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Thread 2 - Michael Mosley missing after disappearing on holiday walk

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Rubbishconfession · 07/06/2024 16:12

Following on from thread 1, linked below.

Let's hope the CCTV / sighting in town gives a glimmer of home that he made the walk from the beach to town ok.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/_chat/5090880-michael-moseley-missing-after-disappearing-on-holiday-walk?page=10&reply=135846185

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Rubbishconfession · 08/06/2024 12:38

westisbest1982 · 08/06/2024 12:22

Statement from his wife:

Michael Mosley: wife Clare says family will not lose hope

https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/1c0a53df-0f67-45fd-b8d5-8d1efab4f097?shareToken=3aac32786da75ef59f4a494cad23002c

Interesting that his wife says he went for a walk. So it’s possible he meant to go into the mountains, and not back to the villa.

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Ilikeadrink14 · 08/06/2024 12:38

barleyrice · 08/06/2024 12:31

It was because you wrote this, shaming his family in their time of distress:

If my husband said he felt unwell and was going back to the holiday home (some distance away and involving long walk or the need for transport), there’s NO way on earth I would have let him go alone. What were his family and so-called friends thinking to let him feel poorly without taking care of him. They should be ashamed.

Barleyrice, you just can’t leave it alone can you? Do you really think your comment helps an already inflamed situation? Your comment was hurtful and unnecessary.

Aquarius1234 · 08/06/2024 12:39

How long on average before being found and altering breaking news?

DatingDinosaur · 08/06/2024 12:40

DiscoBeat · 08/06/2024 12:38

I wonder if there are any wells. I'm sure the locals will know where, if so

I wondered this too. Or caves/underground caverns.

Oaktree55 · 08/06/2024 12:40

I’d imagine personality is hugely at play here. I’m likely projecting by commenting but it really irks me when elderly relatives cause grief in similar but less dramatic ways because they’re stubborn and lose all common sense! As a Dr I hope she mentions at some point the effect heat can have especially since their living was made being in public eye.

SloaneStreetVandal · 08/06/2024 12:40

GameOfJones · 08/06/2024 12:29

Still hoping against hope he will be found alive. There are instances of people who have survived against great odds. I do hope he is one of them.

Me too. And I really wish people would stop bickering at each other on here, it's awful and derails a thread where most of us are worried about him.

That would be marvellous. On a personal level its a scary reminder of the fragility of life when things like this happen. Beyond that there's clearly a great deal of fondness for him; he just strikes as being a really nice guy.
What a lift it would be for him to be located and able to tell the story 🤞

AhBiscuits · 08/06/2024 12:40

HebburnPokemon · 08/06/2024 12:33

If my husband said he felt unwell and was going back to the holiday home (some distance away and involving long walk or the need for transport), there’s NO way on earth I would have let him go alone. What were his family and so-called friends thinking to let him feel poorly without taking care of him. They should be ashamed.

Why is this not a valid comment?

It depends what unwell means.
If my DH, a competent adult, felt a bit subpar and wanted to head back when I didn't, I'd let him. Presumably they assessed that he seemed fine to make his own way and let him. His wife is a doctor and she loves him, if she felt he was at risk she would have gone too. Not all couples live in eachother's pockets.
We have no idea at this stage whether him feeling unwell has played any part in his disappearance.

JawJaw · 08/06/2024 12:41

@Aquarius1234 it really depends on the news service. The BBC are often way behind.

Aquarius1234 · 08/06/2024 12:41

Mornings or evenings when still light is best times for walking in hot weather summer/ holidays.
I like around 7/ 8pm this time of year.

SabrinaThwaite · 08/06/2024 12:41

Oaktree55 · 08/06/2024 12:34

So what it’s a valid point. The wife is a Dr, knew he had medical issues/episodes it was a little irresponsible to say the least!

Depends what ’feeling unwell’ (as it’s been reported) actually means. Could be anything from ‘I don’t want to sit on a beach today and I can make my excuses and head home for a cold beer and a good book’ to ‘I am beginning to feel seriously ill’. As both his partner and a medic, his wife would be well placed to make a call about whether he needed accompanying or not.

Aquarius1234 · 08/06/2024 12:42

JawJaw · 08/06/2024 12:41

@Aquarius1234 it really depends on the news service. The BBC are often way behind.

Yeh probably 2 hours behind.

nobeans · 08/06/2024 12:42

Oaktree55 · 08/06/2024 12:40

I’d imagine personality is hugely at play here. I’m likely projecting by commenting but it really irks me when elderly relatives cause grief in similar but less dramatic ways because they’re stubborn and lose all common sense! As a Dr I hope she mentions at some point the effect heat can have especially since their living was made being in public eye.

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That's really unkind. And she doesnt have to do anything other than look after herself and her kids right now

BarcardiWithGadaffia · 08/06/2024 12:42

Areolaborealis · 08/06/2024 11:36

Struggling to think of a positive reason why anyone would take themselves off up a rocky mountain in 36 degree heat when nobody knows they are, they have no way to contact anyone, no water, no picnic, no camera - just an empty bag and an umbrella!

Hoping for the best but fear the worst.

Not hard to imagine that they might not realize that the wasn't ideal is it?

