Post something about yourself which you have been judged for?

[BrickPoet]

I will start
I like wrestling and Hawaiian pizza

Being Irish (only in England)
Being a SAHM during the years when I was

Some judgements stay with us, and if we name them surely that means we still care? Fwiw here are mine:
Posh accent
Having "naughty" kids
Having 1 kid with ADHD
1 non binary
Having 4 kids
Being a single mum years ago
Old, quite messy house

Wow being SAHM that's awful.

Having one child.
Divorcing my husband after 2 years of marriage.

Putting my babies in full time nursery before 1 year old. (They are grown up/ school age now and absolutely fine!)

Daring to earn more than husband (even though husband doesn't mind).

Not having pierced ears - makes me hard to buy presents for apparently.

Having meals "too late"even though this only affects my family who are entirely happy about our meal times.

Having long hair over age 35 (fuck off mother).

Lots more though IDGAF.

Being Butch
Living on a council estate
Being disabled

Going ahead with a pregnancy when very young. Child is very successful and employs a team of people they mentor. I worked hard and achieved alot now I can chill if I want!

Having an overweight child. People I assume I'm feeding them crap or generally a bad parent, my other children are normal weight.

Being thin
Having large breasts
Not having children
Being intelligent

Being fat and not being openly self hating about it

Not drinking alcohol, ever.

People assume I’m a recovering alcoholic….I just don’t like it/see the point.

Not working.

Getting a cat.

Continuing a pregnancy and not having screening with DD who had a high chance of having Down Syndrome.

Being part of a large, poor family
Not wearing the right clothes
Not understanding social norms
Having no tits
Having consensual sex outside relationships
Being clever
Having a regional accent
Having a child outside of marriage
Being a single parent
My background
Dressing outside social norms
Not understanding drama
Not fitting into workplace norms
Being fat
Having huge tits
Losing too much weight
Being autistic/ADHD

However, I've run clear out of fucks about what others think of me. Those who judge can get to fuck because I'm fabulous who I am. Those who love me think the same. That's all that matters to me.

Being thin
Being a working mum
Being a southerner up north
Having a northern accent down south
Not breastfeeding (my adopted kids - go figure 🙄)
Being vegan
Not being a big drinker

Being SAHM
Being able to grow a full beard
When I was working choosing a job considered below my academic qualifications.

My DH and I living in separate houses.

I mean now I think about it I could go on forever.

Having sex.
Getting good grades at school.
Doing teacher training.
Having my kids close together.
Not breastfeeding.
Not doing baby led weaning with 1st child.
Doing baby led weaning with 2nd.

Reminding some people who Shani Louk was and what was done to her.

Not breastfeeding and going back to work ( Major Trauma Unit NHS ) after only 12 weeks.

Being thin when I was younger
Being fat
Being a single mother

Not having children
being single for 20 years, people were astonished when I met someone at 44

Smelling and not being dressed appropriately as a child. Both out of my control and rectified immediately once I had my own money but the memories still sting.

Not having had a career and never having had formal training in anything.

Being too pretty
Being too thin
Being too fat
Being too old.

Being ugly
Being fat
Being clever
Being shy
Doing a professional job
Being a feminist