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Things people do that make you cringe?

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Cleanfreshsheets · 10/11/2023 19:03

People posting photos of their holiday on social media with a caption like “this is how my Monday morning is looking”. Like calm down Joanne, you’ll be back in the office by next Monday.

Middle management telling me they pay my wages.

People thinking that are different and edgy because they wear Dr Martens (I do still love the boots though)

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Dillane · 11/11/2023 23:15

People who say ‘brought’ instead of ‘bought’.

goldengirlx · 11/11/2023 23:15

My friend writes 'his doing well' or 'he forgot he's jumper' 😭😭

liningpaper · 11/11/2023 23:16

@EverythingYouDoIsaBalloon my two toddlers are always suitably fed and watered before a supermarket trip and invariably become ravenous for whatever snacks enter the trolley.

It's either the crisps or a mental breakdown on my part.

Showmethebagels · 11/11/2023 23:16

YellowRibbon710 · 10/11/2023 21:16

Also, this is massively unreasonable of me but when grown men on the train or tube get a water bottle out of their backpack and start sipping. Gives me the ick.

I don't know why. I just find it really unmanly. I KNOW it is unreasonable.

Ha ha this made me giggle and reminded me of when I saw a man getting off the train and wheeling a really tiny suitcase to the carpark. It just so funny somehow that he couldn’t just carry it.

EverythingYouDoIsaBalloon · 11/11/2023 23:16

Pliudev · 11/11/2023 23:14

Someone said we should meet up for a 'cuppa'. I realised we never would. I know it's completely unreasonable but the idea of a 'cuppa' is such an awful thing. And I don't know why.

And the way people always say 'a nice cup of tea'. They're not likely to have made themselves a horrible cup of tea, are they?

Re 'cuppa', though... I just flashed back to 1970s milk ads and remembered 'pinta'. Even worse.

AngryBirdsNoMore · 11/11/2023 23:17

Hamsterinaball · 11/11/2023 22:37

People who don't pick up their dogs shit

People who buy their 1 year old a 'smash cake'... so much waste? Why??

Families on SM who all wear the same Xmas jammies. I don't know why but it really irks me. (Sorry).

Work men who come in and plug their drills into the wall... you going to pay my bill?

How are they…supposed to…use the drill……?

Pokinganose · 11/11/2023 23:20

People either talking on their phones in the lunch room at work or worse still watching a film etc with the sound turned up. No I don't can't to listen to your conversation whether it's in English or not and non I don't want to hear your film or preaching session that you're watching. I want to eat my lunch in peace. Also I don't want to smell your smellly lunch you've just microwaved.

WrongSwanson · 11/11/2023 23:20

People who show up to professional meetings with the type of water bottle that resembles a giant toddler tippy cup with a spout. What's wrong with a glass of water? And do you really need to drink 3 litres of water in the next hour? Surely it's more pleasant to get a glass of fresh water every now and then?

Hamsterinaball · 11/11/2023 23:23

@SM4713

HAHA really? Or do you knock stuff over 😁

Hamsterinaball · 11/11/2023 23:25

@AngryBirdsNoMore

Do they not charge it before work? I've always found it quite rude lol!

Showmethebagels · 11/11/2023 23:25

smooththecat · 11/11/2023 20:06

Shedule IS the British pronunciation of the word. Skedule is the American pronunciation.

I’m Scottish and I say skedule as do most of my colleagues.

JudgeJ · 11/11/2023 23:26

"Can you lend me".

Pupils used to say to me Miss, can I lend a ruler? Sometimes I would reply, 'By all means, to who do you wish to lend it? Please note the use of 'whom' and the lack of a preposition at the end of the sentence!'

artsperson · 11/11/2023 23:26

People who talk about, 'sleeps', 'treats', 'pampering'.

chillin12 · 11/11/2023 23:27

Word “babe” deffo makes me cringe, especially guys you barely know on dating apps, using words like “hun,” and “babe.” Or when guys use “x” too early on. Eurghhh

Those super cheesy pep talks on the work group chat, that hype everything and everyone up.

