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Baby Victoria verdict is in

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LetsGoRoundAgainAgain · 14/07/2025 14:37

Both found guilty of manslaughter.

Thank goodness.

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BungleWasBrill · 15/07/2025 15:27

Lalgarh · 15/07/2025 10:10

Lady muck.

Still, British aristocrats being ferociously screwed up isn't exactly a revelation to anyone familiar with Brideshead Revisited, Patrick Melrose, Saltburn or even Withnail

And/or Earl Spencer's recent memoir.

placemats · 15/07/2025 17:30

summertimeinLondon · 14/07/2025 20:10

I don’t understand how anyone can throw a woman out of a window and not be serving a very long sentence for attempted murder, assault and grievous bodily harm. Why wasn’t he in prison after this?

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Especially as Mark Gordon, a convicted rapist, had previously served 20 weeks in jail for attacking and harming 2 female police officers in the maternity unit after the birth of his first child.

Noodledog · 15/07/2025 17:58

BabyCatFace · 14/07/2025 22:02

The push out of the window was found more likely than not to have been caused by mark Gordon in a fact find in the family court. That doesn't mean he can be convicted for the crime or even that he definitely did it. He almost certainly did based on the judge's findings but they still didn't see it happen. Without an eye witness or a victim statement police can't pursue an investigation.

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Plenty of crimes don't have an eyewitness or a victim statement and end in prosecution. I would be absolutely amazed if there was no other evidence whatsoever. I suspect what actually happened was she lied about him not being responsible, and the police just took her word for it (for whatever reason) and didn't bother to investigate further.

And to be clear, no, I do not trust the police to do their job properly, particularly in domestic violence cases.

placemats · 15/07/2025 18:17

Noodledog · 15/07/2025 17:58

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Plenty of crimes don't have an eyewitness or a victim statement and end in prosecution. I would be absolutely amazed if there was no other evidence whatsoever. I suspect what actually happened was she lied about him not being responsible, and the police just took her word for it (for whatever reason) and didn't bother to investigate further.

And to be clear, no, I do not trust the police to do their job properly, particularly in domestic violence cases.

The neighbours witnessed it as did the ambulance service, whose attempts to get Constance medical help was hindered by Mark Gordon. A shattered spleen whilst 12 weeks pregnant is no joke.

Lunde · 15/07/2025 18:22

placemats · 15/07/2025 18:17

The neighbours witnessed it as did the ambulance service, whose attempts to get Constance medical help was hindered by Mark Gordon. A shattered spleen whilst 12 weeks pregnant is no joke.

The neighbours didn't witness him push her - just her falling.

Marten told police that he didn't push her and they both told a strange story about climbing out to fix the TV ariel when she fell

Gordon told the ambulance crew that he fell as well - although he was not injured - but they may have put his aggression down to a possible head injury at the time

The CPS likely did not have enough evidence for "beyond reasonable doubt" with the victim adamant that she wasn't pushed - but it's clear they think he did

Scentedjasmin · 15/07/2025 18:27

BabyCatFace · 14/07/2025 16:15

I followed the last trial via a couple of podcasts and listened to a lot of the evidence. I don't think Constance was a victim of coercion at all. I think she was a very paranoid, very arrogant and entitled woman with a personality disorder and some very toxic beliefs. As a social worker I've met a handful of women like Constance and they are very damaged and very dangerous people. That doesn't mean she wasn't abused by Mark Gordon, I'm sure she was, but she wasn't with him because of trauma bonding or lack of other options. He and their 'lifestyle' was her identity. She wasn't a fully willing participant in her life. Very sad for those children, all of them.

ETA I have read the post above about him throwing her out of the window - I didn't know that, so when I said 'I'm sure she was' I was speculating without facts. Clearly she was a victim of his abusive behaviour. But that doesn't change the fact that she was a willing participant in her life. She chose to be with him. Everything in her testimony and behaviour demonstrates that she didn't live in the real world at all.

