I compliment people a lot! Was waiting to pay at a cash machine in a local town,there was a lady, guessing at least late 60s, probably older, she loved fabulous, especially her long blonde hair. I told her, she thanked me, said she had just had it done. Walking the dogs on the beach, recently, the tide was out,I'm wearing the dog walking stuff and wellies,there was an older lady wearing a midi length floral skirt,t shirt,lacey cardigan and raffia bag,bare feet. She looked amazing and I told her,we got chatting about our dogs. I always feel like a rag bag,in our local council elections, I was representing a local candidate, standing outside the poling station with my rosette and clip board,a couple came up, the man came over, said he had garment factories till he retired,that I looked fantastic,my outfit was very well thought out, and perfectly co ordinated. It made my day! I was night nursing many years, I didn't take offence at make colleagues saying I looked nice, good for my age or the patients. The only time I was negative, although it actually was quite funny, I worked on a stroke ward, was with the Dr,chap paralyzed down one side,dr wanted him turned over,he grabbed my boob, with his "good" hand,I said "what you think you are doing"? He said "you don't mind do you"? I said "actually I do". He let go,we carried on with the examination and laughed at it in the staff room. We often had people with brain tumours and they can exhibit sexual and very uninhibited behaviour, they cannot help it.