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What incels reckon makes a good woman:

601 replies

valensiwalensi · 09/04/2024 12:20

This is the list posted by a bunch of morons who should not be allowed the internet:

Loses weight after pregnancy
Low body count/dresses modestly
Dress size 12 or lower / no FUPA
Waist to hip ratio 0.7
No trauma
Balanced PH levels/bubblegum pink
Reasonably sized forehead/areolas
Can cook and clean
No single mums
No stretch marks
Open to labiaplasty
Has low iron levels
Can spell coconut with her waist
Not a feminist
Not moody during her period
Doesnt believe in starsigns
Doesnt nag

At first I laughed SO HARD - wtf does low iron levels even mean? But then honestly I started to feel sad and angry that this bullshit incel culture and porn is shaping young mens approaches to what women should be.

Its SO gross.

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KeyboardWhinger · 09/04/2024 18:18

MaMisled · 09/04/2024 12:30

Hideous.

Hands up who DID spell coconut with their waist?

I don’t understand - what does this mean???

Combattingthemoaners · 09/04/2024 18:19

OutOfTheHouse · 09/04/2024 15:25

Involuntary Celibate.

They are men who have failed to get girlfriends. They believe this is the fault of other men who are good looking and good at sports taking all the women.
They believe that women have got a little too uppity over the past few years. They want a woman who will do what she’s told and have sex on demand.
At no point do they think that they need to improve or change themselves in any way.

These men have always existed but now they can get together thanks to the internet. Truth be told they hate women and all egg each other on, rather than just having a wank.

So basically nerds who blame women for their own failings? Another thread that makes me glad I’m gay 🤣

Plasticbaghoarder · 09/04/2024 18:19

We absolutely should be worried about them, official channels are worried about them and so should the rest of us.

RobinEllacotStrike · 09/04/2024 18:20

the worst men in the world say what now?
Dudes - no one cares 😁

MrsSunshine2b · 09/04/2024 18:30

The big paradox of incels is they complain that women have overly prescriptive and superficial standards for male partners whilst having ridiculously prescriptive and superficial standards for female partners. It's, "Just because I'm overweight, under-employed and unattractive, the gorgeous, talented women with perfect bodies aren't interested in sleeping with me, how dare they be SO SHALLOW."

olivebranch31 · 09/04/2024 18:31

Thank fuck I'm safe from these incels with my massive five head and chronic anaemia

NecessaryNC24 · 09/04/2024 18:32

Threewheeler1 · 09/04/2024 18:17

Does the 'low body count' refer to how many incels she might have accidentally dispatched with her reasonably sized forehead?

🤣

NecessaryNC24 · 09/04/2024 18:36

As much as we laugh at the madness, it's true it's very serious and yet another motive (maybe it was always the motive?) for violence against women:

amp.theguardian.com/uk-news/2023/jan/26/large-rise-in-men-referred-to-prevent-over-women-hating-incel-ideology

TeenLifeMum · 09/04/2024 18:41

I have low iron levels… this means I’m a short tempered bitch.

Heatherland77 · 09/04/2024 18:42

Remember some of this stuff is Russian and Chinese led internet sabotage designed to mess with our heads. It's designed to affect and upset people. But also, remember this stuff says a lot about them. They can't actually date women because they're either too socially odd or it's AI. One of the oldest strategies of warfare is to target and undermine women. Rise above it.

butterpuffed · 09/04/2024 18:45

Supersoakers · 09/04/2024 12:22

Are they actually talking about blow up dolls?
There is no mention of intellect which is interesting.

Only because they don't know what intellect means , and couldn't spell it if they did .

Planesmistakenforstars · 09/04/2024 18:45

We should be worried about them. Two women a week are already killed by men who are/have been in a relationship with them, who actually claim to love them. These men openly despise 50% of the population and advocate rape and violence to get what they want. Their violence and threat of violence is a hate crime. It should be treated just as seriously as other ideologies which advocate hate crimes.

FlemishHorse · 09/04/2024 18:45

UpToMyElbowsInDiapers · 09/04/2024 12:25

Please have open conversations with your sons about this. It’s more common online than we would like to think. I truly don’t believe young men can be shielded from incel culture, so just like porn we need to start teaching boys to think critically about it.