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I completely agree with this. She certainly had a personality disorder with paranoid traits (paranoid personality disorder, which also accounts for her lack of emotion, arrogance and defensiveness) and was subject to abuse by him. But she also reportedly yelled at him constantly. I think that they were equals in a very toxic relationship. I think that you have summarised her and their relationship perfectly.

placemats · 15/07/2025 18:35

Lunde · 15/07/2025 18:22

The neighbours didn't witness him push her - just her falling.

Marten told police that he didn't push her and they both told a strange story about climbing out to fix the TV ariel when she fell

Gordon told the ambulance crew that he fell as well - although he was not injured - but they may have put his aggression down to a possible head injury at the time

The CPS likely did not have enough evidence for "beyond reasonable doubt" with the victim adamant that she wasn't pushed - but it's clear they think he did

So Marten told the police that during her eight days stay in hospital? Why wasn't Gordons previous 20 weeks in jail for aggravated assault against two police officers taken into account?

prh47bridge · 15/07/2025 18:50

placemats · 15/07/2025 18:35

So Marten told the police that during her eight days stay in hospital? Why wasn't Gordons previous 20 weeks in jail for aggravated assault against two police officers taken into account?

Taken into account for what? The prosecution cannot introduce previous convictions as evidence. It would have been relevant for sentencing had he been prosecuted and convicted, but it wouldn't have helped them to get a conviction. With no eyewitnesses to the push and Marten saying he didn't push her, it is unlikely he would have been convicted.

Edited to add that there are limited circumstances in which previous prosecutions can be introduced, but they wouldn't have applied here.

Lunde · 15/07/2025 18:56

placemats · 15/07/2025 18:35

So Marten told the police that during her eight days stay in hospital? Why wasn't Gordons previous 20 weeks in jail for aggravated assault against two police officers taken into account?

You can't introduce evidence of previous crimes until someone is being sentenced having been found guilty.

You can't say - because he did crime A he likely did crime B.

With a hostile victim a prosecution is hard enough - but I think she disappeared after leaving hospital and fled to Ireland

placemats · 15/07/2025 19:00

prh47bridge · 15/07/2025 18:50

Taken into account for what? The prosecution cannot introduce previous convictions as evidence. It would have been relevant for sentencing had he been prosecuted and convicted, but it wouldn't have helped them to get a conviction. With no eyewitnesses to the push and Marten saying he didn't push her, it is unlikely he would have been convicted.

Edited to add that there are limited circumstances in which previous prosecutions can be introduced, but they wouldn't have applied here.

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Not even on a deported rapist from the US who had served half his sentence? You can't possibly ignore that Martens family didn't know about him and if they knew his past then surely the police also knew as well as the CBS.

LetsGoRoundAgainAgain · 15/07/2025 19:03

placemats · 15/07/2025 19:00

Not even on a deported rapist from the US who had served half his sentence? You can't possibly ignore that Martens family didn't know about him and if they knew his past then surely the police also knew as well as the CBS.

But he's served his sentence.

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placemats · 15/07/2025 19:29

LetsGoRoundAgainAgain · 15/07/2025 19:03

But he's served his sentence.

Let's hope it's another 20 years for Gordon. 72 years old on release. Only to specialist probation centres nowhere near women.

Butteredtoast55 · 15/07/2025 19:30

Arraminta · 15/07/2025 11:07

Agree. She was your typical swishy-haired posh bitch, grown bored with her life of utter bohemian privilege. So she decided to liven things up, by cos-playing at being a gypsy rebel, thumbing her partician nose at the establishment. But happy to dip into her multi million trust fund as needed, of course.

But now it's all gone wrong and she's furious that the serfs are daring to question her actions.

I 100% agree with you, @Arraminta She made her own choices and put herself and her own needs above those of her children time and time again. He is a monster but in many ways, she is just as bad.

placemats · 15/07/2025 19:33

Butteredtoast55 · 15/07/2025 19:30

I 100% agree with you, @Arraminta She made her own choices and put herself and her own needs above those of her children time and time again. He is a monster but in many ways, she is just as bad.

