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What do you love so much that you can't understand why others don't?

232 replies

FormerCarer · 19/11/2022 17:09

I hope that the thread title makes some sense.

I was having a chat about this with a friend who is a camping fanatic and who is genuinely puzzled as to why other people e.g me despise it. She's that passionate about it.

I have various interests that I enjoy but I can generally see why they don't appeal to some others but it made me wonder what do you love you so much that you can't understand why others don't share your passion?

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MrsAvocet · 19/11/2022 17:36

Being alone. I really like some time to myself. DH has been out with friends today, and DS has been working so I have really enjoyed a day alone. DH kept suggesting i invite a friend round or go to see someone as he would hate it, and doesn't understand that I don't feel the same.
I also love cycling but I do understand why some people don't enjoy exercise in general, and why people can be nervous about riding a bike.

DrEllie · 19/11/2022 17:40

Music. I'm baffled by people who don't like any music

Ambertonix · 19/11/2022 17:40

Reading in the bath. It is one of my greatest pleasures in life but all my friends would rather have a quick shower instead!

Luckycatt · 19/11/2022 17:40

Peanut butter.

Also camping.

PollyCreo · 19/11/2022 17:41

Oops pressed send too soon! I swim, run, Pilates and do weights - it's just part of my day but all my friends except for one don't get it. I love being fit and at my age (50) I think it's especially beneficial. Most of my friends roll their eyes and sigh "You're going to the gym AGAIN?" 🤔

Alighttouchonthetiller · 19/11/2022 17:45

Pickled onions.

EarringsandLipstick · 19/11/2022 17:46

PollyCreo · 19/11/2022 17:28

Exercise. I do it every day (running, pilates

Me too. I also exercise every day & although I would never say this, I can't understand why other people wouldn't enjoy it!

RandomUsernameHere · 19/11/2022 17:46

Running. It's my absolute passion. Especially marathons. As well as actually running, I love talking about it and reading about it.

Cantstandsmugness · 19/11/2022 17:48

Not watching crap tv and not knowing who all these c list Celebs are! Who cares!

ReviewingTheSituation · 19/11/2022 17:49

Puddywoodycat · 19/11/2022 17:20

Tk max.

If I want a cardigan, i go in and ALL their cardigan's are in one place.

Same with any other items of clothing,all in one place!

I can't bear having to search all the random rails in others shop's now but people keep saying it's like a jumble sale?? Other shops seem like a jumble sale to me.

Yes! This. And not only are all the same items in the same place, but all sorted by size. Such efficient shopping!

Moltenpink · 19/11/2022 17:50

Charity shopping & car booting

cushioncovers · 19/11/2022 17:52

History

Paranoidandroidmarvin · 19/11/2022 17:54

Audiobooks. Can’t understand why other readers don’t use this resource. I now read and listen to three times as many books as I did before. On 103 for this year and it is mainly down to listening during my day

FatAgainItsLettuceTime · 19/11/2022 17:55

Tea

It's revolting horrible stuff even if you add loads of sugar and milk.

squashyhat · 19/11/2022 17:56

The Arthur Ransome children's books. Everyone says "Oh, you mean Swallows and Amazons?" Well, yes, but also Winter Holiday and Pigeon Post and The Big Six and We Didn't Mean to Go To Sea and Peter Duck... and... and... and... I am 61 and have no plans to stop reading them ever Smile

losingit31 · 19/11/2022 17:57

Turkish Delight, especially when covered in chocolate like the M&S bar or in Milk Tray type chocolates.

Fizzadora · 19/11/2022 17:58

pinkstripeycat · 19/11/2022 17:25

Being a housewife (although I’m not one anymore but wish I was).

So many people say they get bored at home. I love being at home and never have enough time to get everything done so could never be bored

I used to love being at home by myself on my days off.
DH has retired now so it's shit☹️

Goawayangryman · 19/11/2022 17:59

I must be really agreeable as I also love most of these things aside from running (asthma) and car boot sales.

Music is a big one. If I couldn't listen to, watch and make music id feel like a major pleasure in life was missing.

I find I hard to understand people who don't like sex, sun, music and food either. Basic human pleasures. With exception of food, free. What a waste to not like those!

merryhouse · 19/11/2022 18:00

Babies.

PottyDottyDotPot · 19/11/2022 18:01

Cats

Afterfire · 19/11/2022 18:02

The Script.

dd aged 19 and dh tease me about it. I just love all their music. Dh always laughs and says it’s like one man’s ramblings about how long it’s taken him to get over his ex 😆

DinaofCloud9 · 19/11/2022 18:02

Doing nothing. I do not understand people who need/like to be busy. I hate having plans.

socksandvests · 19/11/2022 18:05

Cleaning and organising my home.
I wish I could clean my house all day everyday but unfortunately I have a full time job.
Cleaning gives me so much satisfaction and a sense of accomplishment that I don't get from anything else. A messy wardrobe that needs totally organised is my idea of heaven and a perfect Sunday afternoon activity

Bunsandtophats · 19/11/2022 18:06

Horse manure smell
simple foods
Silence
all weather walking

stuntbubbles · 19/11/2022 18:08

Rain.

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