"All women are bisexual"

[Louise4939]

Why do many men believe this? Because even on the internet I've seen articles which prove that we are all bisexual or lesbian but never straight. If sexuality was a choice then I dont think many of us would be picking men lol

Yes men kill other men, what that got to do with women saying they want to kill men which was the point I was answering

All you are proving is that male violence is an issue not female violence which is which women bitching they want to kill men is not as impactful as if men do it because men are more likely to actually follow through

And I dont believe murder is ever justified. Killing someone for killing someone is just ridiculous

At times I feel like I should just date a trans woman or lady boy because they seem to be like gay men but in the body of a woman. I've had trans women want shirtless pics from me which I found was hot while cis women either want to see naked women or dont want to see naked men.

Knock yourself out then mate, why not go for it?

Bloody hell, this place has become overrun with incels!

To be fair I'm 99% certain the two guys who were deleted/banned were the same poster hes a regularly banned troll/incel. I wish there was some way MN could stop him from reregistering but I'm assuming he uses vpns etc

He must have an extremely pathetic little life though, I've seen him make up to three profiles in 1 days just to drone on about the exact same thing in the exact same posting style. He might have more success with women if he spent less time whining on MN 🙄

Well I would hardly say that asking a woman who is attracted to both male and females why she chose to be with a man when she could happily date a woman makes me biphobic. I was just trying to get a sense of why any woman would do such a thing when it is much safer and overall healthier to date a woman.

And I stand by my feminist comment too. As feminists it is our duty to do away with men at every possible opportunity that we can and prove to ourselves that we don’t need them in our lives. So somebody attracted to both male and female bodies choosing to select a man to satiate herself is acting contrary to the tenants of feminist doctrine, and is in turn little more than a female ‘uncle Tom’.

As a feminist it is no one's job to do away with men

It's daft to try and pretend that men and women are so fundamentally different

It's about equality not a take over bid

Oh I disagree entirely. We are in no way alike to men, and a society without them would be a veritable utopia in comparison to the world that we have been encumbered with, thanks to the ape like impulses of our much inferior gender.

Firstly unless you can point to a post on this thread where that poster said dshe was a feminist then why are you going on about what she should do as a faminist. She probably is a feminist, many women including myself are, however the constant assumption that lesbians/bisexual women are feminists is putting a burden on them that is not placed on hetrosexual women.

Secondly you did not ask her why she chose to be with a man you said

Do you not feel like you’ve betrayed your feminist roots by being attracted to women yet choosing to cohabit with an oppressor? You should be with another woman, there’s no excuse for you.

Telling bisexual women who they can't and can't be in a relationship with is biphobic

Then you said she was supposedly bi

I just get frustrated when supposedly women who are attracted to other women choose men.

Like she might somehow be lying if she didn't meet your criteria for being bi.

Then you followed it up with a suggestion of conversation therapy which implies sexuality is a choice - an option that has been used against homosexual people for years

Luckily that is something you can change, it takes time to break the conditioning but it can be done

And this comment:

So somebody attracted to both male and female bodies choosing to select a man to satiate herself is acting contrary to the tenants of feminist doctrine, and is in turn little more than a female ‘uncle Tom’.

Also biphobic and really nasty

And as a feminist I don't believe it's my job to do away with men at every opportunity. I want equity and equality not inequality for men or the destruction of the human race (although I appreciate the planet might prefer the last option)

Well whatever, I’m giving up trying to explain myself on this topic so I will just leave you to lie and make horrific insinuations about me.

If I have offended any bisexual women out there then I can only apologise, I didn’t mean to come across in an accusatory manner for your poor choices in sexual partners.

And I stand by my feminist comment too. As feminists it is our duty to do away with men at every possible opportunity that we can and prove to ourselves that we don’t need them in our lives.

If you actually thought this then you'd end your relationship and just be single.

Nobody is forcing you to be with 'an oppressor' as you called men.

You're angry bisexual women are with men instead of women.

Why not hold yourself to the same standards and be single instead of being with men?

Being single is a valid life choice. If you're that angry at the existence of men and think people should do all they can to avoid being in relationships with them, put your money where your mouth is and be single.

I'm with a sexual partner I love and have a healthy, happy and equal relationship with.

You're in a relationship with someone who you say you're only with because you were brainwashed by society, who has a body you say is disgusting and who you are proactively trying to learn how to leave.

Who has made the inferior choice really?

I'm very happy with mine thanks, mate!

I'm quoting your actual words, that's hardly lying

And that's some pathetic excuse for an apology when you use it to yet again be offensive to bisexual women

Stop holding bisexual women to higher standards than you hold yourself to

If you don't want to be with a man don't, be single, break up now, but stop being offensive to women who are happy with men

@SandraCumin , I've noticed a couple of things about what you write.

1. You assume everyone is a feminist: they're not
2. You assume the only form of feminism people ascribe to is the separatist kind
3. You feel free to interrogate others about their sexuality, but you never answer the question: why don't you leave your husband so you can explore your sexuality?

As a lesbian feminist I would ask you to desist: you are doing my side no favours.

I think in terms of radical feminism, which has some overlaps with separatist feminism, the doctrine would advise against women giving away emotional energy to any men, whether as lovers, friends or relations.

I don't think many actually practice this though!

Ah, I was going to join in on the original topic…

actually, I still am!

clearly, not all women are bi. Not even most! The latest census makes that clear.

there has been some research that women have more flexible sexuality. But it’s still not a majority.

I'm bi, and I find some of this chat a bit disheartening. I didn’t fully embrace my bisexuality until I was in my 30s. I don’t live in London or Brighton so it’s been tough to find women who feel the same to chat to - let alone date! You don’t double your dating pool coming out as bi in later life. You barely expand it! Less than, say, 5% of women are lesbian/bi/pan. A proportion of those aren’t interested in women who’ve been with men. Then finding someone in that remaining pool the right age who you click with…we end up with men because we can’t find women 😆

thankfully I found some likeminded women on mumsnet and joined their chat group. Has been amazing to be understood!

Idk but I am bisexual so I can't really argue 😂