Mum 43 dad 49. They were the oldest in the playground, couldn’t cope with a teenager and by the time I was 20 I had the oldest parents among my friends, I was their “rainbow baby” apparently and there is an age gap of 16 and 14 years between me and my siblings, we were never close.
I had our children in my was in my 20s I’m glad I did. DH and I made the decision if there was no children by the time we were 35 we weren’t having any due to both of us having older parents.