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What incels reckon makes a good woman:

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valensiwalensi · 09/04/2024 12:20

This is the list posted by a bunch of morons who should not be allowed the internet:

Loses weight after pregnancy
Low body count/dresses modestly
Dress size 12 or lower / no FUPA
Waist to hip ratio 0.7
No trauma
Balanced PH levels/bubblegum pink
Reasonably sized forehead/areolas
Can cook and clean
No single mums
No stretch marks
Open to labiaplasty
Has low iron levels
Can spell coconut with her waist
Not a feminist
Not moody during her period
Doesnt believe in starsigns
Doesnt nag

At first I laughed SO HARD - wtf does low iron levels even mean? But then honestly I started to feel sad and angry that this bullshit incel culture and porn is shaping young mens approaches to what women should be.

Its SO gross.

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Devonbabs · 09/04/2024 18:57

PostItInABook · 09/04/2024 18:56

Sooner or later one of these losers will launch a terror attack specifically targeting women. It’s inevitable.

This, unfortunately, is likely to be bang on the money.

NecessaryNC24 · 09/04/2024 18:58

PostItInABook · 09/04/2024 18:56

Sooner or later one of these losers will launch a terror attack specifically targeting women. It’s inevitable.

Well there's already been one aimed at mainly young girls = Manchester Arena.

valensiwalensi · 09/04/2024 18:58

Devonbabs · 09/04/2024 18:57

This, unfortunately, is likely to be bang on the money.

Didn’t they rule that the the terror attack in Canada a few years ago was Incel related?

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PaperDoIIs · 09/04/2024 18:58

SevenSeasOfRhye · 09/04/2024 18:55

Demanding women are 'bubblegum pink' has a tone of white supremacism about it. I wonder if there are links between the incel and far right communities.

There probably are. Far right men usually want trad wives. Most women do not fit the bill. They also have views, behaviours and mentalities that are repulsive to a lot of women , from misogyny to racism(and plenty of other isms) . It then follows that they become incels.

PaperDoIIs · 09/04/2024 19:02

On 12 August 2021, Jake Davison embarked on a killing spree that resulted in the deaths of five people before taking his own lifee_. It has since come to light that Davison was an active participant on several online platforms, including popular ones such as Reddit and YouTube.
At the time of writing, Davison’s digital footprint on these platforms contains numerous examples of misogynistic and anti-feminist attitudes, as well as references to the incel subculture. Although some of his more recent posts seem to imply that he was trying to disengage with the incel subculture due to its perceived impact on his mental health, the current evidence indicates that his engagement with this ideology had a significant role in shaping his worldviews.
The term incel first became well-known following Elliot Rodger’s 2014 spree killing in Isla Vista, California. Before carrying out his attack, Rodger left a video and a manifesto-type autobiographical account detailing his “involuntary celibacy”.
Subsequent InCel-related violence was initially distinctly a North American and Canadian issue, with incidents such as Alek Minassian’s 2018 Toronto van attack, the 2018 Tallahassee Yoga Studio shooting, the 2020 Toronto erotic spa machete attack, and the 2020 shooting at the Westgate Mall in Arizona, among others; with a combined death toll of nearly 50 people. More recently, however, we have begun to see online engagement with incel ideology from individuals in the UK, with Davison’s attack following the recent trials of Gabrielle Friel and Anwar Driouich, both of whom appeared to have some association with incel ideology.

ZombiesAreClammyDodgers · 09/04/2024 19:03

krustykittens · 09/04/2024 18:16

Totally agree with every word. And while we might be having a bit of a laugh at their expense, we need to remember that Incels are extremists and are therefore, a domestic threat.

https://www.cbsnews.com/news/incel-threat-secret-service-report/

Just imagine the kind of world these fuckers would have us living in. We are not human beings at all to these guys.

Absolutely agreed. It's not a joke. I mean, they're idiots. But we will all pay.

venus7 · 09/04/2024 19:05

Devonbabs · 09/04/2024 18:57

This, unfortunately, is likely to be bang on the money.

There already has been; the Plymouth shootings.
I know not only women killed, but the man had been reading huge amounts of incel propaganda beforehand.

Idontknowwhattodo78 · 09/04/2024 19:09

Dear Incels. Thank you for posting this list and being so clear about what YOU believe makes a “good woman”. It allows ALL women to avoid creepy, deluded fuckers like you, and hurrah for that! Trot along and have a wank because, with your attitude, you are literally the ONLY person who is ever going to want to go anywhere near your obviously tiny, pencil sized dick. Cheerio….

Daleksatemyshed · 09/04/2024 19:12

An early poster had the real core of this, it's their lack of social skills that causes them to be Incels. They try to attract women but actually scare them away because their behaviour is strange/over the top/ makes women uncomfortable. Once women were much more dependant on men for a home and money and these men might have found someone who would marry them but now women have jobs, are prepared to have DC alone or just won't settle for a man who doesn't attrack them Every woman has meet an Incel in as much as they've met the guy who they find creepy and over the top

unsync · 09/04/2024 19:15

Well, at least we know why they are celibate. No self respecting woman would have anything to do with a man like that. I question the 'involuntary' for this very reason.

