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Has anyone else become more of a royalist over the last few days?

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MeanMrMustardSeed · 10/09/2022 12:56

I have.

I have always said I loved the queen, but wasn’t sure about Charles and the future of the monarchy beyond Elizabeth II. I love a bit of tradition and pomp, but not too much, and actually feel sorry for people born into the Royal Family, rather than jealous of them.

I have also been reminded about just how awesome the Queen was.

However, I feel an unexpected warmth towards Charles, and look forward to seeing him and Camilla step up.

I would definitely say I am more of a Royalist than I was 4 days ago, and was just wondering if anyone else can identity with this?

OP posts:
PerfectlyPreservedQuagaarWarrior · 11/09/2022 09:07

Twotwotwotwo · 11/09/2022 06:46

No, the whole thing has the opposite effect on me.

i would describe me as fairly apathetic. They were a symbol of inequality but they brought lots of soft power/tourist revenue s fine.

Now I am very pissed off. My young daughters medical treatment is likely to be delayed by months by the funeral. I can't get any mainstream news on Ukrsine. The kids keep having it rammed down their throatd at school causing upset.

The costs to the economy (so real people) are huge in the middle of a cost of living crisis sparked by Putin's war. The stress cared by cancelled childcare arrangements and appointments, cancelled weddings and what about other people's funerals now.

Bring on the Republic and proportional representation.

Yep. Blanket hagiographic arse licking coverage everywhere merely serves to radicalise! So in answer to the OP, fuck no.

hewouldwouldnthe · 11/09/2022 09:45

What do republicans suggest I wonder? Take over Buckingham palace and turn it into social housing? No matter what happens inequality and privilege will still occur. Look at Putin and all the other presidents and heads of state. Living in fancy huge houses, like the White House. The RF are great ambassadors for our country and the pomp and ceremony is a living embodiment of our rich history. Modern life and ceremonial life can co exist.

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 11/09/2022 09:54

What do republicans suggest I wonder? Take over Buckingham palace and turn it into social housing?

Maybe storming a la Bastille style?

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PupInAPram · 11/09/2022 09:57

@AhNowTed SOME British people's obsession with the Royal family. Not ALL. Many, many of us would like the Queen to be the last British monarch.

MushMonster · 11/09/2022 10:06

No, my feeling about monarchy has not chanfed. I am quite neutral to it.
But my feeling towards people full of unexplicable hatred that needs to dig out passages of history from centuries and centuries back to be indigned about something today, 11th September 2022, has escalated. And they have the nerve to compare themselves to people who suffered imperial aggression and suppression and reacted to it, again years and years back, to justify their spouting of hate towards the citizens of whole countries with whom their share, today, great levels of freedom, democracy and not a trace of oppression of any sort.
I find it sickening.
There is one way to fix the problems we face and that is all together, all walking side by side respecting each other.
I bet you the queen or now the king will have some better words to say about this.
One big nation is much more powerful that a bunch of hateful ones.

MushMonster · 11/09/2022 10:07

I meant, my feeling of monarchy has not changed lol

Sunnytwobridges · 11/09/2022 10:37

MrsBirkett · 10/09/2022 12:57

No. The opposite in fact.

😂 This!

dummyd · 11/09/2022 10:41

Nyfluff · 11/09/2022 05:16

No, she did some disgusting appalling things that hurt so many people. Just vile that it is not talked about and the media presents such a different situation. I too hope they don't spend a lot of money when the country is struggling so much.

Why does nobody ever say what these awful things are? I genuinely have no idea what you mean.

couchcritter · 11/09/2022 10:47

My form of republicanism is "no more royal family, keep as much as possible as historical buildings and tourist attractions, and also could we magically do something to improve the state of democracy somehow."

None of which will ever happen of course Grin

BringOnAutumn · 11/09/2022 11:12

I can imagine just how it would go if the monarchy were abolished (I say this as someone who thinks it should be massively slimmed down). Sell off buildings privatise it all. Make people pay for everything. Much will go to the rich.

Don’t imagine it would ever go to 'the people' or 'the poor'.

(As a related/ unrelated anecdote, I've seen how the National Trust has ruined a local community that I used to be part of. They bought off all the housing, not allowing locals to afford it and use it as overpriced holiday homes. They blocked other locals from doing the things they needed to their own homes).

Those that want to abolish need to think about what would actually happen next.

Softplayhooray · 11/09/2022 11:32

Republicans don't need to think about what would happen next and have some kind of detailed plan just to hold a belief. It's perfectly fine to see the monarchy as the outdated colonial dinosaur that it is, and to rightly hate the idea of so many millions going to one random family when old people are freezing to death, unable to pay their heating bills.

