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Strange things that give you a kind of "ick" in everyday life

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CariahMary · 23/11/2025 16:39

I don't mean getting the "ick" about a sexual or romantic partner. And I don't mean being put-off by things that are actually pretty grim. I mean random things that you inexplicably find a bit off-putting in everyday life.

For me, I get a kind of "ick" when I read other people talking about food on forums MN I honestly had no idea why. It's so odd, I really like reading food descriptions in books but in forums I find it really off-putting.

In the real-world, I also really hate opening other people's fridges. They always smell weird (different from my own). I have to hold my breath.

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Ollldy78 · 25/11/2025 03:53

BauhausOfEliott · 23/11/2025 18:18

People eating lunches at work that they’ve brought in from home

Babies/toddlers with food on their faces

Chewing gum in any context whatsoever. It looks gross, sounds gross and absolutely fucking stinks

People who say they ‘devour’ books or read ‘voraciously’

People describing food as ‘yummy’

Seeing people apply hand cream

Any form of contact with other people’s hair, especially if it’s frizzy

Weak handshakes

People who push their food around the plate before taking a bite

People being scared of pigeons

The term ‘cosplay’

Tomato juice

Hairdressers who handle your hair in a feeble way

Shop assistants in clothes shops who fold things in that sort of limp, listless manner

The Headspace app

The funeral director who kept referring to my dad’s ashes by my dad’s name, eg “And then we’ll contact you to let you know when John is here for you to collect” or “You might wish to scatter John in the garden of remembrance”

The word ‘play’ as a noun (unless referring to a theatrical performance), eg ‘Imaginative play is important for children’

HCPs saying ‘baby’ instead of ‘the baby’ or ‘your baby’, as in ‘When baby needs to feed,’ or ‘We’ll just need to check baby’s heart’

Referring to all technology and tech-related activities as ‘screens’ or worse ‘screen’, eg “How much screen should I allow”

Soup in mugs

Soup in tins

People being enthusiastic about soup

Morrison’s

Strangers’ feet in socks (ironically my first job was in a shoe shop)

The word ‘juices’

I feel exactly the same about people saying “baby” as a proper noun.. I cannot read past it in MN posts.. unless I’m watching Dirty Dancing, baby is not their name.
Equally, people saying “pound” - singular, when they mean “pounds”, as in “it cost twelve pound fifty” drives me crazy..
To a lesser degree, people saying “invite” when they mean “invitation” and “itch” when they mean “scratch”.
All of mine seem to be grammar related 🫤

LupaMoonhowl · 25/11/2025 03:54

Politicians247UnderwearExtinguishingService · 25/11/2025 01:08

People who eat the horrid nubbin on the bottom end of a banana, instead of removing it and putting it inside the skin ready for the bin.

People who say "pronounciation" - especially when unironically berating other people for their poor pronunciation.

People who say "Febuary".

People who call a toilet (without a bath in it) a 'bathroom'.

People who yank up a handbrake without pushing the button in, so it makes a frightful sound.

People who say 'tellybox' or 'interweb' - it was mildly amusing once, but that ship has long sailed.

Yes people (Americans) coyly referring to ‘going to the bathroom’ even to the point of saying their dog ‘needs the bathroom’….

LupaMoonhowl · 25/11/2025 04:00

People mixing up envy and jealousy. See it all the on MN.
You are envious of you want something someone else has, not jealous! Jealousy is fear of losing something. Complete opposites!

LucyLoo1972 · 25/11/2025 04:09

dephlogisticated · 24/11/2025 12:02

Is there anyone who just doesn't really get an 'ick' for anything? Not judging at all, I get it in theory but I just don't really feel it? Am I the unusual one here?

If relevant I'm also genuinely not especially judgemental, but I don't necessarily mean the two things are linked, just that I don't often get aesthetic or moral or social 'ick' at all. I'm defo not any kind of superior being at all, far from it, I have all sorts of other weirdness I swear just no ick!

I was just thinking that. my husband has a lot of things that would give others the ick

HelenaWaiting · 25/11/2025 04:15

Food where it shouldn't be. On tables. On table mats. In beards. Makes me heave.

Bahhhhhumbug · 25/11/2025 04:29

abracadabra1980 · 23/11/2025 17:53

Middle aged men in lycra-the cycling crew-their stupid wrap around sunglasses and well, just everything rally. Always skinny and boney and look terribly uncool-only my humble opinion of course. Men who wear tracksuits all the time, unless playing sport, med with unkempt, greasy hair, smoking or vaping in any form and women of a certain age 'hello new neighbours' who are passive aggressive in their acquaintances.

