people.

This is going to sound odd, but my ex was completely helpless all the time, always asking me what to do, making me think and solve all the problems.

I therefore found it very attractive when someone I was on a date with handled an issue without me even noticing. It was a lost ticket, not a major issue, but could have derailed the evening. Without mentioning to me, he went and found the appropriate person, sorted a new ticket and the evening continued smoothly. Just handled, without me even noticing the hiccup until after. Very smooth sir.

😂

I ain't taking any risks after last time

I need somebody like this tbh cos I get so easily overwhelmed. We love a smooth operator