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Henry Nowak second thread, as requested.

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rolloverbeethoven · Yesterday 14:21

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Chiapotayto · Yesterday 21:26

Corianda · Yesterday 21:24

Because we, including the police, are not allowed to comment on anything to do with immigrants or minority groups. We HAVE to be kind - so the police were kind in this case to the member of the minority group, unfortunately he was the killer.

What is wrong with being kind to other people? Not every immigrant is a danger.

summermidnightsun · Yesterday 21:28

Sunglade · Yesterday 20:38

I know it doesn't add up. If he'd just been stabbed and was presumably visibly unwell, obviously not posing a threat of any kind to anyone why was he restrained at all? It seems overreeactive policing to an accusation of offensive language without any evidence. I don't think it's even the done thing to handcuff someone if they're being sweary etc unless there's a good chance of escalation or someone getting hurt.
There are other things which don't make sense like the murderer calling the police, too. Honestly such a weird case, and such a tragedy.

It was the murderer’s brother who called the police. To report Henry for a ‘racial attack’

JaneFondue · Yesterday 21:28

Corianda · Yesterday 21:24

Because we, including the police, are not allowed to comment on anything to do with immigrants or minority groups. We HAVE to be kind - so the police were kind in this case to the member of the minority group, unfortunately he was the killer.

The perpetrator was British. He didn't come here on a boat. Sikhs came to fight for the British in two wars and contributed hugely to this country. Their crime rate is tiny.

Comparisons to illegal immigrants are deeply distasteful and offensive to those of us from ethnic minorities who are as British as you.

SnappyQuoter · Yesterday 21:31

Corianda · Yesterday 21:18

I blame the Gov - why do we hear nothing and see nothing of the boats arriving daily - I suspect it is shut down by the Gov, perhaps they warn the media to leave it as they think it causes anti immigration rhetoric.
Where I live there are weekly protests about the immigrants housed in the very nice local hotels - but you wouldn't know - nothing is reported even though police are brought in (as it's a small town) to police them each Sat night.
The Gov are forcing people to be 'kind' (to ethnic minorities), including the police. It's becoming a tinder box and we will have a Reform Gov if they don't sort this out.

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What have boats or illegal immigrants got to do with this? Do you know nothing about Sikhs?

They are here because we invaded them. The anglo-Sikh wars. The British east India company invaded them, and won, dethroned their (14 year old) Maharaja and exiled him back to Britain. Thats what started Sikhs settling here. They fought with us as allies in both world wars. Then in the 50s, we brought loads over to fill labour shortages. And Sikhs integrated, and become solid parts of our communities. They don’t have a history of violence, religious or otherwise, they don’t have gangs running around or cause racial tensions or try to impose their own religious laws. Sikhs have literally never been an issue in Britain - after we attacked them and brought them here.
Sikhs are not illegal immigrants. They don’t “come over here and take over our laws” or whatever you think they are doing. They don’t come in small boats. How is this related to immigration?

The man who committed this crime was born and raised in Britain. He is more British than I am; I wasn’t born here - but I’m white with British family so you’d be ok with me, right?

SnappyQuoter · Yesterday 21:32

Corianda · Yesterday 21:24

Because we, including the police, are not allowed to comment on anything to do with immigrants or minority groups. We HAVE to be kind - so the police were kind in this case to the member of the minority group, unfortunately he was the killer.

They are not immigrants. What are you talking about?

Corianda · Yesterday 21:33

Its not about the Sikh man it's about the attitude of the police to minority groups which is different now to their attitude to the non minority group

JaneFondue · Yesterday 21:35

So fucking offensive. Anybody who is brown or black is now apparently an illegal immigrant. But anyone who looks white is fine! So Albanian criminal gangs: fine. Windrush people; not fine.

SnappyQuoter · Yesterday 21:35

Corianda · Yesterday 21:33

Its not about the Sikh man it's about the attitude of the police to minority groups which is different now to their attitude to the non minority group

That’s not at all what your comment was about. Your comment was about small boats and immigration. Can you explain what that has to do with this man or the wider Sikh community, most of whom came here in the 50s and 60s because we needed the workforce, and the Sikhs we talk about today are their children and grandchildren (with some new migration by visa).

