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Baby of brain dead woman finally delivered weighing less than 2 pounds

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Soubriquet · 18/06/2025 12:27

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It’s evil what was done to that poor woman. At one point she was literally rotting just so she could incubate the fetus that little bit longer. He’s finally been born, and he’s so small. They are confident he will make it, but I think they HAVE to say that to justify what they did.

Least she can rest in peace now

Baby of brain-dead woman on life support is born weighing less than 2lbs

The baby of a woman in Georgia who was declared brain dead and has been on life support since February was delivered early Friday morning, her mother said

https://www.themirror.com/news/us-news/georgia-newborn-delivered-brain-dead-1213815?fbclid=IwY2xjawK_gOZleHRuA2FlbQIxMQABHkHm22r72TRfRb1NoCkQxmQpV53f71BDzj3bjFOVi8koK9C7b6A0Z_gB08R2_aem_mHRg2EJ7nbZQy6xc3m1D4A

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chergar · 18/06/2025 13:15

Let’s hope the baby is okay but I fear he will numerous health issues in the future - will this affect his ability to get health insurance? Who pays for the treatment? The family could well end up destitute with no support due to a law the government made. This baby should have free healthcare for life, the government forced him into this world so they need to support him.

Saz12 · 18/06/2025 13:19

Aside from all the horror, the thoight of paying for health care that noone wanted is ludicrous.

FlangelinaJolie · 18/06/2025 13:20

chergar · 18/06/2025 13:15

Let’s hope the baby is okay but I fear he will numerous health issues in the future - will this affect his ability to get health insurance? Who pays for the treatment? The family could well end up destitute with no support due to a law the government made. This baby should have free healthcare for life, the government forced him into this world so they need to support him.

The family have been told they will be responsible for the medical costs to the mother and the child. I saw one of them in an interview on TikTok. They wanted to turn off the life support when she was declared brain dead but the hospital refused as the fetus had a heart beat.

How do you even explain to a child or how do you process as an adult that your mother was dead for 4 months before you were born?

LittleBitofBread · 18/06/2025 13:21

Soggybirthdaycamping · 18/06/2025 12:56

It's been done lots of times. It's rare, but not unheard of by any means. There are three differences in this case:

  1. normally it's not done quite so early until pregnancy - 2nd or 3rd trimester, not 1st. So not kept alive for as long.

  2. it's normally done by agreement with family/NOK. So where the husband wants a chance for his wife's baby to survive etc.

  3. it's normally presented as something they can do to save the baby, rather than are required to do due to abortion laws. Interestingly Georgia's governor had confirmed that they were not required to keep her alive. Understandably, in America, people are so afraid of falling foul of these restrictive laws that they interpret them even more tightly than was intended, making it even worse.

America is so nuts about things like withdrawing ventilation anyway, that thousands of comatose patients languish in 'vent farms' for years or decades, because their families can't bear to say no. I don't see keeping this lady alive for a specific purpose - to save her baby growing in her, for a limited time is worse than keeping someone alive for decades just because.

I think bodily autonomy and dignity in death needs to be overhauled in America in general, but much wider than this case.

Interestingly Georgia's governor had confirmed that they were not required to keep her alive. So why did they?

SheilaFentiman · 18/06/2025 13:22

Saz12 · 18/06/2025 13:19

Aside from all the horror, the thoight of paying for health care that noone wanted is ludicrous.

It isn't clear that 'no-one wanted it' - quotes from the dead woman's mother have been along the lines of "I don't know what our choice would have been, but we would have wanted the choice" - rather than doctors deciding that the life support had to be maintained for fear of breaching Georgia's abortion laws and the family not making the choice.

SheilaFentiman · 18/06/2025 13:23

X-post with @FlangelinaJolie - was it the husband/partner on TikTok? As I have only seen the woman's mother quoted in the media.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 18/06/2025 13:26

How many millions will they charge the family for this abomination?

rowenwren · 18/06/2025 13:27

SheilaFentiman · 18/06/2025 12:46

There's no indication that it will reach the UK. We have and have always had quite a different stance on abortion.

Reading some of the comments on the threads about the recent decriminalisation of the abortion laws, doesn’t fill me with hope the we really do have a different stance unfortunately. There’s a lot of forced birthers on MN and they are quite vocal about it.

Olderbeforemytime · 18/06/2025 13:28

Limehawkmoth · 18/06/2025 12:55

A baby born without a mother. Having been gestated by a dead mother. Kept alive by drugs and machines

and you think that baby will grow up to be just fine?

no one will even know the physical and neurological effects of those machines and drugs on this baby for their lifetime

and Certainly no one is thinking at all of the potential mental health challenges that will result.

Not to forgot deprived of oxgyen and born very early so likely to have life long medical issues in a country without universal medical care and few benefits.

