Post something about yourself which you have been judged for?

[BrickPoet]

I will start
I like wrestling and Hawaiian pizza

Being quiet.

I really like my own company.

Not having children.

Having a restricted diet.

Being American

Being thin.

Not having children

(12yr TTC, 3 losses and multiple round of IVF, yet only a handful of people know these details)

💐So sorry to read that.

Having a baby at 18.

Not going with crowd opinion especially at work

Having a baby at 16.

And just so we have the full range of female experiences, for me it's being fat.

Not wanting a promotion at work.

Every appraisal etc it comes up and I'm made to feel I'm weird or lazy.

Ffs they should be grateful to have a shortage subject teacher who isn't going to quit to become a pointless assistant head elsewhere.

Having a estuary English accent
Having a DD with an eating disorder
Being a short quiet woman ( or maybe that's just ignored lol!)

Choosing a career over having children.

Being American.
Only having one child.
Being academic.
Being quiet.

Having FWB.

Retiring early.
Not wearing makeup.
Having a nature reserve in my front garden.
Going to gigs on my own.

There’s more but I’ve stopped listening!

My personality (Mum)
My interests (Dad)
My approach to cleaning (Mum and Dad)
My body size and shape (Mum)
My teeth (Mum)
All of the above (me, probs internalised stuff)
My accent (certain places in particular)
Being unmarried years ago (no longer work there)
Fertility choices (! Taxi driver!)

Having a ‘posh’ accent (I haven’t)
Only having one child
Not liking dolphins

Being a New Zealander.
Telling colleagues, including managers, when their behaviour is unacceptable.
Having short hair (I kid you not!).

Having boundaries

Not having kids (not through choice)
Being fat
Letting my dog pre rinse the plates as they're going into the dishwasher
Having a job with promotional prospects (nursing) but not wanting higher than a Band 6.

Not believing a man can become a woman if he says he's a woman. (judged by randoms on Twitter).

Anything and everything (by my dd).

Using a mobility scooter

Being a SAHM