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Can't sleep. Worried that morbidly obese DS is going to die young

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AngelikiEvangelia · 07/08/2025 00:59

He is 20. His 2XL t-shirts that used to swamp him are now too tight. He gets breathless walking even short distances.

I feel like I'm watching him deteriorate in front of my eyes but there's nothing I can do. His addiction to junk food is too strong.

I keep thinking back to him as a baby, a toddler, a young child and it's breaking my heart. He was so happy, so full of life and energy - and now his life is so small and he's so sad and he just keeps getting bigger and bigger.

I can't bear it. I had him quite young and am facing the very real prospect of outliving him if something doesn't change. All I want is for him to be OK.

OP posts:
happy20218 · 07/08/2025 20:39

Just get the injections , life changing I know 5 people who have had them and it’s changed their life . Just try one first and see . Surely there’s nothing to loose . Go on Numan it will be hear before Monday and he will have hope again as the food noise will stop

iamnowslim · 07/08/2025 21:29

Sounds ideal candidate for mounjaro. Well worth the investment

GreenFriedTomato · 07/08/2025 23:06

yallahbye · 07/08/2025 08:36

I think all those weight loss injections are temporary, the moment you stop getting them the weight creeps back on. I’m happy to be corrected if I’m wrong though..

So it would be a temporary solution only. On the long term, a psychological shift is needed.

Iny case i stopped a few months ago and the weight hasn't started to creep back on. In fact I was still 7kg overweight and I continued to lose it without the injections. But then my desire to eat sugary stuff hasn't returned either.
It was a concern of mine that I'd have to stay on it long term or get fat again. It hasn't been the case so far though. It's as though my body/brain adjusted to eating less and healthily and it's stayed that way even without the drug.
I was only ever in a low dose though (5mg). I didn't want to increase the dose every month as I thought I might end up reliant on it. I also felt it was working at 5mg so I didn't see any reason to increase. So maybe the low dosage has something to do with the fact that I haven't had rebound weight gain or the return of food cravings. It might be different for people who have taken the maximum 15mg dose for a long time.

Edit- I stopped by accident too. I went away on holiday and didn't take a pen with me. While away, I realised the cravings hadn't returned so I just never ordered it again.

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