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If you could say ONE last thing to an ex...

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movedonfromsmithy · 15/09/2023 12:47

What would it be!?....

Mine would be...

Hello. Hope you're well. Now that years have passed I want to say that with a clear head and with no feelings, I'm so glad we spent those 4 years together, but me ending it was the best, for both of us.... I was so desperate for love and to be loved that I clung onto you when you didn't want to be clung to. I shouldn't have carried on after you cheated but that's on me, I just so wanted to be loved by you.

With all my heart I hope you're happy and with someone who can make you happy.

Your ex.

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MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 15/09/2023 12:57

You're really not the sex god you think you are. Satisfying scores of women once isn't the same as satisfying one woman scores of times.

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movedonfromsmithy · 15/09/2023 13:23

@MrsDanversGlidesAgain

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jaychops · 15/09/2023 13:28

You should see the life I'm going to live without you!

Errolwasahero · 15/09/2023 13:32

You really are just a pathetic weak little man, aren’t you.

You’re getting a taste of your medicine now, how do you like it? I hope you’ve learned something.

xanthippe8 · 15/09/2023 13:33

I had to wait until you were in prison to feel safe enough to contact our daughter, I'm glad she's managed to get away from you too now...drop dead

SadnapTwapples · 15/09/2023 13:33

Sorry

StrictlyAFemaleFemale · 15/09/2023 13:33

Really sorry you and your wife are having trouble conceiving. You'd be a pretty good dad.

tescocreditcard · 15/09/2023 13:35

I'd say "I'm so happy since I left you - I've never once regretted it"

CherryBlossom321 · 15/09/2023 13:35

I forgive you.

Issummernearlyover · 15/09/2023 13:35

Why didn't you tell me you preferred men BEFORE our wedding?

OnAFrolicOfMyOwn · 15/09/2023 13:36

"I'm sorry"

Missingmyusername · 15/09/2023 13:36

That I’m glad you met someone who wanted lots of children, I hope you are happy and your wife treats you well. I’m sorry I hurt you so much. I should’ve ended things much sooner when I realised how desperately you wanted a big family.

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movedonfromsmithy · 15/09/2023 13:50

@Issummernearlyover

Nooo! Omgosh! I am so sorry.

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movedonfromsmithy · 15/09/2023 13:50

@jaychops

Make it the best possible x

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movedonfromsmithy · 15/09/2023 13:51

@Errolwasahero

I think that's called 'karma' x

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movedonfromsmithy · 15/09/2023 13:52

@xanthippe8

Sounds a horrible situation! Glad you feel safe now x

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movedonfromsmithy · 15/09/2023 13:52

@tescocreditcard

Ditto x

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MorrisZapp · 15/09/2023 14:00

Bet you're a great dad. My family all remember you and thought you were brilliant.

Stompythedinosaur · 15/09/2023 14:22

I'm sure I could muster a final last "fuck off" for a particular nasty ex.

MyDogSmellsTerrible · 15/09/2023 14:31

I did a great job raising our children. It's beyond sad that you don't even know this.

Errolwasahero · 15/09/2023 14:32

Op, Sometimes!

Foggyfoggyfoggy · 15/09/2023 14:34

I am so glad you died alone. Karma really is a thing...

Eyesopenwideawake · 15/09/2023 14:36

You could have done so much more with your life. I hope the end was quick and painless. I remember you with great fondness.

Teaandbiscuits60 · 15/09/2023 14:37

You have to surround yourself with sycophants instead of a wife and children, so you can feel ‘cock of the walk’. I laugh at you at every opportunity. You’re not even important you are a narcissist and a nasty one.

Tlolljs · 15/09/2023 14:40

Rest in peace.