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Baby of brain dead woman finally delivered weighing less than 2 pounds

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Soubriquet · 18/06/2025 12:27

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It’s evil what was done to that poor woman. At one point she was literally rotting just so she could incubate the fetus that little bit longer. He’s finally been born, and he’s so small. They are confident he will make it, but I think they HAVE to say that to justify what they did.

Least she can rest in peace now

Baby of brain-dead woman on life support is born weighing less than 2lbs

The baby of a woman in Georgia who was declared brain dead and has been on life support since February was delivered early Friday morning, her mother said

https://www.themirror.com/news/us-news/georgia-newborn-delivered-brain-dead-1213815?fbclid=IwY2xjawK_gOZleHRuA2FlbQIxMQABHkHm22r72TRfRb1NoCkQxmQpV53f71BDzj3bjFOVi8koK9C7b6A0Z_gB08R2_aem_mHRg2EJ7nbZQy6xc3m1D4A

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SheilaFentiman · 18/06/2025 15:35

@LifeExperience where has the father been quoted, please?

Icebreakhell · 18/06/2025 15:35

What a terrible, monstrous thing to do.

That country is turning into fucking Gilead.

Anothernamechange23gfdd · 18/06/2025 15:35

ACR7 · 18/06/2025 14:03

ive not long had a baby. If something had happened to me in pregnancy I absolutely would have wanted them to do anything to save her no matter what the expense to me.

If it was viable for delivery straight away and had not had any lack of oxygen then absolutely.

But for me not at 9 weeks absolutely not. I would never want to incubate a baby dead or alive that I believed was at risk of serious health issues from birth and subsequent lack of quality of life.

yakkity · 18/06/2025 15:36

Soggybirthdaycamping · 18/06/2025 13:03

It's not an experiment. It's been done before. Just not quite this early. In the case of a woman kept alive for 14 weeks (the record - though does this beat it?), baby was fine. Follow up at a year showed baby was fine. Don't know about longer than that as they were discharged from further follow up.

Psychologically, who knows. But in that case the family were behind the decision, would read to 'bump' etc.

It feels ghoulishly like people don't want this baby to be ok, so it proves their point.

No one want this baby to be damaged. Where are you getting that idea from. Your head?

the fetus went for an ectebddd period of time without oxygen when the mother had the stroke. The chances of this baby being in anyway functioning are very slim

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 18/06/2025 15:36

So the wishes of a man who wasn't even the female patient's next of kin prevailed over her express wish not to be resuscitated?

IButtleSir · 18/06/2025 15:38

LifeExperience · 18/06/2025 15:31

Number 2: The father of the child wanted to give his child a chance at life. That was why there was a fight. Of course the media played that aspect down because it didn't fit the narrative. Because they were not married, there were TWO nexts-of-kin who differed on what they wanted. The parents were the mother's nok, the father of the child was the baby's nok.

The father, who was the mother's partner and also the father of her other child, isn't running to the press, the mother's family is, and they've been spouting lies about who is going to pay. The mother's insurance will pay. Parents of an adult child are not responsible for their medical costs. What the insurance doesn't pay, the mother's estate will pay. If her estate can't cover it, the taxpayers will pay.

The father of the child will pay the baby's costs. If he can't then the taxpayers will pay. That's how it works here. The parents aren't on the hook for a penny of it, despite their lies to the press.

Why the parents of the mother were so eager to let her die I don't understand; I would want my grandchild to have a chance at life.

The woman had a DNR in place. Her partner's wishes for her to gestate a 9 week old foetus should absolutely not have trumped that.

SheilaFentiman · 18/06/2025 15:39

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 18/06/2025 15:36

So the wishes of a man who wasn't even the female patient's next of kin prevailed over her express wish not to be resuscitated?

I think that's unclear. As the foetus was past the six week 'heart beat' gestation and in Georgia, the doctors may well have felt that - legally - they were on shaky ground to abide by the DNR, regardless of any family view.

goldfishbowl2025 · 18/06/2025 15:40

This is like the Handmaids Tale

Thelnebriati · 18/06/2025 15:41

It really is. It's so dystopian, I can't believe anyone thought this was in the best interests of the fetus.

SheilaFentiman · 18/06/2025 15:44

Emory University Hospital determined she had blood clots in her brain and she was declared brain-dead. She was eight weeks pregnant, according to WXIA...
Smith’s family said Emory doctors told them they were not allowed to remove the devices keeping her breathing because state law bans abortion after cardiac activity can be detected — generally around six weeks into pregnancy.

https://www.pbs.org/newshour/nation/baby-delivered-prematurely-from-brain-dead-woman-on-life-support-in-georgia

I truly don't think this was down to the father overruling the DNR - though of course, he may have been supportive of the hospital's actions.

littleorangefox · 18/06/2025 15:53

Toastedpickle · 18/06/2025 13:07

No one is wishing the death of a child, that goes without saying. He may survive, but he almost certainly will not thrive. And let’s NOT put aside the ‘rights and wrongs’ of this case, because they have caused him, his mother and his wider family a lot of suffering and distress.

