Yep – someone I know died last year climbing in Wales. It was a real shock and v sad. Reading a local Welsh newspaper to understand more about what happened, there were some really tasteless comments and some others actually criticising the deceased for being a climber in their 50s (and so on).
Was just stunned that people could be so crass and hadn’t considered that friends and relatives might be reading. It wasn’t just an anonymous person, it was a real person with friends and family who were left reeling by what happened.
Would those same people put a name to their comment or agree to have them passed on to the family? Probably not. They weren’t invested at all, it was just something to pass the time for a moment.