Police brought son home

[Purplehydra]

Feel ill
he was terrified
they got stopped cos they all ran off cos someone let off a firework. It wasn’t him or his friends.
got searched and they found weed. That they had bought the night before for the very first time.
thet handcuffed him
they were very nice
he’s 17
wtf?!!
he’s a really good kid, they just wanted to try it.
hes autistic and has adhd, not sure that’s relevant here

@Blaggoshpereish

glad to have helped you learn something then.

And you revealed exactly your parenting philosophy …and that your kids are feral.

Because a) "it was the first time, mum, I swear" is the oldest excuse in the book when caught red-handed, and b) the chances that you were so terribly unlucky as to get picked up by the fuzz and searched the very first time you ever had drugs in your possession is miniscule.

@Blaggoshpereish

Don't be ridiculous. My children aren't feral & you know nothing about my parenting.

There are a lot of children whose parents are quite lax, but the impact on society was far less damaging when the children were aware the local police would be on them if they were violent/harming wildlife/intimidating/ etc.

now they know there are no consequences & their parents won't find out, they don't give a shit.

Well Mumsnet HQ have removed my post on this thread and I can’t see why.

Maybe because you called a child horrible names
I didn’t report btw

Oh OK.