SnappyQuoter · Yesterday 21:42

@Corianda
Oh, and those immigrants housed in “really nice hotels” are not housed in really nice hotels. They are housed in former nice hotels which have been converted into dormitories.

But I’d really like to know what immigrants (illegal I assume you mean) have to do with this?

Fizbosshoes · Yesterday 21:43

Sunglade · Yesterday 20:38

I know it doesn't add up. If he'd just been stabbed and was presumably visibly unwell, obviously not posing a threat of any kind to anyone why was he restrained at all? It seems overreeactive policing to an accusation of offensive language without any evidence. I don't think it's even the done thing to handcuff someone if they're being sweary etc unless there's a good chance of escalation or someone getting hurt.
There are other things which don't make sense like the murderer calling the police, too. Honestly such a weird case, and such a tragedy.

I suspect that maybe they called the police as a cover story, in case someone else had already called an ambulance. So that there was a log of them saying they had been racially abused.

But agree it made no sense to restrain or handcuffs him when he posed no threat and couldnt move or breathe....even if they believed he had attacked them... he could have presumably had medical attention and had a police escort to hospital if they thought he was a risk, or guilty of a crime

JaneFondue · Yesterday 21:43

SnappyQuoter · Yesterday 21:35

That’s not at all what your comment was about. Your comment was about small boats and immigration. Can you explain what that has to do with this man or the wider Sikh community, most of whom came here in the 50s and 60s because we needed the workforce, and the Sikhs we talk about today are their children and grandchildren (with some new migration by visa).

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Yes. There have been a number of posts today equating Sikhs with small boats.
Vile.

FrankieMcGrath · Yesterday 21:46

5MinuteArgument · Yesterday 18:44

Yes, and then when Henry says he's been stabbed, the police officer says 'No, you haven't mate', without having checked him over.

Police training must be really warped for them to react like that, treating the accusation of racism with top priority and the stabbing as less important. The bodycam showed the killer was perfectly fine and on his feet while Henry was slumped on the floor obviously very unwell. Yet they treated Henry as the assailant who needed to be subdued.

At the very least, police training needs a thorough review.

This. The whole thing is devastating & I’m so sad & sorry for Henry & his parents. Heartbreaking.

All the officers involved need to be sacked & prosecuted for dereliction of duty (if that’s possible).

Corianda · Yesterday 21:48

SnappyQuoter · Yesterday 21:42

@Corianda
Oh, and those immigrants housed in “really nice hotels” are not housed in really nice hotels. They are housed in former nice hotels which have been converted into dormitories.

But I’d really like to know what immigrants (illegal I assume you mean) have to do with this?

This Sikh man was believed and sympathised with by the police because he was a member of an ethnic minority - this attitude is demanded by the Gov because there was strong criticism of the many immigrants who have been allowed to come here, (often due to the numbers) and the Gov think this criticism must be clamped down on so that has resulted in police being trained to be sympathetic to minority groups and no criticism is allowed. If the immigrants had not arrived and the boats did not cross the channel there would be no training of police to sympathise with ethnic minorities and they might have acted differently towards the dead victim.

TooBigForMyBoots · Yesterday 21:54

Sunglade · Yesterday 21:18

That an entire family could be so mentally defective to think this would fly in court

I totally agree and mentioned it to DC today. At some point the police were going to realise that Henry Novak had been stabbed multiple times and then the lies would come tumbling down.Confused

SnappyQuoter · Yesterday 21:56

Corianda · Yesterday 21:48

This Sikh man was believed and sympathised with by the police because he was a member of an ethnic minority - this attitude is demanded by the Gov because there was strong criticism of the many immigrants who have been allowed to come here, (often due to the numbers) and the Gov think this criticism must be clamped down on so that has resulted in police being trained to be sympathetic to minority groups and no criticism is allowed. If the immigrants had not arrived and the boats did not cross the channel there would be no training of police to sympathise with ethnic minorities and they might have acted differently towards the dead victim.

You’re so close to getting it.

This is a police training issue and a blind to the problems government issue (the previous one and this one).

It is not the fault of the people who come to the country. The blame lies solely with police training and government mandates, and party with societies behaviour as a whole.

It is not an immigration issue.