People who equate pets to babies/children

Typing “loose,” when actually they mean “lose.” I’m over that now, but used to really bug me at first. Otherwise, I don’t care for much errors, but hated that one.

Parents who make their toddlers/children respond and repeat things in an overly polite way to show they have manners. They can teach them in their own time, as I’m really not judging young children like that!

StockpotSoup · 11/11/2023 23:31

QS90 · 11/11/2023 18:50

Or pronouncing the "sh" in "schedule".

Erm… that’s how it’s pronounced.

spookehtooth · 11/11/2023 23:34

People who post about things that make them cringe, I mean why??

eastegg · 11/11/2023 23:41

Balloonhearts · 10/11/2023 20:07

And dangerous. I've seen a child crack their head open from standing in a trolley. They reached for their mum and the trolley tipped. It's not designed to be stood in. Ambulance was called, don't know if they had any permanent damage.

Also seen one have her front teeth knocked out from riding on a flatbed trolley. Dad pulled it over a speed bump in the carpark, she was jolted forward and smacked her mouth on the bar. Trolleys aren't for riding on, sit them in the seat or they walk. Parents who stand them in the basket are fucking brain dead idiots.

While we’re on the subject of things that are dangerous that quite a lot of parents do, here’s mine; letting your child continue to wear their scooter/bike helmet when playing in a playground. A paramedic at a child safety talk I went to explained it’s a hanging risk. An awful thing to think about, but once you’ve had it explained to you by someone who has had professional dealings with the possible consequences, you don’t do it again.

HGP · 11/11/2023 23:49

Maybe you wouldn’t all be so grumpy if your parents had plonked you in a trolley, given you a packet of crisps and chatted to you as a child.

As someone who has worked in nice, expensive kitchens, if toddler shoes touching your packaged food is upsetting, don’t ever eat in a restaurant 😬

Bluemoon1881 · 11/11/2023 23:50

Willyoujust · 11/11/2023 23:11

Perhaps they’re saying ‘should’ve’ which sounds like should of 😂😂😂

It's stil Argghhh!, I should have so please please stop this this should OF, 🤢

Pinkpinkpink15 · 11/11/2023 23:52

Hamsterinaball · 11/11/2023 23:25

@AngryBirdsNoMore

Do they not charge it before work? I've always found it quite rude lol!

The @Hamsterinaball

mot all tools are battery operated, many are mains supply.

it has never occurred to me that a workman was being cheeky plugging in a tool they need, no. Not even if they're charging batteries.

you pay a lot for their labour, the pennies it costs to run their tools is negligible

Worriednanof1 · 11/11/2023 23:55

EverythingYouDoIsaBalloon · 11/11/2023 23:14

Also... a former bf pronouncing it 'clitORis'. I don't think my foof has ever snapped shut so fast.

Adults who use the word foof for female gentalia!

Bluemoon1881 · 11/11/2023 23:58

Worriednanof1 · 11/11/2023 23:55

Adults who use the word foof for female gentalia!

🤦‍♀️🤣

Notanother1 · 12/11/2023 00:00

P Diddy or ‘Love’ on Graham Norton made me cringe so much my skin turned inside out.

PyongyangKipperbang · 12/11/2023 00:01

Ex who decided that the rest of the world was wrong on this one. It actually came up during the break up row.

Spaghetti Bolognese (with the silent G)

Or, Spag bol.

Definitely NOT Spag Bowl.

MrsHughesPinny · 12/11/2023 00:03

Worriednanof1 · 11/11/2023 23:55

Adults who use the word foof for female gentalia!

I once accidentally typed ‘foof’ instead of ‘food’ in a work email. There were many recipients and it became widely known office lore. It was 10+ years ago and I’m still cringing now…