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Original poster

My cousins are here for two weeks

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thisisasurvivor · 31/07/2023 09:57

Two weeks is a long time to think a family can tour them around
Cook and clean for them?

Or am I being too mean?

I'm so sick of walking in pee from the husband in the toilet
It's everywhere

I just had to clear all his breakfast food up
With a baby in my arms screaming her head off

Aghhhhhhhjjj

Sorry all just needed to vent

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thisisasurvivor · 01/08/2023 21:41

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DismantledKing · 01/08/2023 21:44

This bag of bollocks is still rattling on I see

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thisisasurvivor · 01/08/2023 21:44

DismantledKing · 01/08/2023 21:44

This bag of bollocks is still rattling on I see

😘😘😘😘😘😘

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Mellowautumnmists · 01/08/2023 21:45

Piss off

You'd be better off directing that towards your cousin, I think?

doorstopper123 · 01/08/2023 21:45

Ooh toilet mat

Bin it so he and everyone can see the puddle

whatsappdoc · 01/08/2023 21:46

Surely he'll still miss the commode? Won't the piss be all over the bedroom floor instead?

Mellowautumnmists · 01/08/2023 21:51

And the carpet if the floor is carpeted 🤮🤢

Draconis · 01/08/2023 21:52

Omg just tell them to step up. Ask if there's anything you can help him with regarding the toilet as it seems he has problems using it. No? Well could he please clean up after he uses it as you have your hands full.

Tell them to shut the gate.

Ask them to clear up after their meals please as you have your hands full.

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thisisasurvivor · 01/08/2023 22:09

I know !!

It's a lino type floor

I just hope she can manage it and end all the utter fcking Piss that's been downstairs

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LetItGoHome · 02/08/2023 07:51

OP have you checked out the bedroom floor this morning? I take it his wife has the job of emptying it each morning? 🤢 Hope whoever has a reasonable aim doing that 🙈

Original poster
thisisasurvivor · 02/08/2023 10:24

So PP took the basin from the commode

Left the rest of it in my cupboard

Not checked his floor

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thisisasurvivor · 02/08/2023 10:58

He's currently using my paper to make a list of his spendings so far

So far wife has paid for all our foot shopping and most meals

I paid for the others

His list includes
Coffee for himself
And wine
His wine for him
None for the hosts

I sound really tight but this pisses me off no end

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thisisasurvivor · 02/08/2023 11:03

Food

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PlacidPenelope · 02/08/2023 12:00

If you are not prepared to say anything then you will just have to live with being pissed off, won't you.

You are enabling this behaviour.

amusedbush · 02/08/2023 12:16

PlacidPenelope · 02/08/2023 12:00

If you are not prepared to say anything then you will just have to live with being pissed off, won't you.

You are enabling this behaviour.

Exactly. Cheeky Fuckers continue their Cheeky Fucker Antics because everyone around them allows it.

OP, listen to me: he is not going to change unless you force it. Why would he? He is being bankrolled and waited on hand and foot. You've even facilitated him peeing in your spare room! You've played a part in creating this monster so SAY SOMETHING.

Who cares if he is family? That means very little to me. An arsehole is an arsehole, regardless of DNA.

Andylion · 02/08/2023 13:05

He's currently using my paper to make a list of his spendings so far

Any idea why he is doing this?

Mellowautumnmists · 02/08/2023 13:08

Andylion · 02/08/2023 13:05

He's currently using my paper to make a list of his spendings so far

Any idea why he is doing this?

Probably to give @thisisasurvivor the bill.

Is anyone reading that thread about things you wish you could say on posts but can't......🙈🙊😐

DismantledKing · 02/08/2023 14:04

I don’t know why people are getting so wound up about this. It’s obvious nonsense.

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thisisasurvivor · 02/08/2023 16:41

Thanks for all the sympathy 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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thisisasurvivor · 02/08/2023 16:41

DismantledKing · 02/08/2023 14:04

I don’t know why people are getting so wound up about this. It’s obvious nonsense.

😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘

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MaggieFS · 02/08/2023 17:03

I don't understand the lists thing? For what purpose?

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thisisasurvivor · 02/08/2023 17:55

MaggieFS · 02/08/2023 17:03

I don't understand the lists thing? For what purpose?

To tot up his spending

His wife has less and pays for everything

That's my point

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thisisasurvivor · 05/08/2023 21:36

Lil update

All good

The commode worked wonders he even cleaned it multiple times

His wife had a good talk to him

He leaves early in the morning

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RampantIvy · 05/08/2023 21:39

Result.

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thisisasurvivor · 05/08/2023 21:42

When he left the clothes out for me to wash them and I took the basket to him and said the machine was good to go

Cleaning products on toilet after he used it

And then the commode upstairs def made a difference

Just pissy really
His wife is the opposite and super giving so I don't want to upset he
Her couldn't give a shit

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