I can't imagine there would be many women in their late fifties and early sixties on this site who spend their time trawling OnlyFans and Grindr (well, it wouldn't be Grindr, but, you know) for men in their late teens so we could offer them money for sexual favours. Why do we continue to give men a 'boys will be boys' pass for things we would never even think of doing ourselves?
I also think bringing this upon your wife and leaving her to be the one to face the media is a cowardly thing to do. It's like being an adult and getting your mum to call in sick for you but on a national level.