I was terrified of social workers when pregnant with DD1/
I had an adult son then, but his father beat me so much, even unconscious regularity. I was a teenager when we first met and I suppose I was in 'thrall' of him.
He once broke my leg so badly (spiral fracture of the tibia), then dragged me inside his place when I was screaming.
The tibia never healed properly, causing severe ankle arthritis and hip problems, even after a fusion I still walk with a crutch - it took years for this to happen.
I left him finally when pregnant as the midwife saw bruises on me and said she'd have to inform SS if I stayed - my child came first.
Despite this I still had to allow him access to DS as he was not seen as violent to DS.
When DS was a teen he came round, hit DS, seriously sexually assaulted me, tried to strangle me, after saying all three of us would die that night. I pulled a knife on him and DS (luckily hid his mobile), phoned the police.
I went a bit mad afterwards and was diagnosed with bipolar and borderline personality disorder.
When I was pregnant with DD I was so scared that the BPD would mean should we be taken, but they never actually contacted me and the CMHT saw me as no threat to her and that she was actually a protective factor.