Why do you think he won't thrive? Apart from being raised without his mother of course.

Digdongdoo · 18/06/2025 15:56

littleorangefox · 18/06/2025 15:53

Why do you think he won't thrive? Apart from being raised without his mother of course.

Because he grew in a dead body, was starved of oxygen for some time, was premature and it was earlier reported (though this info seems to be missing from the recent reports for some reason...) that he has severe hydrocephalus. He isn't going to thrive. That's wishful thinking.

SheilaFentiman · 18/06/2025 15:56

littleorangefox · 18/06/2025 15:53

Why do you think he won't thrive? Apart from being raised without his mother of course.

He was born at something like 27/28 weeks gestation in the end, which can result in complications (Emory were trying to get to 32 weeks), as with other premature babies.

okydokethen · 18/06/2025 15:56

I’m re watching the handmaids tale and in one episode there is shock and horror that a brain dead women is being kept alive to keep her baby alive - she is not the patient, the unborn child is.
This was what 2018? And told as sickening.

SheilaFentiman · 18/06/2025 15:57

X-post wirh @Digdongdoo

littleorangefox · 18/06/2025 15:57

Digdongdoo · 18/06/2025 15:56

Because he grew in a dead body, was starved of oxygen for some time, was premature and it was earlier reported (though this info seems to be missing from the recent reports for some reason...) that he has severe hydrocephalus. He isn't going to thrive. That's wishful thinking.

I was just curious if the opinion was based on the prematurity alone or if there was more to it. Thanks for the info.

littleorangefox · 18/06/2025 15:59

SheilaFentiman · 18/06/2025 15:56

He was born at something like 27/28 weeks gestation in the end, which can result in complications (Emory were trying to get to 32 weeks), as with other premature babies.

I understand that. But prematurity alone doesn't mean a baby won't thrive. Premature babies can and do thrive. But another poster has given me extra info which makes more sense.

Ketzele · 18/06/2025 16:03

I think there is a social and ethical debate to be had about when and whether life support should be used for pregnant women where it provides a reasonably short window for the fetus to mature.

My gut feel is that this should only be an option in the third trimester, though. Or possibly after viability. I don't think society should be incubating fetuses without live mothers. Not even if the mother wants it, the father wants it or the family wants it. There are some things that are beyond personal choice.

Toddlerteaplease · 18/06/2025 16:10

TheNightingalesStarling · 18/06/2025 12:49

The poor child will have a massive burden growing up when they are old enough to understand how controversial their birth was.

That’s only if he doesn’t have a hypoxic brain injury and severe disabilities.

SapphireSeptember · 18/06/2025 16:11

ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 18/06/2025 14:00

No baby should be gestated in the quiet and static womb of a rotting mother.

Perfectly put. I wouldn't have wanted that for me and DS. I didn't even think about it when I was pregnant with him, so it's a good thing nothing happened.

ClosetBasketCase · 18/06/2025 16:11

It was just sick what was done. Absolutley vile. The weight that the kid will have to have on his shouldners - if he survives that long. the phrases that'll be thrown at him,
America is sick.

SheilaFentiman · 18/06/2025 16:14

Ketzele · 18/06/2025 16:03

I think there is a social and ethical debate to be had about when and whether life support should be used for pregnant women where it provides a reasonably short window for the fetus to mature.

My gut feel is that this should only be an option in the third trimester, though. Or possibly after viability. I don't think society should be incubating fetuses without live mothers. Not even if the mother wants it, the father wants it or the family wants it. There are some things that are beyond personal choice.

I would agree that there should be such a debate. I assume that a number of such cases are "clear": either a long way from viability or at the stage where a week or so more, with steroids to mature the baby's lungs perhaps, is enough to be meaningful. It will be the 'middle' cases that would be good to have more universal guidance.

Thelnebriati · 18/06/2025 16:20

Its should be the other way round. There should be a blanket ruling that letting a dead woman die by taking her off life support is not 'providing an abortion'. No medical staff should be prosecuted. That way they'll never have to argue in court over how many minutes the brain has been deprived of oxygen, and whether they did enough.
Medical staff that decide to try to save the fetus can argue their case, and show the odds of a good outcome.

ACR7 · 18/06/2025 16:23

Anothernamechange23gfdd · 18/06/2025 15:35

If it was viable for delivery straight away and had not had any lack of oxygen then absolutely.

But for me not at 9 weeks absolutely not. I would never want to incubate a baby dead or alive that I believed was at risk of serious health issues from birth and subsequent lack of quality of life.

Yeah I think your right 9 weeks is very early. It’s just a horrible sad story.

SheilaFentiman · 18/06/2025 16:23

Its should be the other way round. There should be a blanket ruling that letting a dead woman die by taking her off life support is not 'providing an abortion'.

I don't think it would ever be considered an abortion in the UK, even if a woman was taken off life support at 39 weeks. The US is tricky because (a) different states have different laws and (b) they have a concept of 'personhood' for a foetus that I don't think we have in UK law.