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Do you do housework on Christmas Day?

239 replies

Kibble29 · 20/12/2024 21:47

Prepared to accept that I’m a weirdo, but I’ll definitely do a washing (and hang it up to dry) and hoover. Once the day is done and the kid’s in bed, I’ll maybe do the ironing if there’s any sitting.

Am I a lunatic for doing housework that day? Do you do any?

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SWLondonLurker · 21/12/2024 00:05

Kibble29 · 21/12/2024 00:00

Piss off with your goady generalisations.

Do you just get the staff to do yours? 🙄

What part of what I said is upsetting you, exactly?

Kibble29 · 21/12/2024 00:13

SWLondonLurker · 21/12/2024 00:05

What part of what I said is upsetting you, exactly?

None of it is upsetting me, but it’s deliberately goading in nature towards anyone reading this thread.

Your wording suggests you find the working and/or lower middle classes fascinating, like they’re animals in a zoo you’d go and observe the behaviour of. You’re alluding that you’re above all of this, to give the impression you’re wealthy, privileged and just cannot possibly understand normal daily things like cleaning and doing washing.

Of course, this is the internet, so for all we know, you’re writing your messages from a couch you bought on a Capital One credit card in a council flat that you get housing benefit for. We’ll never know. 😏

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SWLondonLurker · 21/12/2024 00:21

Kibble29 · 21/12/2024 00:13

None of it is upsetting me, but it’s deliberately goading in nature towards anyone reading this thread.

Your wording suggests you find the working and/or lower middle classes fascinating, like they’re animals in a zoo you’d go and observe the behaviour of. You’re alluding that you’re above all of this, to give the impression you’re wealthy, privileged and just cannot possibly understand normal daily things like cleaning and doing washing.

Of course, this is the internet, so for all we know, you’re writing your messages from a couch you bought on a Capital One credit card in a council flat that you get housing benefit for. We’ll never know. 😏

You certainly sound upset. And your assumption that ‘working class’ is an insult, as opposed to a demographic identifier really doesn’t have anything to do with me.

Everyone cleans and does laundry. Doing so obsessively, multiple times a day and on Christmas, being unable to deal with ‘falling behind’ because you’ve skipped a day, needing to ‘run the hoover round’ because a few crumbs have been spilled, and so on…that’s a pretty specific demographic. If identifying with that demographic is somehow beneath you, then that’s your issue, not mine.

Normallynumb · 21/12/2024 00:26

Only washing up and keeping floor clear.
Possibly quick fling of the dyson before bed but that's it

JBJ · 21/12/2024 00:26

If it's my turn to host, I'll usually run the vacuum round before guests arrive to make sure there's no stray dog hairs lying around. Tidy up any obvious mess and load the dishwasher when we've finished eating, but otherwise the rest can wait until the next day.

greenose · 21/12/2024 00:28

I do some sort of house work, everyday of my life, even on holiday 😢🤦‍♀️

Kibble29 · 21/12/2024 00:28

SWLondonLurker · 21/12/2024 00:21

You certainly sound upset. And your assumption that ‘working class’ is an insult, as opposed to a demographic identifier really doesn’t have anything to do with me.

Everyone cleans and does laundry. Doing so obsessively, multiple times a day and on Christmas, being unable to deal with ‘falling behind’ because you’ve skipped a day, needing to ‘run the hoover round’ because a few crumbs have been spilled, and so on…that’s a pretty specific demographic. If identifying with that demographic is somehow beneath you, then that’s your issue, not mine.

So why do you relate the “obsessive” cleaning/laundry behaviour with the working class? Where’s the connection between the two that fascinates you?

It’s laughable that you’re back pedalling now and suggesting that I have the issue because I think someone being working class is an insult. Your initial comment was read exactly as it was intended.

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Arrwedancers · 21/12/2024 00:30

Of course, just another day for us mum's isn't it?

ThePlatypusAlwaysTriumphs · 21/12/2024 00:32

Too busy cooking/ drinking! In the nicest possible way, you are a lunatic! I get all the washing etc out of the way before Christmas

SWLondonLurker · 21/12/2024 00:33

Kibble29 · 21/12/2024 00:28

So why do you relate the “obsessive” cleaning/laundry behaviour with the working class? Where’s the connection between the two that fascinates you?

It’s laughable that you’re back pedalling now and suggesting that I have the issue because I think someone being working class is an insult. Your initial comment was read exactly as it was intended.

I have no idea what the connection is. It says so in my very first comment. Perhaps you were too busy rage typing to see it. It’s a working class/lower middle class thing, I wonder why that is and I find it fascinating.

I’m not back pedalling at all. I meant what I said, and I’ve repeated it. You’re the one with the issue.

Hskatkat · 21/12/2024 00:34

@Arrwedancers , not at mine I do none of the cooking or kitchen clearing and I've never ironed a thing in my life. We have dogs, we have a routine it's just how we do our home life.
I used to go for a ride on Christmas day and really miss that.
We do what works for us .

Kibble29 · 21/12/2024 00:39

Haha rage typing. I definitely wasn’t, I don’t even fall into the working class bracket you mentioned so have no dog in that particular fight.

