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Dawn French

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Violetparis · 07/06/2025 07:27

Anyone else appalled and shocked at Dawn French's social media video mocking the reaction to the terror attack in Israel on Oct 6th. What on earth was she thinking ? She comes across as horrible and lacking in any empathy. I feel sorry for the innocent people on both sides of this war, in Palestine and in Israel.

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forensicdetective · 07/06/2025 11:47

Acommonreader · 07/06/2025 11:42

This. The delivery is not good but I agree that she is mimicking the argument.

She is not "mimicking the argument". She is assigning words and sentiments to the Jewish people whose friends, relatives, loved ones, children, babies, and compatriots were raped, slaughtered, paraded naked on trucks, and taken hostage, on October 7, and then starved, raped some more, and let die from neglect.

She is mocking the people of Israel as if they are whining and saying these things. It's disgusting.

VitaSays · 07/06/2025 11:48

I'd like to commend @WhatterySquash 's post at 10.34, in which she says:

it’s one area where I absolutely do think it’s ok to be on the fence and be sorry for the suffering on both sides, but to also admit it’s complex and you might not have the expertise or background knowledge to fully take a side. You can deplore illegal and cruel violence whoever does it, even though some people won’t be happy with that.

l’m also not comfortable with how taking sides in this conflict. seems to be aligning (often bizarrely and inconsistently) with other values like being left or right wing, your views on genderism, racism, the environment or the general omnicause. If you’re falling into line to jump to 100% defend one side or the other just because it’s whatever your gang are saying, that suggests not thinking it through. That’s why we’re seeing things like “queers for Palestine” etc. but I think it can also happen the other way round.

This, absolutely. As I mentioned upthread, my family were in Belfast during the Troubles, though we were not from NI or the Republic. My father was an academic at Queens. As an outsider I was able to see both perspectives: my parents talked a lot about the history of Ireland, the religious differences, the involvement of the British. I'm usually very wary of people who pick a side and stick to it unless they have an in-depth understanding of an extremely complex and usually historical situation. And I'm particularly wary of people who insist you have to pick a side and assume you're on the other side if you don't pick theirs.

Acommonreader · 07/06/2025 11:50

madroid · 07/06/2025 11:09

What is it you actually object to in the video?

She starts by saying its complicated and nuanced.

She uses that voice to minimise the attempts at justifying why they are starving children to death in Palestine, suggesting these are unimportant when set against children being killed by starving.

And she keeps repeating 'no' to emphasise that no matter how the war started starving children to death cannot be right.

I'm not sure what people are finding so wrong with that?

I absolutely agree with her - there is no justification for starving children to death in any context or circumstance. Just NO

You have explained much better than I have. I think DF agrees with everyone here who is outraged at the atrocities.
She is not taking the piss out of victims. She is arguing that nothing justifies their terrible situation.

ElBandito · 07/06/2025 11:50

She is supposedly a talented writer and author. She should be able to make a valid point regarding the treatment of children in Gaza in a far more intelligent way without belittling the very real trauma experienced by thousands of a horrific attack on Israel.
It just looks like she's whacked a quick video on her social media without any thought at all. If it wasn't a complicated situation it would have been solved in the past 80 years and never got to this point in the first place.

NotABottie · 07/06/2025 11:51

meisafairy · 07/06/2025 11:47

Other users have quoted sources above, but you won’t believe it. You’ll deny it as it doesn’t suit your narrative.
Yes, Israel has a right to defend itself. Yes, they have every right to get rid of Hamus but they don’t have every right to kill innocent people by the thousands. And yes, they are starving them to death.
It’s a genocide, pure and simple. The western world is looking away as it’s literally white versus brown.
I actually don’t follow any religion as I believe it brings nothing but trouble and this isn’t about religion. It’s land grab simple as.

I only believe the torrent of SM videos coming out of Gaza daily.

Surely everyone else does too?

ElBandito · 07/06/2025 11:54

Acommonreader · 07/06/2025 11:50

You have explained much better than I have. I think DF agrees with everyone here who is outraged at the atrocities.
She is not taking the piss out of victims. She is arguing that nothing justifies their terrible situation.

I think the problem is that the voice she uses to say it's complicated and nuanced suggests, perhaps incorrectly, that she doesn't think it's complicated and nuanced at all.

inamarina · 07/06/2025 11:58

Letstheriveranswer · 07/06/2025 11:30

Absolutely appalling.

I have seen this type of stuff on social media every single day since October 7th. People mocking and gaslighting, denying it happened. Saying or heavily implying "Oh yes but they were Israeli, they deserved it"

It has become mainstream.

One day people will wake up and realise that had they been alive in the 1930s and 1940's they would have been gleefully reporting their Jewish friends and neighbours to the Nazis, or at least turning a blind eye as they were carried off, before nipping into their homes to take stuff they would no longer be needing.

Dawn French can join their ranks and she has just joined the long list of celebrities who I will never watch again (not that she was ever that great).

The gaslighting is really something else.
You see it on this thread too: “Oh, she’s not mocking the victims, she’s just mocking the people who’re trying to justify Israel’s actions!”
Sure, that’s why she’s talking in that ridiculous whiny voice, saying “They did a bad thing to us” She says “us”, not “them”, so she’s talking from the perspective of the Israelis, mocking their pain. Absolutely vile.
I wonder how the posters defending her would have reacted if she’d mocked the Palestinians in the same manner: “Oh, they’re starving us”.
Something tells me that in that case their reaction would have been quite different.

