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Strange things that give you a kind of "ick" in everyday life

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CariahMary · 23/11/2025 16:39

I don't mean getting the "ick" about a sexual or romantic partner. And I don't mean being put-off by things that are actually pretty grim. I mean random things that you inexplicably find a bit off-putting in everyday life.

For me, I get a kind of "ick" when I read other people talking about food on forums MN I honestly had no idea why. It's so odd, I really like reading food descriptions in books but in forums I find it really off-putting.

In the real-world, I also really hate opening other people's fridges. They always smell weird (different from my own). I have to hold my breath.

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floppybit · 25/11/2025 00:14

BauhausOfEliott · 23/11/2025 18:18

People eating lunches at work that they’ve brought in from home

Babies/toddlers with food on their faces

Chewing gum in any context whatsoever. It looks gross, sounds gross and absolutely fucking stinks

People who say they ‘devour’ books or read ‘voraciously’

People describing food as ‘yummy’

Seeing people apply hand cream

Any form of contact with other people’s hair, especially if it’s frizzy

Weak handshakes

People who push their food around the plate before taking a bite

People being scared of pigeons

The term ‘cosplay’

Tomato juice

Hairdressers who handle your hair in a feeble way

Shop assistants in clothes shops who fold things in that sort of limp, listless manner

The Headspace app

The funeral director who kept referring to my dad’s ashes by my dad’s name, eg “And then we’ll contact you to let you know when John is here for you to collect” or “You might wish to scatter John in the garden of remembrance”

The word ‘play’ as a noun (unless referring to a theatrical performance), eg ‘Imaginative play is important for children’

HCPs saying ‘baby’ instead of ‘the baby’ or ‘your baby’, as in ‘When baby needs to feed,’ or ‘We’ll just need to check baby’s heart’

Referring to all technology and tech-related activities as ‘screens’ or worse ‘screen’, eg “How much screen should I allow”

Soup in mugs

Soup in tins

People being enthusiastic about soup

Morrison’s

Strangers’ feet in socks (ironically my first job was in a shoe shop)

The word ‘juices’

These are hilarious, I particularly enjoyed people being enthusiastic about soup!

PyongyangKipperbang · 25/11/2025 00:42

Grown adults calling Tomato Ketchup "Red Sauce". Yes I do make a point, at work, of saying "So one BBQ, one Mayo and one TOMATO KETCHUP" brackets...grow the fuck up

Marvelettesyouremyremedy · 25/11/2025 00:45

I call it T sauce👍😁

PyongyangKipperbang · 25/11/2025 00:47

Marvelettesyouremyremedy · 25/11/2025 00:45

I call it T sauce👍😁

And if you asked me for that at work you would get "I am afraid we dont have that. Would you prefer ketchup?"

But this is about icks so I do not apologise for that.

Marvelettesyouremyremedy · 25/11/2025 00:49

PyongyangKipperbang · 25/11/2025 00:47

And if you asked me for that at work you would get "I am afraid we dont have that. Would you prefer ketchup?"

But this is about icks so I do not apologise for that.

I only use that term in the house I definitely wouldn't use it whilst out.

ToWhitToWhoo · 25/11/2025 00:50

I plead guilty to sometimes being enthusiastic about soup!

My 'icks' are:

People raving about snow, and especially wishing me a 'white Christmas'.

Men who are the bodybuilder type and cultivate rippling muscles.Especially if they keep flexing them. Doubly if they go around shirtless.

Anononony · 25/11/2025 00:50

Men with trousers that look they're for a child. There's a guy on the school run who always has joggers that seem 3/4 length and white socks, I always think they must have shrunk in the wash because surely they're not supposed to sit that high up your ankle!?

PyongyangKipperbang · 25/11/2025 00:55

Marvelettesyouremyremedy · 25/11/2025 00:49

I only use that term in the house I definitely wouldn't use it whilst out.

Then you are forgiven child.

Cos if you used it where I work I would smilingly give you your "sauce" and then slag you off something chronic in the kitchen!!
😅

SemiRetiredLoveGoddeess · 25/11/2025 00:56

Younger men who wear flat caps, really fancy themselves, and think they look sexy. When they really look like a flat capped old man from years ago.

Think someone like Albert Tatlock from Coronation Street or an old man who used to keep pigeons, ferrets or whippets back in the day.

ICKE!!! 👎👎👎

Marvelettesyouremyremedy · 25/11/2025 01:00

There was a song by a punk band and it was Albert Tatlock ..can't remember the band.

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 25/11/2025 01:01

Marvelettesyouremyremedy · 25/11/2025 00:45

I call it T sauce👍😁

Surely Tommy-K?!

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 25/11/2025 01:08

People who eat the horrid nubbin on the bottom end of a banana, instead of removing it and putting it inside the skin ready for the bin.

People who say "pronounciation" - especially when unironically berating other people for their poor pronunciation.

People who say "Febuary".

People who call a toilet (without a bath in it) a 'bathroom'.

People who yank up a handbrake without pushing the button in, so it makes a frightful sound.

People who say 'tellybox' or 'interweb' - it was mildly amusing once, but that ship has long sailed.

Franjipanl8r · 25/11/2025 01:31

Anyone licking their fingers when they’re eating.

FireBreathingDragon · 25/11/2025 01:54

Women wearing lots of gold rings on multiple fingers. Makes me feel sick in my mouth, especially when they’re handling food.

