On holiday. Middle of the street. Wearing a strapless top and DH pulls my top down (no bra, he knows this)

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I was mortified and embarrassed. He was drunk (no excuse). He said no one saw.

I feel v disrespected

Thoughts

For those saying this is teenage behaviour, I hope if any of you have sons you are not bringing them up to think this is okay behaviour. I would be so angry with DS if he thought this was just an acceptable prank.

You must know what he's like in general or is this the first time he's been immature in public.

Look out everybody, the Clothes Police are here! Who made you judge & jury over what other people wear.

Holy shit, you poor thing

Wow, you're a dark one.

I love it

Why would he do such a thing ? Does he like to 'share you' . Most men like to keep their partner to themselves...
Either way - you've lost that very valuable trust &... there should only be one outcome!

@QuintessentialDragon Your perogative to dress as you wish, and if you did sunbathe topless, wear shorts with your ass hanging out, wore thong bikinis and scrunch bum leggings super short shirts with a massive cleavage, walk round in front of your family members naked and were totally comfortable with changing rooms... it still wouldn't mean that a man could pull down your top in public.

She wasn't asking for it even if she was wearing all the above simultaneously.

Agree.

Who's raising men to think and act in this manner?

And the prize for Most Misandrist Post On The Thread goes to... Elzibub!

It's not "typical drunk bloke behaviour". Most of them do better than that

Yes. Exposing someone in public is abuse and any level of abuse is grounds to end a marriage.

She wasn't asking for it even if she was wearing all the above simultaneously.

I think the Style And Beauty board would have a collective heart attack if OP did wear all that at the same time.

If he was OMG I'm so sorry, I don't know what I was thinking, maybe it was a silly, poorly thought out, drunken joke.

But he's not, he minimising and dismissing the way it's made you feel. I'd guess it's not the first time.

I know several middle aged men whose "humour" would send MN into a tizz, but I don't know anyone who'd do that.

It's the kind of thing I would be mortified if I had done and i would be expecting payback. My wife would begin a campaign of psychological warfare and it would be intense as she really would be miffed in similar circumstances.

Good answer! I’m glad to hear that your wife would inflict a proportional response to your lack of judgement rather than immediately filing for divorce as a lot of PP have recommended!

If your relationship involves retaliation and psychological warfare, it's dead.

I took that as a lighthearted comment, I doubt his marriage really involves psychological warfare.

I wouldn't ever trust not to expose me again. He'd be dumped

How old is this man? Absolutely hideous and disrespectful. I hope you don’t have kids with this fool!!

So, sexual assault by a purported loved one is "okay", because it's okay to sexually assault a loved one as long as your BAL (blood alcohol level) is high enough to pass it off as a "harmless stunt".

Got it. 🙄👀FFS!

This is absolutely how you should be looking at this…