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Oh my god, what do I do.....wallet opened by sibling hoke for Christmas - money card stolen

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PurpleBottle · 18/12/2023 06:28

I have a sibling home for Christmas.

Who went out to see his friends and he got drunk. I don't know what time of the night he came home at. He is still not gone to bed.

That's not the problem. I had my wallet on the kitchen table. I didn't anticate him to steal from it. I woke this morning to find the wallet open. My bank card gone. I had some small amount of cash in it too but not a lot. It was about 60 euro. I could write off the cash notes. The card - no way.

I asked him if he saw my card but he said no and he's still too drunk.

I encouraged him to go to bed.

It might be a case where I will have to wait for him to sober up. And ask again. Wait til he leaves his room and check his pockets maybe.

I had my card just yesterday. I didn't leave my home all weekend because I was sick. I did online shopping. I had my wallet in my lap. I was in the sitting room. I put the card back into my wallet.

Card from wallet gone now.

It's Monday and a week before Christmas.

Do I wait for him to sober up and search for the card later on tonight?

Or do I get onto the bank.

I have a spare account and card with revolut.
Will I top up my account with an estimate of what I need this week and contact my bank in the hope of getting a new card.

It's very fucking mindless. Getting drunk and stealing from my wallet.

He's not like this when he's sober.

OP posts:
DaggerIsle · 22/12/2023 14:35

Wow. My brother js a spoilt brat and he gets away with murder but there is no way I wouldn't challenge him over stealing money!!!
How old is he?

Tonight1 · 22/12/2023 15:27

DaggerIsle · 22/12/2023 14:35

Wow. My brother js a spoilt brat and he gets away with murder but there is no way I wouldn't challenge him over stealing money!!!
How old is he?

@DaggerIsle Exactly! I'd go mad if my sibling touched my wallet. Or anyone else for that matter.

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