Gotback · 25/11/2025 01:55

When men have too much stuff in their trousers pockets, their silhouette makes me feel sick.

Short men with long hair. A former neighbour who was into heavy metal (it may be connected) had a very long, ginger pony tail and he was about 5' 4". I could not look directly at him.

Snotty eggs.

Walking along the aisle in a train & coming into unwanted contact with men's knees, thighs etc.

People sighing.

Carveries - depressing, hell on earth atmosphere.

FireBreathingDragon · 25/11/2025 01:59

Gotback · 25/11/2025 01:55

When men have too much stuff in their trousers pockets, their silhouette makes me feel sick.

Short men with long hair. A former neighbour who was into heavy metal (it may be connected) had a very long, ginger pony tail and he was about 5' 4". I could not look directly at him.

Snotty eggs.

Walking along the aisle in a train & coming into unwanted contact with men's knees, thighs etc.

People sighing.

Carveries - depressing, hell on earth atmosphere.

Yes I agree about carvery restaurants. I can’t stand any type of buffet, as it turns people silly and they start acting like they haven’t seen food before.

If I am eating outside of the home I don’t want to be handling serving spoons and carrying plates of food across a room, it’s all very undignified and messy.

Houseshmouse · 25/11/2025 02:26

When men sniff hard and the phlegm hits the back of their throat.

Whatsthatsheila · 25/11/2025 02:28

Parsleyforme · 23/11/2025 17:22

Hand dryers leave your hands covered in more bacteria than before you washed them. I’ve seen a few videos of what the before and after swabs grow on a plate. I think I’d rather use those horrible towel dispenser things that you pull and the towel goes back inside 🤢

Can I just check you know the used towel doesn’t come back out. Once the fresh towel is empty it gets taken away and laundered. The “cassette” is replaced with a laundered towel. I’ve never figured if they are supposed to be more environmentally friendly cos of the laundering costs than paper towels or more hygienic but your post just made me wonder if you thought it was just on a endless loop. My apologies if I’ve misunderstood and you knew this .

EleanorMc67 · 25/11/2025 02:43

Fairywingsandroses · 23/11/2025 18:38

Haha! I love tolerant people! But secretly I agree with a lot of things on your list!

I'm hoping that @BauhausOfEliott will do a Part 2, maybe even 3? I have a feeling she's only just started!!! (I agree with quite a few of them too!!)

Fiddy1964 · 25/11/2025 02:51

People wearing white jeans/trousers during winter months & especially when its raining heavily.

Bowies · 25/11/2025 02:53

People who think you want to see their face on a Teams call (I don’t), but the real ick comes when they keep their camera on while stuffing their breakfast in their mouth.

Bowies · 25/11/2025 03:09

People ‘prepping’ doing ‘life admin’ and their ‘doggo(s)’ also give me the ick.

I have no issue if they tell me they chopped the carrots, booked the dentist and took the dog(s) for a walk.

BeanQuisine · 25/11/2025 03:18

Bald men. Yes I know they can't help it, but I can't help finding those bare hairless heads very off-putting.

In my opinion men with obvious wigs actually look preferable to bald men, so I don't know why more of them don't opt for wigs.

PennyRest · 25/11/2025 03:39

BauhausOfEliott · 23/11/2025 18:18

People eating lunches at work that they’ve brought in from home

Babies/toddlers with food on their faces

Chewing gum in any context whatsoever. It looks gross, sounds gross and absolutely fucking stinks

People who say they ‘devour’ books or read ‘voraciously’

People describing food as ‘yummy’

Seeing people apply hand cream

Any form of contact with other people’s hair, especially if it’s frizzy

Weak handshakes

People who push their food around the plate before taking a bite

People being scared of pigeons

The term ‘cosplay’

Tomato juice

Hairdressers who handle your hair in a feeble way

Shop assistants in clothes shops who fold things in that sort of limp, listless manner

The Headspace app

The funeral director who kept referring to my dad’s ashes by my dad’s name, eg “And then we’ll contact you to let you know when John is here for you to collect” or “You might wish to scatter John in the garden of remembrance”

The word ‘play’ as a noun (unless referring to a theatrical performance), eg ‘Imaginative play is important for children’

HCPs saying ‘baby’ instead of ‘the baby’ or ‘your baby’, as in ‘When baby needs to feed,’ or ‘We’ll just need to check baby’s heart’

Referring to all technology and tech-related activities as ‘screens’ or worse ‘screen’, eg “How much screen should I allow”

Soup in mugs

Soup in tins

People being enthusiastic about soup

Morrison’s

Strangers’ feet in socks (ironically my first job was in a shoe shop)

The word ‘juices’

All of these. I hope I know you Bauhaus.
To add:
wet bathroom floors
cold lamb
people talking about food
food adverts
the word ‘food’
(eating perfectly acceptable but not on trains or buses)
Doctors that call you ‘Mum’ when you take your DC to an appointment
‘vino’
soft vegetables
’biccies’. I can hardly write it.
second hand phone shops.
saveloy.,

LupaMoonhowl · 25/11/2025 03:51

Marvelettesyouremyremedy · 24/11/2025 23:57

Auld Lang syne,all that tartan och aye the noo Hogmany pish ,dressing up and looking like you fell off a shortbread tin .I can't abide any of it..and I'm Scottish.

😂

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