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If you're not voting Labour because of Palestine or gender nonsense ...

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CheesyJacketPotato · 18/11/2023 12:12

Are you really ok with having another Tory government? Because in all honesty that is what you'll get.

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Kendodd · 18/11/2023 14:36

Swamphag · 18/11/2023 12:32

You seem to be assuming that we will vote Tory. I won't be doing that. But I absolutely will not vote for a party that works against my interests as a woman.
Women literally died for us to get the vote - do you have any idea how it feels for me to know that my only option is to spoil my ballot?
Labour should fucking be ashamed of themselves with the way they are happy to throw women under the bus. I am utterly furious with them and the Greens. I am politically homeless.

Do you still plan to spoil your vote if the Labour candidate is GC?

IsadoraQuagmire · 18/11/2023 14:37

ehb102 · 18/11/2023 14:29

The thing is, @ginasevern , there won't be any women's services if Labour get in. There will be services for people. And given that women's mental health is majorly caused by male violence 1 in 4 raped, 1 in 3 victims of domestic violence, mostly men, more than 1 in 2 sexually assaulted - anything that opens up the door to male predators such as self identification as a woman just sentences the whole of womenhood to bad mental health.

You can look at all the penises you want willingly, but flashing is a crime of violence, and denying it and its impact, plus all the other ways that men hurt women, is just burying your head in the sand.

Oh, and those poor women? Under certain sections of Labour and definitely under the Lib Dems they are going to have to accept the role of being raped for money because "sex work is work".

So no. Things can be a lot worse than the Tories will make them. The bit Labour is clueless about is that they are losing all their economically comfortable women voters over this.

Well said!

mrscatwoman · 18/11/2023 14:37

I was just wondering what they said that gives you hope that they would be better over the next five years? I'm not sure the gains achieved by the loss of charitable status would go very far to achieve very much.

I've said quite clearly that it will be better simply because we will no longer be being governed by corrupt liars and charlatans. The principle of private schools obviously not being charities would be a good start even before you start working out what the financial implications might be. The feel-good factor generated by seeing Lee Anderson and a few other big names losing their seats will kick in on election night itself and see me through a good few months, don't worry about that. Of course, a lot of them are denying us that pleasure as they can see what's coming and have already announced they won't be standing. Spoilsports.

I'm under no illusions that Labour will magically transform the country in a few years, and I don't really see anyone claiming that. But I'm in no doubt that another 5 years of the Tories would see us sinking even lower and then it would be even more difficult for an incoming government.

IvorTheEngineDriver · 18/11/2023 14:38

I'm not voting Labour because they always come a poor 3rd in this constituency after the Lib-Dems. All they (& now the Greens) do is split the anti-Tory vote and let the Tories back in.

Desecratedcoconut · 18/11/2023 14:41

mrscatwoman · 18/11/2023 14:37

I was just wondering what they said that gives you hope that they would be better over the next five years? I'm not sure the gains achieved by the loss of charitable status would go very far to achieve very much.

I've said quite clearly that it will be better simply because we will no longer be being governed by corrupt liars and charlatans. The principle of private schools obviously not being charities would be a good start even before you start working out what the financial implications might be. The feel-good factor generated by seeing Lee Anderson and a few other big names losing their seats will kick in on election night itself and see me through a good few months, don't worry about that. Of course, a lot of them are denying us that pleasure as they can see what's coming and have already announced they won't be standing. Spoilsports.

I'm under no illusions that Labour will magically transform the country in a few years, and I don't really see anyone claiming that. But I'm in no doubt that another 5 years of the Tories would see us sinking even lower and then it would be even more difficult for an incoming government.

So, just feelings then? No tangible change on the ground for women's lives - just handing in your reality badge because the people decimating them are more, what, pleasant?

