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What would you have done? Street compliment

134 replies

ZuzuSusu · 12/10/2022 19:16

Today as I was on a crosswalk into the grocery store, a man waiting at the crosswalk in his truck leaned out and shouted "you look really nice today!"

Would you have:
a. Acknowledged compliment with a smile/wave/verbal comment like "thanks!"
b. Ignored him and continued walking in the store
c. Approached him and given him your number
d. Rude hand gesture

I'll let you know what I did/what happened next after some responses!

OP posts:
countvoncount · 12/10/2022 19:17

A.

MingoDringo · 12/10/2022 19:17

A

Newstart2021 · 12/10/2022 19:18

A

MomwasCasual · 12/10/2022 19:18

B.

Threadkillacilla · 12/10/2022 19:18

D. With a glare. I always look a scruff so would know it was sarcasm.

DotBall · 12/10/2022 19:18

B

Mydogneedsabath · 12/10/2022 19:18

A( & I’d still be smiling now)

Berlinlover · 12/10/2022 19:19

A

gretr · 12/10/2022 19:19

A

Jalepenojello · 12/10/2022 19:19

B.

MomwasCasual · 12/10/2022 19:19

To clarify, B because I don't care what his opinion of what I look like is, whatsoever.

TheHideAndSeekingHill · 12/10/2022 19:19

B

IntentionalError · 12/10/2022 19:20

A.

It would make my day to get a nice compliment like that!

SeanMean · 12/10/2022 19:20

A

Plantstrees · 12/10/2022 19:20

A.

5zeds · 12/10/2022 19:20

a

VariationsonaTheme · 12/10/2022 19:20

Probably A. but with a roll of the eyes rather than a thanks.

Comedycook · 12/10/2022 19:20

Depends on my mood...if I was in a good mood, I might say "thanks, I know!"

QuietNeighbour · 12/10/2022 19:20

A if I was certain it was directed at me
B if there was any doubt

Gazelda · 12/10/2022 19:21

I'd assume he was talking to someone else.

JustFrustrated · 12/10/2022 19:21

If said nicely, A.
If said aggressively/sleazy/other way, B

Juniperwren11 · 12/10/2022 19:21

A week 1 and 2
B week 3
D week 4

Pixiedust1234 · 12/10/2022 19:22

No smile but a thumbs up. Sometimes no acknowledgement is a sign you want to be verbally abused (apparently)

UWhatNow · 12/10/2022 19:22

Did you know him and like him? If so, A.

If not I’d have ignored him. It might a ‘compliment’ but saying it to stranger comes from misogynistic attitudes.

Jalepenojello · 12/10/2022 19:23

i don’t think any man who genuinely respects women would pull this shit, least of all expect a smile, wave and a thanks for it 😩