You’ve mentioned small boats - nothing to do with Sikhs.
Illegal immigration - nothing to do with Sikhs.
hotel converted into quite uncomfortable dormitories - nothing to do with Sikhs.

But given your comment about luxury hotels, you are clearly extremely ill informed and this is simple, old fashioned racism rather than your opinions being formed by actual fact. Maybe get some of those facts. I’m sure you had no idea that the Sikh community had a different immigration history to the current economic migrants. I hope you’ve at least taken that on board.

I am not dismissing the issues of immigration; there are a lot, especially for those communities with huge numbers being housed for processing. But you really need to actually learn about it, starting with your false narrative that they stay in luxury hotels. Those hotels have been converted into dormitories to fit as many as possible - it is not luxury or comfortable. The meals are not luxury. They do not qualify for benefits or financial support beyond a small payment of £10 a week (this may have changed).

I assume you are an adult with a brain. Start using it. You can start with not mentioning immigrants again when talking about what happened to this boy.

Bluehouse14 · Yesterday 21:57

roxyro · Yesterday 20:14

I do think the point made on the other thread about how maybe Digwa was believed because he is sikh. A prison officer on twitter was saying she’s only ever seen 4 sikh inmates, if you are on the sharp end of policing it may be that Digwa didn’t match their notion of an offender or were wary of dealing with anything involving an accusation of racism.

Whilst I acknowledge that Sikhs are for the most part a decent, law abiding community, there is another side of that community that plays out largely within that community.

Watching 24 hours in police custody “Murder of DPD driver” (still available on ch 4) there is violence with weapons. The attack by a gang on another Sikh was horrendous. Seems to be a lot of violence and inter Sikh rivalry especially around some game they play (rugby ish).

It’s an eye opener for sure.

Hi, my very sikh grandparents emigrated here after the war in the 50s to bulk out the workforce. This, as other posters have mentioned, was very encouraged by the uk government. They were incredibly hardworking. My grandad worked 18 hour days in a factory, one day a stupid racist white man hit him on the head and my grandad got sacked after working for less money and for longer. Sikhs are in fact well known for being exceeding generous and kind people. Crime rate very low. Your comment about violence and interrivalry within Sikhs is ignorant racist uneducated uncultured nonsense. What happened to Henry was absolutely disgusting. Do not attempt to taint an entire culture and religion by the action of one man. Did you also used to say 'now...Im sure not not all muslims are terrorists but....'

JaneFondue · Yesterday 21:58

Corianda · Yesterday 21:48

This Sikh man was believed and sympathised with by the police because he was a member of an ethnic minority - this attitude is demanded by the Gov because there was strong criticism of the many immigrants who have been allowed to come here, (often due to the numbers) and the Gov think this criticism must be clamped down on so that has resulted in police being trained to be sympathetic to minority groups and no criticism is allowed. If the immigrants had not arrived and the boats did not cross the channel there would be no training of police to sympathise with ethnic minorities and they might have acted differently towards the dead victim.

What? So are the police also being trained to be sympathetic to Polish people? Or Albanians? They are also ethnic minorities.

Fixydodah · Yesterday 22:08

The murderer’s brother is a piece of shit. At court today, look at him smirking.

Henry Nowak second thread, as requested.
SnappyQuoter · Yesterday 22:11

Fixydodah · Yesterday 22:08

The murderer’s brother is a piece of shit. At court today, look at him smirking.

That whole family are a stain. Something very very wrong with them, weapon obsessed, conscience free liars.
News yesterday said the erupted with shouting when Digwa was convicted yesterday, and argued with Henry’s family. They’re despicable.

roxyro · Yesterday 22:12

Bluehouse14 · Yesterday 21:57

Hi, my very sikh grandparents emigrated here after the war in the 50s to bulk out the workforce. This, as other posters have mentioned, was very encouraged by the uk government. They were incredibly hardworking. My grandad worked 18 hour days in a factory, one day a stupid racist white man hit him on the head and my grandad got sacked after working for less money and for longer. Sikhs are in fact well known for being exceeding generous and kind people. Crime rate very low. Your comment about violence and interrivalry within Sikhs is ignorant racist uneducated uncultured nonsense. What happened to Henry was absolutely disgusting. Do not attempt to taint an entire culture and religion by the action of one man. Did you also used to say 'now...Im sure not not all muslims are terrorists but....'