CeciledeVolangesdeNouveau · 18/11/2023 14:43

I don’t think anyone is telling anyone else to completely ignore the misogyny. Those who are saying vote Labour are saying hold your nose and vote, then we might get someone in office with a chance of listening to what voters want and actually doing it, I.e. democracy, instead of this shower of corrupt charlatans only interested in authoritarian, xenophobic policies, eroding parliamentary democracy and enriching themselves and their equally corrupt friends. If you spoil your ballot and the Tories get in you’re as equally responsible as someone who votes for the Tories. The FPTP system is shite but it’s what we’ve got and that means tactical voting is necessary if you want anything to get better. Besides which, the pro-LGBT people seem much more vocal towards politicians - why not write to your local Labour MP now or try a different one if gender issues really matter more than climate change, foreign policy, human rights and the NHS?

TooBigForMyBoots · 18/11/2023 14:43

I'm not voting Tory or Labour because they neither of them have candidates in my constituency. I would never be able to vote Tory anyway because I'm a feminist and they've destroyed the lives and rights of women since they came to power.

And now they want to destroy the rights of every UK citizen.😱

GrouchyKiwi · 18/11/2023 14:43

Voting Labour isn't going to change anything substantive. We'll just have a different bunch of self-serving corrupt politicians in charge and things will continue going to shit as they are now.

MujeresLibres · 18/11/2023 14:44

I live in a very safe Labour seat and have always voted Labour before; I was even a party member. But no, I won't be voting Labour, I can't support the explicit misogyny of recent years. It won't make any difference, but that's my protest vote.

Kendodd · 18/11/2023 14:46

Alargeoneplease89 · 18/11/2023 13:38

It's not just those two issues that put people off Labour though is it? There ability to spend money like its going out of fashion is a big factor.

Its like a circle, everyone gets sick of Conservatives then they elect Labour who spends like crazy then everyone gets pissed off, when there is higher debt and then Tories come in and do austerity cuts.

I feel politically homeless and probably won't vote for the first time in my life because I really don't care - Is this the best we really have?

Also another problem in the back of my mind is I feel Stamer will be kicked out after the first year and another extreme left loon will be installed.

Clearly somebody who has never looked at the actual numbers.

ATerrorofLeftovers · 18/11/2023 14:47

ginasevern · 18/11/2023 14:18

@ehb102

"I'm more okay with another Tory government than I am with the erasure of women, women's existence, women's status and women's protections."

Good luck with the tories looking after women (and children) then. They look after their own rich mates, that's all. They are the scum of the earth and that is why the Labour party came into being. Still, I guess the main thing is that you might never see a penis in a changing room (or whatever). Obviously more important than mental health services, children's welfare, the NHS, the elderly, the disabled and the total erosion of workers rights and the economy. Never mind dear, crack on.

The $64,000 question here is why don’t the Labour Party think that mental health services, children’s welfare, the NHS, the disabled, other public services annd the erosion of workers rights are important?

Why are they prepared to throw an election that’s theirs for the taking when they could be doing so much good if they got into power? Why jeopardise all you mention just to fuck women over?

Desecratedcoconut · 18/11/2023 14:48

ATerrorofLeftovers · 18/11/2023 14:47

The $64,000 question here is why don’t the Labour Party think that mental health services, children’s welfare, the NHS, the disabled, other public services annd the erosion of workers rights are important?

Why are they prepared to throw an election that’s theirs for the taking when they could be doing so much good if they got into power? Why jeopardise all you mention just to fuck women over?

Jesus, such luck. Can you imagine the collective sigh of relief?

itsmeafterall · 18/11/2023 14:48

200% agree.

You just have to grit your teeth , think of the bigger picture and think 'anything to get the Tories out'.

Desecratedcoconut · 18/11/2023 14:50

itsmeafterall · 18/11/2023 14:48

200% agree.

You just have to grit your teeth , think of the bigger picture and think 'anything to get the Tories out'.

No, you just have to. Nobody else is compelled to take their lashes in the hope of jam tomorrow.

FinallyFinalGirl · 18/11/2023 14:50

I won't vote for any party that would put disgusting, perverted men in my little girl's intimate spaces. Sue me.

Alargeoneplease89 · 18/11/2023 14:53

Clearly have @Kendodd

mrscatwoman · 18/11/2023 14:54

So, just feelings then? No tangible change on the ground for women's lives - just handing in your reality badge because the people decimating them are more, what, pleasant?

