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What incels reckon makes a good woman:

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valensiwalensi · 09/04/2024 12:20

This is the list posted by a bunch of morons who should not be allowed the internet:

Loses weight after pregnancy
Low body count/dresses modestly
Dress size 12 or lower / no FUPA
Waist to hip ratio 0.7
No trauma
Balanced PH levels/bubblegum pink
Reasonably sized forehead/areolas
Can cook and clean
No single mums
No stretch marks
Open to labiaplasty
Has low iron levels
Can spell coconut with her waist
Not a feminist
Not moody during her period
Doesnt believe in starsigns
Doesnt nag

At first I laughed SO HARD - wtf does low iron levels even mean? But then honestly I started to feel sad and angry that this bullshit incel culture and porn is shaping young mens approaches to what women should be.

Its SO gross.

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ARichtGoodDram · 09/04/2024 19:40

PostItInABook · 09/04/2024 18:56

Sooner or later one of these losers will launch a terror attack specifically targeting women. It’s inevitable.

I think one off incidents of it are likely much higher than officially recorded.

One of my DDs was punched in the face at university by someone who asked her out and she turned down. She’d never spoken to him before. Three times she had to object to it being referred to as a domestic incident between a couple when asking the uni how they were going to protect her from him. A member of university staff had a strip torn off him by a female police officer for calling it a ‘lovers tiff.

Dargawn · 09/04/2024 19:45

PaperDoIIs · 09/04/2024 19:35

Except they don't fight each other(because they don't have the balls), they "fight" and blame the women, who end up victims to their anger ,frustration and violence.

If they can get near enough to a woman, yes that is a danger. But harming the rare and depleted stock is counterintuitive to the cause. So even the thickies will work out they need to find alternative ways to attract the prize eventually. I.e work with them rather than abuse them.

In the meantime, women must avoid.

Mugcake · 09/04/2024 19:48

It's ridiculous the things these guys come out with! I think they make it so unrealistic so they can pretend the reason they're not getting any female attention is because they have "high standards" rather because no woman would touch them.
It is worrying when these people are all over social media spouting their vitriol to whoever will listen. I've seen alot about "April 24th" trending (Google it) its grim but it started with these sorts of men and so people have reposted it that its scary!

Lwrenn · 09/04/2024 19:49

I'm so grateful there are women like us who got given the opportunity to raise sons, to understand what damaging, horrifying and pathetic bullshit this is and who will challenge this shitty narrative.

Brawcolli · 09/04/2024 19:50

hazelnutlatte · 09/04/2024 13:26

Its stuff like this that makes me realise I really need to come off Facebook. I haven't seen this list but I've seen similar crap. As well as all of the male entitlement shite, when scrolling Facebook I've come across flat earthers, people who don't believe in science, people who think an advert for trainers featuring a black athlete means there is a plot to murder all white people, and people who think JK Rowling is a holocaust denier.
I joined Facebook to see my friends holiday snaps and find out when the local roads are flooded, so why am I looking at all of this? The algorithms are leading all of us to more and more extreme views (because that what gets the most engagement) leaving us all to feel that the world has gone mad!

I mean, the tweet people are referencing when calling jk Rowling a holocaust denier is literally her denying that part of the holocaust (nazis targeting trans people) happened. So I wouldn’t say that the people calling her out on her bigotry are exactly on par with flat earthers!

Dargawn · 09/04/2024 19:51

This type of trend always reminds me of when I was a young slip of a thing thirty years ago and a really FUGLY bloke was quite calmly telling me how he would refuse to go to bed with a woman unless she had completely smooth, shaven legs. He was quite adamant there would be no exceptions.

I’m sure he must still be a virgin.

BeverForget · 09/04/2024 20:02

I blame the rapid and untrammeled onset of porn for a lot of this.
When I was a teen (many many moons ago) and working in my parents pub, porn was an expensive but available rarity, VHS videos in brown paper bags and topshelf magazines. Teenage boys found out about sex from, well, sex.
Now 11 and 12 year old boys have access to the most extreme porn on their or someone elses phone.

