How can I tell ds he can't come on holiday.

[Youagain2025]

I'm not 100% it will happen. But im trying to sort out a holiday for me my 3 youngest and adult ds. I want adult ds to come so that I have some company.

The reason I don't want my other ds to come is he's hard work he really drains me and in all honesty I Need a break . This would be my first holiday since I was around 15 years old. Also ds has been on holiday with his sister. He's going again in may . Then again next year .

He's coming up 18 . He is able to pay for himself. But that's not what it's about . Obviously I can't tell him that he's hard work etc.

Are you any further forward with booking op? Seen any good deals?

I need to do passports first . I was told its to risky to book before we get passports.

Is this the Tunisia holiday?

@NotTerfNorCis Well spotted. I thought the username sounded familiar when I read that thread, but I wasn’t sure why. I’ve been on Mumsnet for over a decade so I thought I was getting old and just seeing a familiar username.