If you really think Labour are just a bit more pleasant than the Tories then you really haven't been paying attention to what's going on and it certainly isn't what I said. Also, instead of hectoring me, why don't you set out what tangible improvements the Tories have made to women's lives over the las t13 years, and what further improvements will come about in the unlikely event that they get re-elected? Because I'm pretty sure the austerity measures and failure to give public sector pay increases to public sector workers in the NHS and education have disproportionately affected women.

jasflowers · 18/11/2023 14:55

Last year 55% of maternity units in England were deemed "unsafe"

Every week we seem to have another maternity scandal that results in the deaths of women and babies but despite this being recognised by Jeremy Hunt as long ago as 2017, he as chancellor is denying the money to fix it and it is money, money pays for training, staff, buildings, equipment and wages.

So this year we have 65% of maternity services are "unsafe"

But so long as Sunak just utters the words "i know what a woman is" some women will vote for his party.

Can only assume they ve had their kids.

feellikeanalien · 18/11/2023 14:57

I think it is really depressing. Whichever party you vote for certain sections of the electorate will be worse off whether that will be benefit claimants if the Tories get in or women and girls if Labour get in. I am sure there are also others but these are the two groups that immediately spring to mind.

I can't vote Tory but will wait to see the Labour manifesto before deciding to vote for them. I can't vote Lib Dem as I would have in the past as they are even worse on women's rights than Labour. I also still remember their time in coalition.

Th calibre of politicians in this country is so poor which is amply illustrated by the fact that Sunak could not find anyone in his party who he thought could be Foreign Secretary and resorted to bringing in a failed former prime minister who has some very dodgy business connections and didn't have the guts to deal with the mess he created over Brexit.

Labour has so much factional infighting that I imagine it may be very difficult for Kier Starmer as prime minister to get legislation passed.

I really despair for this country.

Swamphag · 18/11/2023 14:57

@Kendodd I'd have to think about it. As it is, the long sitting Labour MP isn't GC and from past experience lacks principles and a backbone and will go along with whatever the leadership say.
The fact that it's a very safe labour seat does make the decision to spoil my ballot easier - I'm genuinely not sure what I'd do.

CurlewKate · 18/11/2023 14:58

I was talking about this to my adult son this morning. He is clever and politically aware and does not want a Tory government, but cannot understand how voting for a minority party because he does not agree with his sitting labour MP on trans issues is basically handing his vote to the Tories. So frustrating!

mrscatwoman · 18/11/2023 14:59

How many Tory MPs is it that have been accused of rape/sexual assaults?

funbags3 · 18/11/2023 15:00

I've always voted Labour but cannot abide Starmer's Labour party so will be voting Green.

Desecratedcoconut · 18/11/2023 15:00

mrscatwoman · 18/11/2023 14:54

So, just feelings then? No tangible change on the ground for women's lives - just handing in your reality badge because the people decimating them are more, what, pleasant?

If you really think Labour are just a bit more pleasant than the Tories then you really haven't been paying attention to what's going on and it certainly isn't what I said. Also, instead of hectoring me, why don't you set out what tangible improvements the Tories have made to women's lives over the las t13 years, and what further improvements will come about in the unlikely event that they get re-elected? Because I'm pretty sure the austerity measures and failure to give public sector pay increases to public sector workers in the NHS and education have disproportionately affected women.

I wish. I'm appalled that they implemented the bedroom tax. That they limited child benefits to two children - and the exponential rise in abortions which followed, masking -presumably - many women who terminated in a situation who wouldn't have done previously, I think the decimation of benefits in general and disability benefits in particular has been awful and the consequences of which have landed disproportionately on the shoulders of women. For a start.

Which of those things would Labour change? Because I think the answer is, none of them.

As I say, I'm not a fan of the Tories, I'm just not convinced it can't get worse under labour.

funbags3 · 18/11/2023 15:01

@mrscatwoman It always seems to be sex-related scandals when it comes to the Tories.