This ^^^
and please don’t shrug your shoulders and expect it to be just up to schools to deal with it…

Mouldiwarp1 · 09/04/2024 18:46

I can spell coconut with my hips as well as my brain. Doubt they could read either though - even with unjoined up letters!

YouJustDoYou · 09/04/2024 18:47

It's also insane that these incel males honestly believe they are entitled to Beautiful Vagina....and to say no is TYPICAL OF NASTY FEMALES!..Sound familiar?...because it is, amongst males who say they are "lesbian females", then get extremely angry that lesbians aren't attracted/don't want ever their Male Penis of Wonder.

Winnading · 09/04/2024 18:48

What is with the forehead shite? I've got a large ish forehead, I also utilise hair in the form of a fringe to hide some of it. How would they know about such things as they spectacularly know nothing about women at all.

And coconut? How weird is that, any word in any language and they come up with coconut? I don't see the appeal. I can think of other words more fitting for such a situation but as itll never happen it doesnt matter.

YouJustDoYou · 09/04/2024 18:49

Heatherland77 · 09/04/2024 18:42

Remember some of this stuff is Russian and Chinese led internet sabotage designed to mess with our heads. It's designed to affect and upset people. But also, remember this stuff says a lot about them. They can't actually date women because they're either too socially odd or it's AI. One of the oldest strategies of warfare is to target and undermine women. Rise above it.

No. This is actual men. With actual thoughts and beliefs that they are entitled to sex, to beautiful women, to lesbians. They truly, truly believe this and are unterly enraged when women don't want them back.

valensiwalensi · 09/04/2024 18:49

YouJustDoYou · 09/04/2024 18:47

It's also insane that these incel males honestly believe they are entitled to Beautiful Vagina....and to say no is TYPICAL OF NASTY FEMALES!..Sound familiar?...because it is, amongst males who say they are "lesbian females", then get extremely angry that lesbians aren't attracted/don't want ever their Male Penis of Wonder.

No that’s not familiar.

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YouJustDoYou · 09/04/2024 18:49

valensiwalensi · 09/04/2024 18:49

No that’s not familiar.

With fake trans it is.

YouJustDoYou · 09/04/2024 18:50

valensiwalensi · 09/04/2024 18:49

No that’s not familiar.

Ah yes, no transwoman has ever said they are female and got mad when lesbians aren't turned on by them. Hmm.

valensiwalensi · 09/04/2024 18:51

YouJustDoYou · 09/04/2024 18:50

Ah yes, no transwoman has ever said they are female and got mad when lesbians aren't turned on by them. Hmm.

do not derail yet another thread with trans debates for the love of Christ

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Oooeeeoooaa · 09/04/2024 18:54

valensiwalensi · 09/04/2024 18:51

do not derail yet another thread with trans debates for the love of Christ

🤣 yes please don't.
I think I've never seen such a ridiculous list.
Forehead and areolas 🤣 wtf!

Devonbabs · 09/04/2024 18:55

It’s scary. There are increasing numbers of men who feel it is fine to be openly misogynistic. Incels, transrights supporters, far right, Scottish leaders! Stonewall.Many socialist leaders, All trying to legitimise hating women.

Whats even more worrying is the amount of women who consciously or unconsciously enable this open misogyny and seek to justify it. The education system is supporting it. Tech companies are supporting it. Socialist politicians are supporting it Look at some of these things. All aimed at women bring subservient to men. All aimed at shutting women’s voices down. This is why I won’t vote Labour or Green. They enable this misogyny it’s not single policy voting. It’s understanding a single policy can affect all others

it’s not just about talking to your sons, it’s also about talking to your daughters.

Quite frankly I’d say this is one of the scariest times since the 1600s to be a woman,

SevenSeasOfRhye · 09/04/2024 18:55

Demanding women are 'bubblegum pink' has a tone of white supremacism about it. I wonder if there are links between the incel and far right communities.

PostItInABook · 09/04/2024 18:56

Sooner or later one of these losers will launch a terror attack specifically targeting women. It’s inevitable.