We call them lycra clad twats😂

Mummalovesya · 25/11/2025 04:51

When people say pacific instead of specific
brought instead of bought
‘break up from work’ for Christmas etc
white stuff in the corners of your mouth 🤢 just get a drink 🤦🏻‍♀️
bo
bad breath

ICriedAllTheWayToTheChipShop · 25/11/2025 04:59

People who make quite mundane and uncontroversial opinions about food or films into their whole personalities. I've seen it on OLD profiles, they'll put "Pineapple belongs on pizza, no debate" or "Die Hard is definitely a Christmas film, there, I've said it, don't come at me!" as if these are interesting and original things to say.

White dogs with brown stains around their eyes and mouths.

The smell of most men's deodorants. That cheap "fresh" odour 🤢

Food crumbs on the seats of trains and buses, especially when you've got a booked seat and you have to sit there. I have to get a tissue out to brush the crumbs onto the floor and then sanitise my hands for good measure.

Men's feet and legs. Even on toned, attractive men I can barely look at them. I know it's a me problem (although I'm clearly not alone wrt to the feet at least).

The smell of mint generally, but especially if it's toothpaste or chewing gum. I don't know who got to decide that mint is the universal fresh/pleasant smell for breath, but I wish nothing but bad things on them.

lohpetite · 25/11/2025 05:56

People on here who correct your/you’re mistakes. Let it go! Such an ick.

Mothership4two · 25/11/2025 06:34

One of the BBC political reporters. I think he is called Henry? He is youngish with a beard, something about the way he speaks gives me the ick. I know it's shallow, but I have to switch over. I'm sure he's a nice guy!

usedtobeaylis · 25/11/2025 06:40

People saying 'bone broth'. Its stock mate.

Uncuffed tracksuit bottoms.

AquaForce · 25/11/2025 06:53

Kids with a Greggs dummy

LifeJuggler13 · 25/11/2025 07:03

Men who wear signet rings, particularly on their pinkies. Eurgh.

Toooldtocare25 · 25/11/2025 07:03

Sitting down on an already warm toilet seat or
Picking up anyone else’s plate but especially one with gravy on it 🤮

HRTQueen · 25/11/2025 07:06

Adults using a baby voice to talk to other adults especially men

to little children and animals is ok in some circumstances

Catwalking · 25/11/2025 07:10

Beards
The smell of newspapers
Sound of presenter Aled Jones voice on Classic fm radio… literally would have to switch off?!
Long toenails on dogs & humans …not at all happy about undressed human feet.
Wind as in nature… tho am never entertained by farts like some folk seem to be?

Friendlyfart · 25/11/2025 07:40

‘Youth’ who wear their tracksuit bottoms at the bottom of their arse. Why?! We don’t need to see your pants and then they’re walking like a constipated duck!

Thanksjohn · 25/11/2025 07:44

Having to buy petrol when the petrol station is busy and you’re forced to use a pump on the opposite side to your petrol tank. Anyone watching me struggling with the hose whilst dragging it to the tank would think I was a lion tamer by trade.

Kickinthenostalgia · 25/11/2025 07:46

Men who wear white swimming shorts….its calling for attention 😂🤮

KimberleyClark · 25/11/2025 07:50

Buxusmortus · 24/11/2025 14:32

Thong bikinis. Turns my stomach. No one's arse needs to be on full show, or is nice enough to be on show. Especially on a cold British beach when the wearer is playing volleyball and wearing a t shirt, looks like she's forgotten to put on her knickers.
The thought of thong knickers turns my stomach too but at least I don't have to see them.

I saw a girl in a thong bikini walking near a beach and she was wearing a backpack. Looked naked from the waist down!

ChamonixMountainBum · 25/11/2025 07:54

BeanQuisine · 25/11/2025 03:18

Bald men. Yes I know they can't help it, but I can't help finding those bare hairless heads very off-putting.

In my opinion men with obvious wigs actually look preferable to bald men, so I don't know why more of them don't opt for wigs.

I would imagine it would be that any bloke sporting a wig is usually the object of amusement and piss taking and that's before taking into account the huge amount of faff of wearing one in the first place.

BeanQuisine · 25/11/2025 08:06

Fair enough, but if more men wore wigs and were cheerfully blasé about it, there'd presumably be less piss-taking and more casual acceptance.

...this is in reply to ChamonixMountainBum.

Friendlyfart · 25/11/2025 08:10

Also. Hollibobs. Just no.

usedtobeaylis · 25/11/2025 08:19

Oh that reminds me of mini backpacks. Oh my god I hate them, I can't even begin to articulate how I feel when I see one. Probably the only thing I've ever point blank refused to buy for my daughter. Bad enough on children but grown women wearing mini backpacks is an ick like no other.

OldMam · 25/11/2025 08:22

Middle-aged men in Lycra.

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