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Things people do that make you cringe?

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Cleanfreshsheets · 10/11/2023 19:03

People posting photos of their holiday on social media with a caption like “this is how my Monday morning is looking”. Like calm down Joanne, you’ll be back in the office by next Monday.

Middle management telling me they pay my wages.

People thinking that are different and edgy because they wear Dr Martens (I do still love the boots though)

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SM4713 · 12/11/2023 14:23

@TheShellBeach Not only adults describing their abdomen as a 'tummy', 'stomach' or 'gut' but people that own one- referring to their vulva as a vagina! It amazes me nowadays with google, the amount of people not knowing they have 2 ovaries, 2 fallopian tubes, 1 uterus etc. Don't get me started with what a cervix is 🙄

rollonretirementfgs · 12/11/2023 14:23

RaraRachael · 12/11/2023 13:40

Sorry @Blueink but "May I have" sounds terribly posh and I've never heard anyone say that.
It's just how people speak in different parts of the country 😀

No normally people would say can I have a latte, not can I GET a latte

rollonretirementfgs · 12/11/2023 14:24

DetectiveDouche · 12/11/2023 13:29

British singers who sing with an extreme American accent eg, Joss Stone who is from bloody Somerset and Adele who is from Tottenham FFS!

Also, Anne Marie.. lovely voice but why the American gangster/ghetto accent?? Tom Walker.. who is Scottish for heaven’s sake.. does it too.

Rod Stewart is the worst for this.. criiiiiinge!

TheShellBeach · 12/11/2023 14:25

LimeAnkles · 12/11/2023 11:18

This!!!!
Who the hell are all these people wearing adult sized pyjamas and clothes with Disney images on them?!

Did you mean to quote someone?

fetchacloth · 12/11/2023 14:26

SmokeyToo · 12/11/2023 00:28

Bad grammar and, particularly, the misuse of apostrophes. "Potato's". I get irrationally angry when I see it! There was even a joke political party about it here one year - the Apostrophe Party - that actually stood in a state or federal election. I didn't waste a vote on it, but I was sorely tempted!

Misused or absent apostrophes are my pet hate too. Grrrr 😕

TheShellBeach · 12/11/2023 14:26

rollonretirementfgs · 12/11/2023 14:23

No normally people would say can I have a latte, not can I GET a latte

I always say "May I have" because it's correct.

Coolhwip · 12/11/2023 14:26

StockpotSoup · 12/11/2023 11:17

I know it won’t make me popular, but I kind of agree on the squash one. I’ve just never met an adult who actually drinks it, so I’d assumed most people thought of it as a children’s drink.

I remember an Australian friend telling me she found it strange that people in the UK don’t drink “dilute”. (And don’t get me started on her calling it “dilute”!) That was the first time I ever heard of adults drinking squash.

I think part of what puts me off is those adverts from when Robinson’s tried to do a “grown-up” range of squash (lemon and kiwi, strawberry and elderflower and so on). There was this precocious little brat who goes up to a woman getting wine out of the fridge and says “Lucy! I know you’ve had a hard day - but it’s only Monday! Do what I do - have squash!” Yeah, you’ll find out, you patronising little bugger.

I drink squash. I think orange juice is disgusting, it’s been highly processed and sitting in huge vats for a year minimum. Fizzy drinks are similarly bad for you, even the diet ones.

A bottle of squash whilst no healthier at least allows you to control how much you put in a glass of water, and the bottle lasts a long time so you don’t feel forced to drink a bottle in 3 days.

StockpotSoup · 12/11/2023 14:26

RaisedOnADietofBrokenBiscuitsOh · 12/11/2023 14:18

I don't drink tea, coffee or alcohol. Am I only allowed water?

Of course you’re allowed it. It’s not like you need my permission or anyone else’s to drink what you like. I just find it odd personally. It’s not like water is the only alternative to squash.

Coolhwip · 12/11/2023 14:28

StockpotSoup · 12/11/2023 14:26

Of course you’re allowed it. It’s not like you need my permission or anyone else’s to drink what you like. I just find it odd personally. It’s not like water is the only alternative to squash.

