Would you ever have a ONS?

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Say like a guy in the club you really fancied.

It seems crazy to me that you've never experienced immediate sexual attraction

It seems crazy to you, but you’d ’probs’ do it?

Fascinating.

I regret each ONS as I've got older. That's one thing I wish I could change about my past.

Never have and never will now. Don't know why really as I was quite good looking in my twenties so probs could have, just not my thing really. Missed out a bit I guess!

I hardly ever meet a man I want to fuck immediately but when I do

Yum

I have but not enough to go home with a random stranger

Then you haven't

The feeling of just needing to have them now no matter what is a beautiful thing

Not now, but only because I married the last one I had ☺️

ONS? For me they were. A bit of fun, a good shag but no commitment which is exactly what I wanted at the time.

Im too chicken! I just would worry 1) they'll have super gonorrhea or something that would affect me forever. 2) I dont know them enough to know they arent with someone/ married 3) what if they are violent /scary/ going to secretly film us/porn sick / manospherey

Its fun op. Try it!

Why would you imagine that?

It could also be thrilling and passionate, and the start of something deep and lasting. Or a memory you will always cherish.

You might regret not taking chances, living life to the fullest.

No, never.

You know what's even better? When a ONS gets in touch ages later because he had such a good time 😉

No, but not for any judgemental reasons. I don't care what anyone else does or think its disgusting or anything

I don't like touching strangers. I couldn't get turned on by a stranger

Thought this was going to be about the Office for National Statistics at first glance.

Not had many dealings with them but I’ve shagged quite a few blokes in my time who I’ve not been in a relationship with 🤷‍♀️

Had a cracker. Ended up marrying really young so I’m glad I squeezed him in. I wouldn’t have hesitated to have more (using condoms) had circumstances arisen that were propitious.

Actually it was quite empowering. One friend of a friend was visiting from Norway and he was this insanely tall 6ft 7 man and attractive, and obviously heading home shortly. i wouldn't have wanted to date him even without being in different countries as he was a couple of years younger and at times I could feel that come across mentally, but I was definitely attracted to him physically and I loved his accent. It feels a bit scandalous to go in with sex just for fun like that, but it can really give you a buzz. It's like safe naughty.

Sorry, who mentioned being drunk? And tbf, that’s very judgemental of you, like you’re suggesting every bloke is a predator looking for a ‘drunk’ woman to take advantage of. Women are also responsible for how intoxicated they get, if that impacts their judgement.

Would not and have not, ever!

Wouldn't the sex be rubbish with someone you didn't know well?

Everyone's a stranger at first

Had plenty of ONS and some were fantastic and some not so. A bit like dates and relationships! Sex can often be great with someone you don’t know, pure sexual chemistry and no inhibitions as you won’t see them again.

A friend of mine is still with her delicious, French, excellent cook, palaeontologist, one night stand a decade later.
I loathe all the Rules shit. If a man thinks a woman who shags him first time they meet is “lesser” then I see that as a handy hygiene mechanism. They are taking the rubbish out with them when the door slams on their arse on the way out.

I find it far easier to let myself go on a ONS than with my long term partner! I don't want him to see my freak.