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"All women are bisexual"

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Louise4939 · 16/02/2023 23:41

Why do many men believe this? Because even on the internet I've seen articles which prove that we are all bisexual or lesbian but never straight. If sexuality was a choice then I dont think many of us would be picking men lol

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Cassie9032 · 17/02/2023 19:55

@SandraCumin Serious question, are you confused about your sexuality? I'm not saying you are but there's no shame in being gay obviously (I am). You sound really unhappy in your marriage to a man and maybe it's something you should explore (women)
You have offended a few people on here but maybe it's something you should think about it instead of pushing it onto others.

Peekingovertheparapet · 17/02/2023 20:06

I think this maybe is more that women more generally are more likely to be attracted to someone’s personality over their physicality. The male attraction is (for me) quite a lustful thing and quite driven by hormones. Post kids I rarely find random men attractive in the way I might have when I was younger, at least not on sight alone. But as I have got older I have had more crushes on women than men and I think maybe that’s because they have just been really interesting and charismatic people. And as my sexuality overall has waned (probably exhaustion etc and maybe the coil) I tend to find that men are likely to have tendencies towards aggression and predation. I’m happily married and have a reasonable sex life with DH, enjoyable etc, probably not as frequent as it should be (again, exhaustion), but I don’t think im only attracted to men any more in the way I might have been when younger.

Bodybuilder493 · 18/02/2023 15:12

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AprilColdShower · 18/02/2023 15:17

I’ve heard that from men who were trying to get me into 3somes.

Nope

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monsteramunch · 18/02/2023 15:21

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You're insecure "thanks to women", you say?

It might be your attitude towards women that's putting them off mate, not your body.

monsteramunch · 18/02/2023 15:22

I agree with you though @Bodybuilder493 that @SandraCumin's comment about men's bodies was horrible and I think it is indicative of her really not being in a healthy headspace in general and seemingly very confused about her own sexuality.

Bodybuilder493 · 18/02/2023 15:25

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monsteramunch · 18/02/2023 15:55

Why would I want to get into a relationship if many women admit to not finding the male body as sexy as a womans? I dont hate women or anything but its a massive turn off, I like being physically desired

You don't have to get in a relationship, nobody is forcing you to.

But if a woman said to you "why would I want to get into a relationship if many men make misogynist comments about women and don't stand up to other men who do the same" what would you say? Wouldn't you say we shouldn't assume the worst of all men?

monsteramunch · 18/02/2023 16:02

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Where have you 'noticed' this? How many bisexual women are you speaking to and listening to? First person I mean, as you say you've 'noticed' it, not just read about on Reddit etc.

Bodybuilder493 · 18/02/2023 16:11

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SoCunningYouCanStickATailOnItAndCallItAFox · 18/02/2023 16:11

@Bodybuilder493 me and my friends only ever say complimentary things about male bodies, I'm amazed you have not heard men being talked about being beuatiful or hot or... other good things.
I wonder if you are latching onto the negative comments as they resonate with you and taking no notice of the good, it's a common human thing to do, especially if it is confirming a negative self view.
Good and bad things get said about alsorts of things all the time. You need to choose your focus to tune into the ones which aren't dragging you down if you can.

ConfusedNT · 18/02/2023 16:12

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Oh it's you again, Mr Wackamole, every time one account is banned you pop up with another one what deep joy 🙄

Minteraye · 18/02/2023 16:13

I would. I like men!

Bodybuilder493 · 18/02/2023 16:13

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ConfusedNT · 18/02/2023 16:14

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Before I report you to MN again for like the 10th profile I'm just going to answer that last comment

Whilst women shouldn't be going around saying they want to kill men, the difference is men are killing women at a rate of 2 women a week in the UK, women are not killing men except rarely, so it's not really the same thing

Bodybuilder493 · 18/02/2023 16:15

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monsteramunch · 18/02/2023 16:18

Also, Women make misogionist comments about men online as well and its actuallt acceptable for women to say "I hate men" or "kill all men" and it doesnt get taken seriously.

You can't make misogynist comments about men. I assume you mean sexist. Nobody should be sexist about anyone else, but women aren't killing two men every week in the UK alone (whereas two women are murdered every week by current or former male partners) so you'll forgive me for considering the threat posed astronomically different.

Even when you ask a woman what she finds attractive in men its always "personality" and I love it when women are visual, I wish women were more like gay men and actually like seeing us naked or shirtless.

So you're offended that women don't all find men physically attractive and offended that women don't completely objectify men and instead value personality as well as looks?

The male privilege behind you being angry the opposite sex doesn't physically objectify you is staggering.

As is your sense of entitlement to women's sexual attraction.

Why cant more women go to male strip clubs? Or buy male Onlyfans? Or actually watch us in porn?

I mean... because those of us who don't already do so, don't want to do so? Why do you think women should engage with men sexually in ways they don't really want to? Think about what that says about you.

Bodybuilder493 · 18/02/2023 16:18

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ConfusedNT · 18/02/2023 16:22

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I'm reporting you because you sound exactly like a troll who comes on here regularly to tell women we must all be lesbians because we don't fancy your bodybuilders body and you wish you could date teans women because you want a partner who will like you for your looks not your personality

And quite frankly I'm bored of hearing the same self centered script every few days/weeks from you on the relationships board taking up space where women in abusive relationships come to get support and advice

If you want to report Sandra for her comments go ahead. I called her out for her biphobia and for acting like homosexuality was a choice but ultimately she sounds like someone who is confused about their sexuality. But she isn't all over lots of threads accusing other people of being lesbians so I'm not in the mood to report her, it's also not my sole responsibility

monsteramunch · 18/02/2023 16:23

@Bodybuilder493

Are there any women in your life who you deeply respect, care about and view as your genuine equal?

You don't sound like you have any real lire experience of engaging with women and actually listening to them.

You're simply regurgitating what you've read on Reddit / heard on podcasts / in your echo chamber along the liens of "thanks to women, men have to put up with (insert perceived hardship here)"

monsteramunch · 18/02/2023 16:24

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That poster was absolutely called out on her biphobia, her conversation therapy style talk and how disgustingly she spoke about men's bodies.