YellowBun · 07/06/2025 11:58

Acommonreader · 07/06/2025 11:50

You have explained much better than I have. I think DF agrees with everyone here who is outraged at the atrocities.
She is not taking the piss out of victims. She is arguing that nothing justifies their terrible situation.

I agree with you. I don’t like DF at all. But I think she’s of a generation with a different mindset that isn’t so ready to take offence, and didn’t anticipate being misunderstood and won’t take it down to pander to those determined to be offended.

forensicdetective · 07/06/2025 11:59

ElBandito · 07/06/2025 11:54

I think the problem is that the voice she uses to say it's complicated and nuanced suggests, perhaps incorrectly, that she doesn't think it's complicated and nuanced at all.

She's clearly mocking the idea of it being actually complicated and nuanced.

But mostly she is mocking the Jewish people in every whiny, baby-voiced sentiment, mocking the suffering of the victims of October 7, and mocking and gurning like an unreasonable whining child as she puts forward what she childishly imagines are the Israeli people's views. It's disgusting.

notawittyname1954 · 07/06/2025 11:59

Absolutely disgusting the way she expressed herself. If she did mean it differently she didnt think it through properly. You can have compassion for Gaza and what was done on October 7th. The stupid voice and faces she pulled. Despicable

Gloriia · 07/06/2025 12:02

ElBandito · 07/06/2025 11:54

I think the problem is that the voice she uses to say it's complicated and nuanced suggests, perhaps incorrectly, that she doesn't think it's complicated and nuanced at all.

This. Dripping sarcasm it's absolutely despicable that she'd try and be such a clever cow about such a horrific situation.
Wonder if she's sat at home smirking at all the attention she's getting. They'll be booking her for HIGNFY next.

PaperLife · 07/06/2025 12:03

Poor judgement to use a comedic voice.

Freysimo · 07/06/2025 12:04

Does anyone know if she's received any on line support from luvvy mates?

UseNailOil · 07/06/2025 12:07

I can’t bear her

TwoBakedOnes · 07/06/2025 12:08

Rafting2022 · 07/06/2025 07:54

I’ve never liked Dawn French or found her funny. Love Jennifer Saunders though so always thought I must be missing something if she could put up with her.

I met Dawn once in a professional capacity, I was very much a fan.

She could have been having an off day but she didn't come across well, I was very disappointed.

Gloriia · 07/06/2025 12:08

She always seemed like the thick mate to Saunder's clever wit but I must admit I thought it was put on, clearly not.

TheSalmonMousse · 07/06/2025 12:10

Yes, little, this;

"What is happening in Gaza is horrific but any commentary on this needs wisdom, compassion and care. She’s demonstrated none of the above."

EdithBond · 07/06/2025 12:12

Acommonreader · 07/06/2025 11:24

She is mocking the people who are defending the atrocities committed by both sides.
She is mocking those who justify either side by saying the other did ‘ bad things’.
She is mocking those who say it is a nuanced situation ( thus defending atrocities).
I appreciate that you find the video very upsetting but I do believe she agrees with you and it saying ‘NO ‘ to all the excuses being used by both sides.
She is saying everything you said in your post. That nothing ‘complicated ‘or ‘nuanced ‘can ever justify what has happened to EVERYONE INVOLVED.
She could have made it clearer. Watch it again.

I don’t find it ‘very upsetting’ or need to watch it numerous times.

As I said above, I find it frustratingly bad judgement. It’s created a sideshow for people to take sides around.

When the focus should be on urgently ending the enforced suffering of millions of people in Gaza, including the people held hostage.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 07/06/2025 12:12

@latetothefisting, sadly it no longer surprises me that so many people are clueless about basic grammar.

inamarina · 07/06/2025 12:12

forensicdetective · 07/06/2025 11:59

She's clearly mocking the idea of it being actually complicated and nuanced.

But mostly she is mocking the Jewish people in every whiny, baby-voiced sentiment, mocking the suffering of the victims of October 7, and mocking and gurning like an unreasonable whining child as she puts forward what she childishly imagines are the Israeli people's views. It's disgusting.

Absolutely this. Can’t believe the people on this thread trying to defend her and pretending she’s not actually mocking the victims of October 7th.

bohemianwrapsody · 07/06/2025 12:19

Charlize43 · 07/06/2025 11:36

A friend of mine who lives in Cornwall hates her!

She's one of the elite band of celebrities who live in Cornwall & London and pushed the property prices beyond the reach of the locals.

To be fair she grew up in Plymouth...she clearly sees the SW as her home.

PaperLife · 07/06/2025 12:20

I think her tone minimises all suffering.

nomas · 07/06/2025 12:22

Sarahconnor1 · 07/06/2025 11:44

What an odd take.

I'm not talking about 'Israel' being hurt, I'm talking about individual people, mainly civilians who lost relatives and friends in the 7th Oct attack.

What about the Israelis describing Palestinians as ‘rats’? Did you find that hurtful? Care to date any of the numerous of massacres of Palestinians by the Israelis?

ForWittyTealOP · 07/06/2025 12:24

Bewareofstepfords · 07/06/2025 10:23

She IS a very compassionate person but this "performance" is a big mistake because it's left her open to misinterpretation.
I don't believe for a nano second that she's anti semitic. For a start she must have lots of Jewish pals in show biz.

You did not just say that!

Proudestmumofone1 · 07/06/2025 12:24

@Violetparis rhank you for posting this - it is beyond disturbing and the fact other ‘celebrities’ such as holly will-oh whatever her name is have liked it, is even worse.
So offensive.
She has every right to express her views, but mocking murder and kidnap is beyond vile.
Sympathy for all is needed…

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