I am very aware that I sound like a love smitten 12 year old!
There is a guy at my work who I have a massive crush on.
He is gorgeous and we get on very well.
I will not go in to too much detail as it’s outing but it is against the rules to have a relationship with clients.
I have kept the relationship professional and I have to be very careful about what I say because I could lose my job over it (no man is worth that), so there’s a big chance that he has no idea that I fancy him.
The issue is is that he’s leaving on Friday.
Once he leaves, it would be less frowned upon to have a relationship but we would have no way of contacting each other, unless we found one another on SM but both of us may think that it’s overstepping the mark.
I don’t know if he even likes me, so my first question is how would I know this?
My second question is what can I do to make him like me/ensure he knows I like him without it being unprofessional?
My third question is if it turns out we both like each other, how can we meet outside of work, without discussing it during work which is against the rules?