GingerPirate · 09/04/2024 19:17

FacingTheWall · 09/04/2024 12:27

I can see where most of those might come from, however ridiculous they are - but what’s with the low iron levels?!

Pale skin etc...😩🤢

Devonbabs · 09/04/2024 19:17

venus7 · 09/04/2024 19:05

There already has been; the Plymouth shootings.
I know not only women killed, but the man had been reading huge amounts of incel propaganda beforehand.

Basically all these types of behaviour often attract people who a failures. They are basically cults and there is a lot of cross over between the cults.

Weak men, men who feel their position is threatened, will often target women for several different reasons. Most notably men who see sexual access to women as their right and don’t take kindly to women saying no and not letting men do as they want. Think about all the different cults out there atm. Look at the common themes of silencing women and taking away their ability to say no. All these cults are part of exactly the same problem. Look at them
as s whole.

valensiwalensi · 09/04/2024 19:18

Daleksatemyshed · 09/04/2024 19:12

An early poster had the real core of this, it's their lack of social skills that causes them to be Incels. They try to attract women but actually scare them away because their behaviour is strange/over the top/ makes women uncomfortable. Once women were much more dependant on men for a home and money and these men might have found someone who would marry them but now women have jobs, are prepared to have DC alone or just won't settle for a man who doesn't attrack them Every woman has meet an Incel in as much as they've met the guy who they find creepy and over the top

Absolutely. It’s all about power.

the example I give is one morning I was walking down carnaby street on my way to work and some random man walked up to me and hissed “Anal!!” At me
women don’t do stuff like that. Men do - men who feel like that have no power and no attention from women so this is how they try and regain some.

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Tillievanilly · 09/04/2024 19:20

I’m wondering how many men cause the trauma….
Ive seen the odd dating profile stating no single mums, if your ex walked away etc
I think these kind of men don’t realise women have choices. Let’s hope they stay alone!

smooththecat · 09/04/2024 19:20

MaMisled · 09/04/2024 12:30

Hideous.

Hands up who DID spell coconut with their waist?

I thought about it, but I just ate some kimchi fried rice. Haven’t checked on the colour of my bits today either. I guess we could add ‘no grey shrivelled up penises’ to the list. And no incels.

ArcticOwl · 09/04/2024 19:27

Well, there are at least 10 of those things i fail on xD

flyingbuttress43 · 09/04/2024 19:31

Don't worry about the shrivelled up penises smooththecat. I doubt these wee virgins stray too far from their basements.

venus7 · 09/04/2024 19:32

Devonbabs · 09/04/2024 19:17

Basically all these types of behaviour often attract people who a failures. They are basically cults and there is a lot of cross over between the cults.

Weak men, men who feel their position is threatened, will often target women for several different reasons. Most notably men who see sexual access to women as their right and don’t take kindly to women saying no and not letting men do as they want. Think about all the different cults out there atm. Look at the common themes of silencing women and taking away their ability to say no. All these cults are part of exactly the same problem. Look at them
as s whole.

That is indeed the point I was making.....in response to pp stating there would be an attack eventually.

FloatyBoaty · 09/04/2024 19:32

My doctor should have shown me this list rather than wagging her finger at me for not keeping on top of my iron supplements.

Nothing - not even the lump of hair I fish out of the plug hole every Saturday morning- has made me want to take my iron tablets more.

Reckon Ill spell “fuck u incels” with my waist when I take them too.

Dargawn · 09/04/2024 19:33

So the pool of desirable women is going to be very, very small. That means only a select few men will get a woman/women. Supply falls short of demand. There will be a lot of male virgins out there and the fight for limited resources will not be pretty.

TeaGinandFags · 09/04/2024 19:35

Bigearringsbigsmile · 09/04/2024 12:28

What on earth does ' balanced pH levels' and ' low iron levels' mean??????

Since whdn was anaemia sexy?

Unless we're back to Victorian consumption vibes.

PaperDoIIs · 09/04/2024 19:35

Dargawn · 09/04/2024 19:33

So the pool of desirable women is going to be very, very small. That means only a select few men will get a woman/women. Supply falls short of demand. There will be a lot of male virgins out there and the fight for limited resources will not be pretty.

Except they don't fight each other(because they don't have the balls), they "fight" and blame the women, who end up victims to their anger ,frustration and violence.

Dargawn · 09/04/2024 19:37

I do tend to think that Andrew State represents manhood about as much as Mr Bean. Not very much. He’s just a dastardly villain that attracts life’s losers. Just like Mr Bean attracts toddlers.

Flavabobble · 09/04/2024 19:37

Not arsed enough to read the thread - but why would anyone even care about this "list"? (Yeah, I know I've responded 😄) Don't give it gravitas, it's dumb.

As for spelling coconut with your waist. I assumed that was something to do with waving your hips about in letter shapes. Works wonders for a sore back. I can do it and I'm fat and well over fifty, not sure I'd appeal much to incels though.

VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 09/04/2024 19:39

Polishedshoesalways · 09/04/2024 15:21

I am not sure they deserve your courtesy.

They go low, we go high.