PaperDoIIs · 09/04/2024 20:06

Part of The manifesto of one of the perpetrators of an incel terrorist attack.

It's not funny(something I'm guilty of myself) it's terrifying. It is easier to laugh than face the pure hatred.

What incels reckon makes a good woman:
PaperDoIIs · 09/04/2024 20:09

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What incels reckon makes a good woman:
IfYouSawwhatISee · 09/04/2024 20:13

Sorry if it's been said but this is hate speech, how is it allowed

HollyKnight · 09/04/2024 20:17

Why are you giving this any attention? Don't feed the trolls.

Devonbabs · 09/04/2024 20:19

IfYouSawwhatISee · 09/04/2024 20:13

Sorry if it's been said but this is hate speech, how is it allowed

Well just look at the Scottish legislation- specifically excludes women

NonPlayerCharacter · 09/04/2024 20:21

Well if that's true, why do so many of them hang out here?

Friedchickenrocks · 09/04/2024 20:28

Another I'd add, is large labias, puts a lot of men off. Lips that literally hang out...

MaMisled · 09/04/2024 20:28

KeyboardWhinger · 09/04/2024 18:18

I don’t understand - what does this mean???

Imagine your body were a pen and shape the letters of the word with your core. It involves lots of provocative movement.

SevenSeasOfRhye · 09/04/2024 20:31

Friedchickenrocks · 09/04/2024 20:28

Another I'd add, is large labias, puts a lot of men off. Lips that literally hang out...

Perfectly normal labia, in other words.

BigMandsTattooPortfolio · 09/04/2024 20:35

Friedchickenrocks · 09/04/2024 20:28

Another I'd add, is large labias, puts a lot of men off. Lips that literally hang out...

Seeing as they’re never going to get anywhere approaching close proximity to any kind of labii, big, small, petite, tall or medium sized, I’m perplexed as to why this bothers them. Surely, perpetually stewing in a bucket of their own bile and hatred is what they’re aiming for in life.

Seymour5 · 09/04/2024 20:38

ARichtGoodDram · 09/04/2024 19:40

I think one off incidents of it are likely much higher than officially recorded.

One of my DDs was punched in the face at university by someone who asked her out and she turned down. She’d never spoken to him before. Three times she had to object to it being referred to as a domestic incident between a couple when asking the uni how they were going to protect her from him. A member of university staff had a strip torn off him by a female police officer for calling it a ‘lovers tiff.

That is appalling. The male for punching your DD, and the reaction of the university staff. I hope the police took some action to protect your DD. Was the perpetrator charged with a violent crime?

GladiatoooorsReadyyyy · 09/04/2024 20:38

Breathmiller · 09/04/2024 12:30

Did anyone read the last half while trying to spell coconut with their nonexistant waist?

I thought it said wrist tbf. But I’ve tried with my wrist and waist and am more confused than ever

Friedchickenrocks · 09/04/2024 20:40

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PaperDoIIs · 09/04/2024 20:41

@Friedchickenrocks if you're a woman , I'm the queen.

SevenSeasOfRhye · 09/04/2024 20:43

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Please don't peddle the myth of this being 'abnormal' - women are judged on too much already without adding size of labia to the mix.

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 09/04/2024 20:43

Devonbabs · 09/04/2024 20:19

Well just look at the Scottish legislation- specifically excludes women

As it does everywhere else in the UK.

Comedycook · 09/04/2024 20:44

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close up

Da fuq

KeyboardWhinger · 09/04/2024 20:51

Friedchickenrocks · 09/04/2024 20:28

Another I'd add, is large labias, puts a lot of men off. Lips that literally hang out...

Given they can’t get near a woman I don’t suppose this is any concern to them 😂

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