I think you were asked a rhetorical question, in light of your judgement of what strangers drink.

Scalottia · 12/11/2023 14:29

TheShellBeach · 10/11/2023 19:49

Eh?
What's wrong with this?

You really need to ask?

It's gross.

StockpotSoup · 12/11/2023 14:30

Coolhwip · 12/11/2023 14:28

I think you were asked a rhetorical question, in light of your judgement of what strangers drink.

The entire thread is a judgement of sorts. What difference does it make to anyone else whether I, or any other stranger, thinks it’s odd that they drink squash?

Dexterwontstopfarting · 12/11/2023 14:31

Men who wear their trousers halfway down their backsides so their underwear is clearly visible. 🤮

fetchacloth · 12/11/2023 14:34

Dexterwontstopfarting · 12/11/2023 14:31

Men who wear their trousers halfway down their backsides so their underwear is clearly visible. 🤮

Yeah, the 'bike rack'. Just looks so gross 😁

RaraRachael · 12/11/2023 14:40

No normally people would say can I have a latte, not can I GET a latte

Not where I live. The point I was trying to make is that Can I GET might sound terrible to some people but to others (like me) it's perfectly normal.

thatsapickle · 12/11/2023 14:42

People who think they know what other people are thinking.

"People thinking that are different and edgy because they wear Dr Martens" - How many people have actually told you they're wearing docs because they think it makes them cool and edgy? Them saying that would make me cringe, but somebody else confidently assuming they're thinking that would make me cringe just as much.

annieloulou · 12/11/2023 14:45

People who put their feet on the tables in the staff room (similar to the kids shoes in trolley thing).

Draw/drawer - email from colleague ‘ I’ve left the folder in my draw’

Colleagues who never offer to go to the shop, but always pipe up with ooh shall I have some chocolate? when you say you’re going.

parents who over do it - on a mountain train in Wales recently ‘ Oliver, can you see the sheep? Look there’s a sheep, what sound does the sheep make Oliver? Does it go baa?’ For 40 minutes on a loop, varied with a similar speech about cows. Don’t think Oliver could get a word in …….. 😂

TheShellBeach · 12/11/2023 14:48

Tattoos.

Sallsarmy · 12/11/2023 16:25

People who call people fucking cunts make me cringe.

mayorofcasterbridge · 12/11/2023 16:27

Sallsarmy · 12/11/2023 16:25

People who call people fucking cunts make me cringe.

A lot of people just are though...!! They make me cringe.

LovingPuertoRico · 12/11/2023 16:30

Women who drive big 4 by 4s and only do the school run and back

AInightingale · 12/11/2023 16:30

People who make a massive fuss about others being vegan or vegetarian when they just want to buy food /eat in peace. Yes, I know there are some particularly vegans who are a trial and deeply attention seeking, but jesus, the nonstop questioning of some people - what did you have for dinner yesterday? What are you going to have at the restaurant? Is there anything on the menu that you can eat? What's in your sandwich? AAAGGHH.

Ninastibbefan · 12/11/2023 16:31

LovingPuertoRico · 12/11/2023 16:30

Women who drive big 4 by 4s and only do the school run and back

Bonus points for wearing sunglasses

Towwanthustice · 12/11/2023 16:50

RaraRachael · 11/11/2023 18:32

Pregnant women holding their bump. It isn't going to fall off!

It's just maternal and protective
I did it without thinking...

Msbluebozooka · 12/11/2023 17:20

Exactly that , shoes that an 8 years old would wear for school that are for older women . Usually sold in Clark’s I’ll see if I can find an image.

Blueink · 12/11/2023 17:25

RaraRachael · 12/11/2023 14:40

No normally people would say can I have a latte, not can I GET a latte

Not where I live. The point I was trying to make is that Can I GET might sound terrible to some people but to others (like me) it's perfectly normal.

Fine if u live or come from US but not if you are anywhere in the U.K. it’s not regional at all, but crappy American reality TV language creeping in, like bangs instead of having a fringe.