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Ds wants the biggest room.

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I4gotmyname · 02/01/2025 20:01

Ds keeps asking for a room swap. He's doing my head in . For past 4 days all I have heard is mum let me explain.

He then gos on to say please could we do a room swap . He's asking for A* to have his room . M to have A room and him to have M* room and E stay where he is.

Basically teen ds wants the largest room. I told him no as we have that set up for a reason . Ds has a middle size room. Easy get a double bed. His wardrobes , drawers and snake enclosure, also his gaming set up and still plenty of floor space.

Then he's bugging me but there's no where to put my snake can I at least put it in your room. Me no . Then he gos on and on to get the same answer.

Today its can me and E* at least swap beds . He has a small double . E* also has the smallest room . Again told him no.

Oh and also can i put the stake in the airing cupboard. Its a large walk on one . Told him no again. Thats where I dry my washing.

I don't get his thinking . I get he may ask. But he's spent 4 days going on and on.

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AlwaysRight1985 · 03/01/2025 16:54

Doesn't he also have his own supported living accommodation?

Are you scared of him? From your other posts he seems to rule the roost all the time to the detriment of everyone else. You know you need to say no to him so not sure how this has ended up being 5 pages of debate when the answer was no all along...

AlwaysRight1985 · 03/01/2025 16:55

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We will ignore the disability and special needs then just so you can have a dig. 👍

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KilkennyCats · 03/01/2025 17:06

I thought I recognised the op.
Why is he back living with you, didn’t his social worker secure supported accommodation for him?
Do they know he’s not actually living in it?!
What a carnival it all sounds.

I4gotmyname · 03/01/2025 17:14

KilkennyCats · 03/01/2025 17:06

I thought I recognised the op.
Why is he back living with you, didn’t his social worker secure supported accommodation for him?
Do they know he’s not actually living in it?!
What a carnival it all sounds.

I swear posters message each other so they can join in together and have digs . Because it seems one person says something then other joins in.

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AlwaysRight1985 · 03/01/2025 17:27

I4gotmyname · 03/01/2025 17:04

We will ignore the disability and special needs then just so you can have a dig. 👍

I'm disabled myself actually. Special needs and disability is not an excuse to act aggressive/terrorise others/get your own way 24/7.

Nobody is messaging each other - you just keep name changing then posting about the same things over and over again. Yet when people offer varied and well-meaning advice, there's always a reason (excuse) why you can't do said thing. It's exhausting.

If you spent half the amount time you spend moaning on Mumsnet about the state of your house on sorting it out it would be gleaming by now!

I4gotmyname · 03/01/2025 17:29

AlwaysRight1985 · 03/01/2025 17:27

I'm disabled myself actually. Special needs and disability is not an excuse to act aggressive/terrorise others/get your own way 24/7.

Nobody is messaging each other - you just keep name changing then posting about the same things over and over again. Yet when people offer varied and well-meaning advice, there's always a reason (excuse) why you can't do said thing. It's exhausting.

If you spent half the amount time you spend moaning on Mumsnet about the state of your house on sorting it out it would be gleaming by now!

Well your clearly not up to date because my house of fine

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AnnoyedAsAllHeck · 13/06/2025 12:06

LivelyHare · 02/01/2025 22:42

This is why you shouldn’t have so many kids.

Congratulations--you have made the lamest post of the day.

Get a life and buy a clue.

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