Yet here you are calling me uncultured, ignorant, racist, uneducated. You know nothing about me but I know what I know and I have at no point said Sikhs aren’t hardworking or ungenerous. Additionally I have never said “all Muslims are terrorists” so take a breath and calm down. There is and has historically been violence within the Sikh community which doesn’t spill over into the general population. This is a bigger problem amongst young Sikh men currently.

JaneFondue · Yesterday 22:14

SnappyQuoter · Yesterday 22:11

That whole family are a stain. Something very very wrong with them, weapon obsessed, conscience free liars.
News yesterday said the erupted with shouting when Digwa was convicted yesterday, and argued with Henry’s family. They’re despicable.

Agree. They seem to be hardened criminals skilled at manipulation of the police and possibly others.

Weeallthewayhome · Yesterday 22:16

Justsittingbythefan · Yesterday 21:01

Absolutely awful case on par with the George Floyd case imo, just cannot understand how they could treat someone who even gave a hint of being unwell like this let alone someone who was actually dying in the process of being murdered. Even
if he had been perfectly well, why were they needing to act in such a heavy handed manner in the first place when he clearly wasn’t running away or being aggressive, I could understand if a crowd of people had just accused him of murdering someone (and he was completely well) but this seems completely over the top. Is this standard practice for the police? My heart goes out to his family who must be livid and heartbroken beyond anything I can imagine, I really hope something comes of this to make sure it can never happen again

Absolutely no comparison between a career criminal with a string of convictions who’d held a pregnant woman at gun point and that bewildered child faintly saying he’d been stabbed. None.

Absolutely no comparison with the global
madness of hysterical violence and rioting that was allowed almost unchecked after Floyd and the OTT police provocation and brutality tonight. Where were their knees and compassion?

Absolutely no comparison between that craven hypocrite Starmer taking the knee and the unutterable cowardice of him not being in Southampton tonight to face the consequences of his two-tier favouritism.

I am shaking I am so angry and sad for that boy, his family and this land that was once the home of fairness and decency.

Fixydodah · Yesterday 22:20

Although this news story for me is about the failure of the police to act with intelligence and empathy, believing racism trumps someone lying on the ground telling them he couldn’t breathe, this murdering and lying family certainly put paid to my previous view that Sikh’s are a peaceful and law abiding people. This lot killed, lied, covered up and stockpiled weapons, smirked outside court, and shouted at the victim’s family after the court case. They have done a disservice to other Sikh’s but that is for that community to navigate. I only care about white people now, because we are second class now. I am done. As are a lot of people.

SnappyQuoter · Yesterday 22:23

Fixydodah · Yesterday 22:20

Although this news story for me is about the failure of the police to act with intelligence and empathy, believing racism trumps someone lying on the ground telling them he couldn’t breathe, this murdering and lying family certainly put paid to my previous view that Sikh’s are a peaceful and law abiding people. This lot killed, lied, covered up and stockpiled weapons, smirked outside court, and shouted at the victim’s family after the court case. They have done a disservice to other Sikh’s but that is for that community to navigate. I only care about white people now, because we are second class now. I am done. As are a lot of people.

Digwa was banned from his Gurdwara. The temple did not want him due to his behaviour and aggression. This man is not a representative of the Sikh religion. The leadership at his temple expelled him.

He was also reported for stealing ceremonial weapons two years ago, but the police made the decision not to arrest him.

JaneFondue · Yesterday 22:24

Fixydodah · Yesterday 22:20

Although this news story for me is about the failure of the police to act with intelligence and empathy, believing racism trumps someone lying on the ground telling them he couldn’t breathe, this murdering and lying family certainly put paid to my previous view that Sikh’s are a peaceful and law abiding people. This lot killed, lied, covered up and stockpiled weapons, smirked outside court, and shouted at the victim’s family after the court case. They have done a disservice to other Sikh’s but that is for that community to navigate. I only care about white people now, because we are second class now. I am done. As are a lot of people.

One Sikh commits a crime and you are done? Did you give up on white people after Wayne Couzens?

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