I have no issue at all, you’re just some anonymous person online, but I would bet money that other people reading this thread think you’re sanctimonious and patronising.

Have a lovely Christmas with not a hoover, SpeedMop or laundry pod in sight. 😊

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SWLondonLurker · 21/12/2024 01:03

Kibble29 · 21/12/2024 00:39

Haha rage typing. I definitely wasn’t, I don’t even fall into the working class bracket you mentioned so have no dog in that particular fight.

I have no issue at all, you’re just some anonymous person online, but I would bet money that other people reading this thread think you’re sanctimonious and patronising.

Have a lovely Christmas with not a hoover, SpeedMop or laundry pod in sight. 😊

If you say so. And I’ll certainly do my best.

SnowFrogJelly · 21/12/2024 01:05

Kibble29 · 20/12/2024 21:47

Prepared to accept that I’m a weirdo, but I’ll definitely do a washing (and hang it up to dry) and hoover. Once the day is done and the kid’s in bed, I’ll maybe do the ironing if there’s any sitting.

Am I a lunatic for doing housework that day? Do you do any?

Why??

unmemorableusername · 21/12/2024 01:34

I'm gobsmacked!

Can you really not take a day off?

Does your DP do housework on Christmas Day?

This would get the Nobel Prize for martyrdom.

fivebyfivebuffy · 21/12/2024 01:51

unmemorableusername · 21/12/2024 01:34

I'm gobsmacked!

Can you really not take a day off?

Does your DP do housework on Christmas Day?

This would get the Nobel Prize for martyrdom.

I mean if you want to do it, I don't see the issue

I'm single and will be doing some cleaning and also exercise on Christmas Day because I find both stress relieving and enjoyable mostly, you can keep the ironing
It'll keep me occupied as I'm home alone and then my house will be ready for visitors on Boxing Day

PastaAndProse · 21/12/2024 01:58

I'll turn the robot vacuum on. Load the dishwasher. Remove any wrapping paper/boxes etc after present opening. That's about the extent of it.

coxesorangepippin · 21/12/2024 02:27

Bare minimum of housework on Xmas day

I'm at it all year round!

magicalmrmistoffelees · 21/12/2024 03:06

Arrwedancers · 21/12/2024 00:30

Of course, just another day for us mum's isn't it?

Not for me.

NotVeryFunny · 21/12/2024 03:38

No. Definitely not (other than the essentials, tidying up wrap, clearing and washing up dinner etc). Don't any Boxing Day either which is a glorious day of lolling about eating crap, watching films and doing very little.

NotVeryFunny · 21/12/2024 03:42

Kibble29 · 20/12/2024 22:52

The washing is the only thing I’ll definitely do that others seem to say no to on Christmas Day. There are 5 of us In the house so we can be 2 washing loads per day on a normal day. Builds up very quickly and I don’t want to spend Boxing Day trying to get through a mountain of it.

Hoovering I think needs to be done with all the small bits of mess from wrapping paper, food crumbs etc. I guess that depends on the makeup of your family though; I have a toddler so it’s guaranteed.

Bins will go out too, of course, but that takes about 8 seconds.

Just do it all beforehand so basket is empty then start again the day after Boxing Day. There can't be that much accrued in two days.

LoudPlumDog · 21/12/2024 04:03

SecretSoul · 20/12/2024 22:21

Do people really need to do laundry every single day? It's hard to imagine laundry piling up by taking one single day off the housework.

Agree with clearing up wrapping paper, taking cups/glasses out to the kitchen and sticking the dishwasher on.

But laundry and ironing? I mean, it's up to you, and if that's what makes you happy then fine.

But really, it sort of suggests that you can never switch off and just enjoy the company of your family and friends. I'd not be happy with my partner if they were insisting on doing ironing on Christmas Day evening. My DC would also feel as if I wasn't spending proper time with them.

And I say this as someone with ADHD who is TERRIBLE at switching off and relaxing - if even I'm thinking it's a bit OTT, that's saying something 😂

Quite aside from anything else, aren't you absolutely knackered from a day of cooking a huge meal and then stuffing your face?!

There’s always laundry to do everyday, a load of clothes, then another which may be towels, sheets, gym gear, pet bedding, cushion covers, mats. There is always s.

ChristmasFluff · 21/12/2024 06:32

I will definitely vacuum on Christmas Day. I vacuum every day and there's lots of 'bits' on Christmas Day.

Washing up also, because I have a small kitchen and no dishwasher.

But I don't do most other jobs every day, so I certainly wouldn't be doing them on Christmas Day.

Cottonheadedninhymuggins · 21/12/2024 06:58

Mostly all done on Christmas Eve but the dishes will be done, kitchen will have a wipe around and the bathroom a wipe over just before family come. It’s our only bathroom and will need it after showers and hair washes, teeth etc on Christmas Day. It’s a very quick freshen up though.

SneakyLilNameChange · 21/12/2024 07:06

I’m very House proud and spend a lot of time most days pottering and cleaning but god not on Christmas! I do like to go to bed with the house allll sorted (ie washing up done, sides washed down, relatively fresh for Boxing Day) but absolutely no hoovering unless someone drops something very messy, no clothes washing and definitely not cleaning a bathroom?! I find it really sad people can’t have one day off!

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