SheilaFentiman · 18/06/2025 13:28

rowenwren · 18/06/2025 13:27

Reading some of the comments on the threads about the recent decriminalisation of the abortion laws, doesn’t fill me with hope the we really do have a different stance unfortunately. There’s a lot of forced birthers on MN and they are quite vocal about it.

Agree that many people disagree with abortion, but there is absolutely no sign that legal rights to it are creeping backwards (indeed, moving to be more permissive with the recent MP vote)

QuickPeachPoet · 18/06/2025 13:30

This is just sick.
That poor woman. What a total disregard for her dignity and her family's wishes.
And I would be prepared to bet money that the baby won't be skipping into school at age 5, learning to swim, acting his exams, going to college, learning to drive, having a girlfriend and raising kids of his own. If he does, it would be a miracle.

SheilaFentiman · 18/06/2025 13:30

LittleBitofBread · 18/06/2025 13:21

Interestingly Georgia's governor had confirmed that they were not required to keep her alive. So why did they?

It looks like the case didn't come to public attention immediately and that the opinion from the governor was issued in May when the baby was at about 22 weeks.

SheilaFentiman · 18/06/2025 13:37

Also - I don't know enough about the US legal system to know if an opinion from the governor is of sufficient standing to prevent forced-birth groups suing the hospital.

MILLYmo0se · 18/06/2025 13:40

MrsSkylerWhite · 18/06/2025 12:49

Indeed. Though if such decisions could be made in advance, I would have wanted to be kept alive artificially until my baby had a fighting chance, to be honest.

Would you really saddle others with the financial debt the medical care in the US will cost his mother's family for both their care? Or have the hospital decided not to charge the vast sums of money due in this situation?

SheilaFentiman · 18/06/2025 13:45

Further to my post above:

While Georgia’s Attorney General has stated that nothing in the LIFE Act explicitly mandates keeping a brain-dead patient on life support, the lack of a formal legal opinion or prosecutorial guidance leaves families and doctors in limbo.

From: https://pressley.house.gov/2025/06/17/rep-ayanna-pressleys-statement-on-adriana-smith/

SheilaFentiman · 18/06/2025 13:48

MILLYmo0se · 18/06/2025 13:40

Would you really saddle others with the financial debt the medical care in the US will cost his mother's family for both their care? Or have the hospital decided not to charge the vast sums of money due in this situation?

It looks like there is a GoFundMe, presumably for the medical bills. c$210k raised so far.

Gettingbysomehow · 18/06/2025 13:53

Limehawkmoth · 18/06/2025 12:55

A baby born without a mother. Having been gestated by a dead mother. Kept alive by drugs and machines

and you think that baby will grow up to be just fine?

no one will even know the physical and neurological effects of those machines and drugs on this baby for their lifetime

and Certainly no one is thinking at all of the potential mental health challenges that will result.

Exactly this, I find it utterly repulsive.

YankTank · 18/06/2025 13:55

SheilaFentiman · 18/06/2025 13:48

It looks like there is a GoFundMe, presumably for the medical bills. c$210k raised so far.

Unfortunately, that’s not enough to pay for several months of life support for the mother, then NICU for the baby.

SheilaFentiman · 18/06/2025 13:58

YankTank · 18/06/2025 13:55

Unfortunately, that’s not enough to pay for several months of life support for the mother, then NICU for the baby.

Sure - but dunno if the hospital is discounting.

ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 18/06/2025 14:00

No baby should be gestated in the quiet and static womb of a rotting mother.

Mj4me · 18/06/2025 14:01

Somebody said he wasn't delivered by c-section he was removed during an autopsy.
Which sounds dramatic but is quite true in a way

smallglassbottle · 18/06/2025 14:01

AuntieAunt · 18/06/2025 12:50

The fact they did this without the families support. The poor woman had a DNR in place. It would have been one thing if she was 25+ weeks pregnant at the time but the fact she was only 9 weeks. Imagine the poor family having to watch their poor love one rot and then be dissected.

How the family also have to foot the medical bills for the last few months.

For a country that beats on about religion, why act like god?

Because this isn't Christianity. It's something else. The same goes for those patients forced to remain alive on life support for months. Sometimes people aren't meant to survive, as sad as that is.

FancyCatSlave · 18/06/2025 14:01

Blessed be the fruit…..

SheilaFentiman · 18/06/2025 14:02

Mj4me · 18/06/2025 14:01

Somebody said he wasn't delivered by c-section he was removed during an autopsy.
Which sounds dramatic but is quite true in a way

Edited

This is untrue - the announcements make clear the delivery was Friday and the life support was turned off yesterday.

ETA - my response was to your unedited post.

ACR7 · 18/06/2025 14:03

ive not long had a baby. If something had happened to me in pregnancy I absolutely would have wanted them to do anything to save her no matter what the expense to me.

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