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If you could say ONE last thing to an ex...

144 replies

movedonfromsmithy · 15/09/2023 12:47

What would it be!?....

Mine would be...

Hello. Hope you're well. Now that years have passed I want to say that with a clear head and with no feelings, I'm so glad we spent those 4 years together, but me ending it was the best, for both of us.... I was so desperate for love and to be loved that I clung onto you when you didn't want to be clung to. I shouldn't have carried on after you cheated but that's on me, I just so wanted to be loved by you.

With all my heart I hope you're happy and with someone who can make you happy.

Your ex.

OP posts:
Positanoprincipessa · 15/09/2023 19:23

Your penis WAS really small.

FinallyHere · 15/09/2023 19:24

Wouldn't waste my breath.

shieldmaiden7 · 15/09/2023 19:25

How could you just walk away from your kids and no care?

FighterOfTheNightMan11 · 15/09/2023 19:28

We were never meant to be but you’ve always been the special one I tucked away in the back of my heart. All our friends were right, even after all this time I should’ve picked up the phone! We both had far too much pride.
Sleep well, I know we will meet again!

OneMoreCookieMonster · 15/09/2023 19:29

Positanoprincipessa · 15/09/2023 19:23

Your penis WAS really small.

Oh god there's more than one...

I was going to say:

When a woman says size doesn't matter, she's lying.

onlyjokingprobably · 15/09/2023 19:30

Are you happy now? No, I didn't think so.

givememystuff · 15/09/2023 19:30

Please give me my box back!! After 25 years I hope you've still got it.

Also - the day the police did a dawn raid on our house whilst you weren't living there gives me nightmares - I really hope you've got the help you need for your hard core porn addiction.

Whattodo112222 · 15/09/2023 19:34

You're an abuser.
I hope you die on the toilet

Yourenotthekingofallthegays · 15/09/2023 19:43

I wish I'd realised at the time that you really loved me and that you weren't too good for me. I had really shit self-esteem and I didn't think I deserved you. So I treated you badly. I'm sorry.

Itslookinggood · 15/09/2023 19:43

You cunt.

DrFoxtrot · 15/09/2023 19:46

I wish I could say one last thing to my XH but unfortunately he's my DC's father so he wouldn't disappear after I said my piece 😂.

lapsedbookworm · 15/09/2023 19:49

Thank you.

Learning how to deal with your abuse, rage, and manipulation, gave me skills I applied in the work place.

Wanting to get away from your financial abuse gave the the drive to progress in the workplace.

So you would hate this, but you helped me become so successful

Whattodo112222 · 15/09/2023 19:51

You think I'm a narcissist lol, you can't even spell it you prick.

ShineBright1209 · 15/09/2023 19:51

Your actions ruined mine and our children’s lives. We will have to live with the consequences of what you did forever. I’ll never trust another person again. When our children are older I’m the one that’s going to have to sit them down and explain everything to them. You try to blame me for you not being allowed contact with them but that’s all on you. It’s took me over 3 years to finally get to a place where I can say that it wasn’t my fault, you should of known better.

Barkybarkynutnut · 15/09/2023 20:05

I regret the day I met you. My life took a terrible turn because of you.

turtle8919 · 15/09/2023 20:32

Cantstandpowerpoints · 15/09/2023 15:22

A teeny weeny corner of my heart will always have love for you, although I’m really happy with my life and family 😊

By the way I’m your 15 year old daughter’s maths teacher! She’s a great kid, you and your wife have done a good job.

Parents evening will be an interesting one lol!

Gingerwarthog · 15/09/2023 21:05

At a point in the future (and you won't believe this now) you are going to have and articulate some very extreme views on subjects such as vaccines. This will cost you credibility and status.

Original poster
movedonfromsmithy · 15/09/2023 21:14

@SlippinJanie

Relate!!!

OP posts:
almondflake · 15/09/2023 21:22

If you'd loved me instead of owning me we could have made it , I loved you so much but you were completely indifferent.

LastHives · 15/09/2023 21:22

I was always too good for you! ALL of you 😂

WeeHaggisFace · 15/09/2023 21:24

Not a thing- not worth one second more of my life

Vettrianofan · 15/09/2023 21:27

I hope you are happy whoever you are with now. I still remember you. We had a good 18 months together. It's a shame we wanted different things in life at the time.

Noshowlomo · 15/09/2023 22:21

You’re a slimy looking pervert and your hair is shit

HoobleDooble · 15/09/2023 22:26

I still love you and always will but I'm glad you dumped me rather than cheat on me as you simply can't keep it in your trousers, I've seen you on dating sites, I guess your wife doesn't know about this. As I say, I do still love you and, until I met my husband, I would have dropped whoever I was with to be with you. Im glad this never happened for the sake of my mental (and sexual) health.

UkeleleUnicycle · 15/09/2023 22:28

Thank you for being so lovely to me. I loved you with all my heart. You really helped me to see I was worth something and I have you to thank for encouraging me into the career I love.

We wouldn't have made it in the long run. I know that. We're too different.
But I hope you are happy . I'm really happy with DH and DC and I do still think of you now and then and I'm glad of our years together.. Thank you x

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