I've known this friend over 40 years and we've been supportive of each other's ups and downs over the years.
I did some fundraising recently for a national charity very close to my heart following a family tragedy.
A small group of us were out last night. They were commenting on how much had been raised and she nodded along, saying she had put some money in. I queried this as I don't remember seeing her name. She told me it was an anonymous donation and I left it there.
The thing is if you opt to be anonymous on the fundraising platform, then your name is only hidden from the public. I set up the page and know exactly who all the donations are from and she definitely isn't one of them!
I do understand that not everyone wants to give money and of course that's their choice, but for this friend to deliberately lie about it has really hurt me.
Should I say something?