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Facebook comments on crossing the channel and dead children

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Wolverine23 · 03/05/2026 14:47

Im shocked whatever one’s opinion on immigrants the laughing comments on dead children is truly horrific. One lady says best thing I’ve read all week’ !one click in her profile and it shows she’s a mum with kid herself. This is the ITV news page! I don’t even recognize this country anymore?

the amount of horrible comments. They are children, human beings. Truly horrific times we are heading into with a lack of empathy I thought I’d never seen given the history of WW2 as I said whatever opinions are on the Boats laughing at dead children and the comments is unsettling

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bigboykitty · 03/05/2026 17:06

It will be the same morons laughing who voted for Brexit and caused this problem with boats in the first place. You know, the ones calling people clowns and sheep if they're not voting Reform. The ones with all the spelling and grammar mistakes. And 11 teeth.

MaidMiriam · 03/05/2026 17:08

usedtobeaylis · 03/05/2026 17:03

'Fighting age men' has to be one of the worst phrases ever tossed into refugee and asylum discourse.

Yes, it's vile isn't it?

BerryTwister · 03/05/2026 17:09

BippityBopper · 03/05/2026 16:51

Regardless of if they are deemed "valuable members of society" laughing at the death of innocent children is not justifiable. People can be as angry as hey like about the situation, but the hateful comments are sadistic and inhumane.

@BippityBopper indeed they are. As I said, I’m not justifying it, I’m explaining it. People under pressure do hateful things. In Nazi Germany people turned on their friends and neighbours. Successive governments have allowed us to sleepwalk into this situation.

ilovesooty · 03/05/2026 17:11

MabelRoyds · 03/05/2026 16:26

Connect the dots and you might discover life makes more sense to you. Or, just attack people you don’t understand, I guess that’s easier.

I don't want to understand people who laugh about dead women and children or people who excuse that behaviour.

ProudAmberTurtle · 03/05/2026 17:15

TheFairyCaravan · 03/05/2026 17:05

So Utopia 56, the French Organisation for Refugees who have said one victim was 16 and one was 20 are lying? Ok!

The ITV News report specifically says both the victims are believed to be in their 20s

ilovesooty · 03/05/2026 17:16

ProudAmberTurtle · 03/05/2026 17:15

The ITV News report specifically says both the victims are believed to be in their 20s

And people were still laughing about their deaths and we have posters here excusing it.

ProudAmberTurtle · 03/05/2026 17:21

ilovesooty · 03/05/2026 17:16

And people were still laughing about their deaths and we have posters here excusing it.

I haven't seen anyone excuse it.

But lying about people who have just died - calling them children when they are in their 20s - in order to score political points is sick and is disrespectful to the two who died.

Am surprised Mumsnet hasn't deleted this thread given the misinformation that's on it, and what it's clearly trying to achieve.

I'm bowing out and won't be contributing to it anymore.

TheFairyCaravan · 03/05/2026 17:27

ProudAmberTurtle · 03/05/2026 17:15

The ITV News report specifically says both the victims are believed to be in their 20s

And other news reports specifically say the victims are aged 16 and 20.

MissyB1 · 03/05/2026 17:40

MabelRoyds · 03/05/2026 16:26

Connect the dots and you might discover life makes more sense to you. Or, just attack people you don’t understand, I guess that’s easier.

Right an adult stabbing other adults is directly related to children dying in the sea - and that means it’s absolutely hilarious. Yeah we see what kind of person you are don’t worry 🤮

Stirabout · 03/05/2026 18:23

MabelRoyds · 03/05/2026 16:37

I see you eschew insights other than those lacking nuance.

let’s hope it brings you joy and solves all the complex issues at play here to think merely in polarisations.

Deflecting from racism.

WednesdaysChild73 · 03/05/2026 18:32

I have screenshot and sent to employers before

Januarybluesss · 03/05/2026 18:38

There are very few “children” arriving on these boats. The absolute vast majority are adult men. Not women. Not children. Most of them are not from war torn countries. They’re also uneducated with no background checks etc. People are incredibly naive to the true situation. These are not starving refugees from war torn countries 🤣

Jamesblonde2 · 03/05/2026 18:41

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usedtobeaylis · 03/05/2026 18:41

Januarybluesss · 03/05/2026 18:38

There are very few “children” arriving on these boats. The absolute vast majority are adult men. Not women. Not children. Most of them are not from war torn countries. They’re also uneducated with no background checks etc. People are incredibly naive to the true situation. These are not starving refugees from war torn countries 🤣

People who bang on most about how most of them are men have never seemed to stop and actually ask what the figures are, or why, or read any of the research done into who travels and why and what the objective is. They just guess and ascribe the worst possible motivations.

usedtobeaylis · 03/05/2026 18:42

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Do you really know what you do if you felt desperate? What makes you so different to every other parent who thought they would never do it either?

Jamesblonde2 · 03/05/2026 18:42

Those ages. So they’re not children then. Old enough to marry.

Jamesblonde2 · 03/05/2026 18:44

usedtobeaylis · 03/05/2026 18:42

Do you really know what you do if you felt desperate? What makes you so different to every other parent who thought they would never do it either?

The ages are now known. They’re not children.

Well apparently they’re all desperate…..yeah ok.

And all the while areas around the U.K. are turning into complete shit holes.

Januarybluesss · 03/05/2026 18:45

Go and live in a rough area with a high majority of brand new migrants and come back and tell us how wonderful it is 🤣
If you live in a nice middle class area where the only immigrants you encounter are decent hardworking people who actually want to integrate, then you have absolutely no idea what it’s really like.

emuloc · 03/05/2026 18:45

Januarybluesss · 03/05/2026 18:38

There are very few “children” arriving on these boats. The absolute vast majority are adult men. Not women. Not children. Most of them are not from war torn countries. They’re also uneducated with no background checks etc. People are incredibly naive to the true situation. These are not starving refugees from war torn countries 🤣

How do you know that they are uneducated?

LiviaDrusillaAugusta · 03/05/2026 18:47

usedtobeaylis · 03/05/2026 15:40

I agree. The visibility of Alan Kurdi should have changed everything but instead society has become ever more vicious.

I had no idea who Alan Kurdi was. I watch the news daily and it completely passed me by.

Ultimately, whatever the moral arguments (and I don’t get frothy about the small boat, I don’t care either way), the parents chose to take the risk and it doesn’t always pay off. Sad but true.

ilovesooty · 03/05/2026 18:47

emuloc · 03/05/2026 18:45

How do you know that they are uneducated?

I doubt if she knows anything at all.

emuloc · 03/05/2026 18:50

ilovesooty · 03/05/2026 18:47

I doubt if she knows anything at all.

This.

usedtobeaylis · 03/05/2026 18:53

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usedtobeaylis · 03/05/2026 18:56

Jamesblonde2 · 03/05/2026 18:44

The ages are now known. They’re not children.

Well apparently they’re all desperate…..yeah ok.

And all the while areas around the U.K. are turning into complete shit holes.

I don't care what their age is, you were the one smug in your certainty that you'd never do what millions of people throughout history have done because you're super special for reasons known only to yourself.

I'd rather live next door to my migrant neighbours than you and your snotty nose, that's for sure.

LiviaDrusillaAugusta · 03/05/2026 18:58

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You know your experience isn’t necessarily the same as other areas? Telling someone to ‘go fuck themselves’ for daring to express a different experience risks sounding a little unhinged.

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