Would you ever have a ONS?

[ij1828]

Say like a guy in the club you really fancied.

Would you?

Probs

Not now, no I wouldn't.

Wdym not now

This feels very much like Déjà vu 🤔

Ew, no. You crack on, I just couldn't.

Shitloads of them.

But I'm done with men now. Ugh.

Why? Overrated?

I have nothing against them on principle, but I don’t think I could. I just don’t feel able to be intimate with a stranger.

Yeah, why?

I've shagged and married and met enough men to realise I don't need to shag or marry any more.

TBH if I never had to meet any again I'd be happy enough.

Back in the day when I wasn't a jaded perimenopausal old crone I enjoyed myself well enough.

Just seems crazy to me that people would get that intimate with a stranger

Not now because I'm married but during my single days? Absolutely and I did.

You do you, boo. There’s nothing wrong with consensual sex, as long as you’re safe 🤷🏼‍♀️

Is it even worth it?

Is drunk sex really consueal?

Have you started this thread to judge over women?

I feel like this since kind of last year but especially this year. Def the age, sadly although in some ways I’m not bothered by that, and accepting it.

So you don’t feel like you can go out on the town and pull?

I certainly did a few times. They are very nice memories. It was quite thrilling and exciting, I didn't regret them at all. I'm probably unlikely to have any more now I'm older (and married/ with kids).

I've had loads, and am glad I did 🤷🏽‍♀️

Yup. It got deleted last time, but they’re clearly very determined.

Why?

Surely it’s underwhelming

Because i had fun.

Why do you do anything?