People make mistakes,sadly those mistakes might turn out to have disastrous consequences. Let's hope that's not the case here

skulkoffoxes · 08/06/2024 12:43

Ilikeadrink14 · 08/06/2024 12:25

This is turning into a ‘let’s get at Ilikeadrink’ witch-hunt, so I am now going to go away and let you all find someone else to pick on! I apologised for my original comment, but got picked on for that too! I rest my case!
The whole point of this thread was to say how sad it was that Mr Moseley is missing. How it turned into this constant and unpleasant squabble about me disgusts and saddens me. I thought this was a safe place to go to when I had an opinion to express but it certainly isn’t. I feel let down and victimised. So, thanks for that.

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You can stay and have opinions just as much as the ones having a go at you @Ilikeadrink14.

Some people are like a dog with a bone, it’s just the way they are.

Sorry about your husband, you must be so sad.

TheLongpigs · 08/06/2024 12:43

I'm so sad about this, and trying to remain hopeful that he is found today. A report, I was reading earlier, said that there were shepherds huts in the area, and maybe he might be found in one of them.

It has made me reflect on our very safe/sanitised lives. I certainly don't want to criticise anyone for being adventurous. 99% of the time, we get lucky. But not always.

Chilliandrice · 08/06/2024 12:43

In the cctv from the latest BBC report, he is striding purposefully and looks in good form. He doesn’t appear unwell or disorientated. He probably continued like that as far as he could then maybe something sudden happened like he fell or stumbled and hurt himself or there was a medical emergency (literally just happened to a family member of mine who collapsed with a seizure with no warning.) Surely there should be news today.

barleyrice · 08/06/2024 12:43

So much victim blaming, and victim shaming on this thread.

Christ0nABike · 08/06/2024 12:43

The boat trip back Symi wasn’t due for a while, a couple of hours. Perhaps he’d had enough sun and didn’t fancy going on a boat again so opted for the walk/bus option which should’ve been quick and straightforward. Thats not necessarily the same as feeling so ill that he needed escorting home.

ManilowBarry · 08/06/2024 12:43

HebburnPokemon · 08/06/2024 12:33

If my husband said he felt unwell and was going back to the holiday home (some distance away and involving long walk or the need for transport), there’s NO way on earth I would have let him go alone. What were his family and so-called friends thinking to let him feel poorly without taking care of him. They should be ashamed.

Why is this not a valid comment?

It's a perfectly valid comment and similar to what I wrote up thread.

He was with his wife and another couple and it's odd that no one went back with him especially his wife given he had previously suffered a medical episode after going swimming.

No way on earth would I have not accompanied my husband if he said he had been feeling unwell.

Unless they had a silly tiff and the police have said to keep that quiet and just say he felt unwell.

Oaktree55 · 08/06/2024 12:44

SabrinaThwaite · 08/06/2024 12:41

Depends what ’feeling unwell’ (as it’s been reported) actually means. Could be anything from ‘I don’t want to sit on a beach today and I can make my excuses and head home for a cold beer and a good book’ to ‘I am beginning to feel seriously ill’. As both his partner and a medic, his wife would be well placed to make a call about whether he needed accompanying or not.

Clearly she wasn’t well placed to judge. They’d literally just arrived weren’t acclimatised and he has heart problems. A simple text me when you’ve arrived is bare minimum!! Don’t need medical training to understand that.

skulkoffoxes · 08/06/2024 12:46

barleyrice · 08/06/2024 12:31

It was because you wrote this, shaming his family in their time of distress:

If my husband said he felt unwell and was going back to the holiday home (some distance away and involving long walk or the need for transport), there’s NO way on earth I would have let him go alone. What were his family and so-called friends thinking to let him feel poorly without taking care of him. They should be ashamed.

You’re like a dog with a bone @barleyrice.
Just stop.

DatingDinosaur · 08/06/2024 12:46

barleyrice · 08/06/2024 12:43

So much victim blaming, and victim shaming on this thread.

Stop now. If you've got nothing of value to add to the discussion then say nothing. This thread isn't about you and your judgement of other people's opinions. Stop attention seeking.

nobeans · 08/06/2024 12:47

HebburnPokemon · 08/06/2024 12:33

If my husband said he felt unwell and was going back to the holiday home (some distance away and involving long walk or the need for transport), there’s NO way on earth I would have let him go alone. What were his family and so-called friends thinking to let him feel poorly without taking care of him. They should be ashamed.

Why is this not a valid comment?

Because we weren't there! We don't know the true situation. We don't know what happened. They might have offered and he'd said oh no I'll be fine. They have done nothing to be ashamed of and need support not criticism

Rubbishconfession · 08/06/2024 12:47

Oaktree55 · 08/06/2024 12:44

Clearly she wasn’t well placed to judge. They’d literally just arrived weren’t acclimatised and he has heart problems. A simple text me when you’ve arrived is bare minimum!! Don’t need medical training to understand that.

I don’t think he has heart problems. He had diabetes and fatty liver disease years ago but he resolved that.

And his wife says he went for a walk.

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CremeFresh · 08/06/2024 12:47

Hindsight is fabulous and I'm sure there are many occasions when we all wish we'd had it.

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