If you were going to be put into a room alone with either Marten or Gordon for 24 hours, who would you pick?

Butteredtoast55 · 15/07/2025 19:41

placemats · 15/07/2025 19:33

If you were going to be put into a room alone with either Marten or Gordon for 24 hours, who would you pick?

Well that's something of an unanswerable question because, in terms of physical safety, a woman is always going to feel they can defend themselves better against another woman. In terms of withstanding psychological torment and tolerating bullshit, I think they'd be as bad as each other.

placemats · 15/07/2025 19:48

Butteredtoast55 · 15/07/2025 19:41

Well that's something of an unanswerable question because, in terms of physical safety, a woman is always going to feel they can defend themselves better against another woman. In terms of withstanding psychological torment and tolerating bullshit, I think they'd be as bad as each other.

In other words you wouldn't be safe with Mark Gordon.

Butteredtoast55 · 15/07/2025 19:56

placemats · 15/07/2025 19:48

In other words you wouldn't be safe with Mark Gordon.

That's a straw man argument and you know it.
I wouldn't have chosen to spend time with him and repeatedly gone back to do so again and again having been offered safer options.

placemats · 15/07/2025 20:03

Butteredtoast55 · 15/07/2025 19:41

Well that's something of an unanswerable question because, in terms of physical safety, a woman is always going to feel they can defend themselves better against another woman. In terms of withstanding psychological torment and tolerating bullshit, I think they'd be as bad as each other.

If you are a man then you would pick Mark Gordon.

Butteredtoast55 · 15/07/2025 20:11

placemats · 15/07/2025 20:03

If you are a man then you would pick Mark Gordon.

That's an interesting comment. Why do you think so?

NotrialNodeal · 15/07/2025 20:14

placemats · 15/07/2025 19:33

If you were going to be put into a room alone with either Marten or Gordon for 24 hours, who would you pick?

All your question demonstrated was that most men will be able to over power most women. It doesn't negate the fact that CM is a monster. Women can be just as evil as men, if not more.

prh47bridge · 15/07/2025 20:15

placemats · 15/07/2025 19:00

Not even on a deported rapist from the US who had served half his sentence? You can't possibly ignore that Martens family didn't know about him and if they knew his past then surely the police also knew as well as the CBS.

It doesn't matter what the previous conviction is for. We try people based on the evidence for the offence with which they are charged, not based on previous convictions. The police and CPS may well have known about his past, but that would not have helped them get a conviction in this case. They weren't allowed to use it in the latest case either.

AmusedCat · 15/07/2025 20:17

LemonTreeGrove · 14/07/2025 15:51

I remember when this case was first in the news, there were people posting that the UK has a reputation of removing children from parents far too easily. I don't agree. I think they are not removed enough and I don't think being from a country where children are left with abusive parents even more than the UK is anything to be proud of.

I agree, the threshold for removal Is actually very high. I've no sympathy for anyone but the children involved. CM always had a choice.

NotrialNodeal · 15/07/2025 20:18

placemats · 15/07/2025 20:03

If you are a man then you would pick Mark Gordon.

You think men would pick Gordon? Why?

soupyspoon · 15/07/2025 20:28

placemats · 15/07/2025 19:33

If you were going to be put into a room alone with either Marten or Gordon for 24 hours, who would you pick?

As an adult or a new born baby?

Zonder · 15/07/2025 20:59

Allthegoodhorses · 15/07/2025 10:57

This bit I am finding a bit odd. I happen to live about a mile from the estate the family live in. They have a lot of land and lots of houses and over the last year loads has been sold off to pay for the court case. Her aunt specifically said they were funding it. Obviously this is not the case.

Several people already responded to this earlier in the thread. Apparently she was loaded thanks to a huge trust fund.