But if the question is what should happen next, then the answer is all of the monies held by the RF should go back to the people in the form of investments in hospitals, schools, etc. What else?

BringOnAutumn · 11/09/2022 11:34

Softplayhooray · 11/09/2022 11:32

Republicans don't need to think about what would happen next and have some kind of detailed plan just to hold a belief. It's perfectly fine to see the monarchy as the outdated colonial dinosaur that it is, and to rightly hate the idea of so many millions going to one random family when old people are freezing to death, unable to pay their heating bills.

But if the question is what should happen next, then the answer is all of the monies held by the RF should go back to the people in the form of investments in hospitals, schools, etc. What else?

Yeah. That would never happen.

Worriedaboutethics · 11/09/2022 11:42

Yes

Hopeandlove · 11/09/2022 11:45

No way I feel stronger they must go

maddy68 · 11/09/2022 11:51

Yes i have regained a respect for the queen and the royals.

We already have democratic leaders. But the constant presence of the monarchy provides neutral reassurance in difficult times.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 11/09/2022 12:07

@anderosonnmj , I agree. We live close to 2000 acres of a Royal Park - a fantastic free facility for so many people in the area, not to mention a nature reserve. I’ve often thought that if it weren’t a royal park, it would by now have been sold off for large, very expensive houses - this is an area with more than its fair share of large, very expensive houses anyway.

Wallaw · 11/09/2022 12:10

MarshaMelrose · 11/09/2022 01:54

Which would imply he's probably culturally significant.

Because he slept around, was married to style icon and got assassinated leaving a young widows and children behind. How many people do you think would know about the Bay of Pigs? Mind you, I'm pretty sure Kennedy'd be glad they don't.

I've seen people on here not even know what Watergate was or what the scandal was about. I'm pretty sure they'd make all sort of assumptions of deep throat.

I expect they would remember Trump. He just left power. And Obama, the first black president.

How sad that you had to resort to insults. 🥱

It's a silly argument, though, because it's not like for like, and whether or not people remember names has nothing much to do with anything, and it's an oddly British-centric view of the world.

Americans remember American presidents, particularly seminal presidents, just as British people remember British PMs, particularly seminal British PMs.

Do a lot of people in other countries remember any British Royal other than the (late) Queen and a few that are notorious for beheading their wives, etc.? No.

BiscuitLover3678 · 11/09/2022 12:17

Why does it have to be so black and white? Why not reduce the extreme celebrations, keep them but only in ways that benefit tourism and the public. Stop some of the silly rules that are the reason Harry felt the need to run away.

Frith2013 · 11/09/2022 12:20

No.

It's such a waste of money.

Wallaw · 11/09/2022 12:23

hewouldwouldnthe · 11/09/2022 09:45

What do republicans suggest I wonder? Take over Buckingham palace and turn it into social housing? No matter what happens inequality and privilege will still occur. Look at Putin and all the other presidents and heads of state. Living in fancy huge houses, like the White House. The RF are great ambassadors for our country and the pomp and ceremony is a living embodiment of our rich history. Modern life and ceremonial life can co exist.

@hewouldwouldnthe

Is your argument that it's ok because Putin does it? That's a new one for me.

The difference between the way the royal family lives and the WH is that American presidents don't make money from the property. It's a borrowed house, whereas the royals rake in huge takings from their taxpayer subsidised properties.

And then there's this

www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2021/feb/09/prince-charles-vetted-laws-that-stop-his-tenants-buying-their-homes

Mummyford · 11/09/2022 12:26

Rosewaterblossom · 10/09/2022 21:16

If anyone has ever watched The House of Cards.. no way would I want a president! I know that's a TV show but I imagine it's not too far fetched sadly 😐

@Rosewaterblossom

I hate to mention it, because it seems a bit petty, but are you aware that the American version was a remake of a British show in which the prez character was a PM? Having a royal head of state didn't play into or temper the PM's behaviour in that version either.

jennywasafriendofmrbrightside · 11/09/2022 12:31

I genuinely wonder what people think would actually happen if the monarchy was abolished. Do you really think the wealth would be shared amongst us common folk? Used for the betterment of the country? Castles turned into social housing for homeless? Give me a break 🤦‍♀️

YourLipsMyLipsApocalypse · 11/09/2022 15:46

I don't think that's really what it's about. It's more of a general feeling that a country is better based on fairness, as opposed to being born 'a commoner' and 'a subject' of a family which has done nothing to deserve their power and wealth.

Darbs76 · 11/09/2022 15:48

I’ve always liked the royal family, largely as I adore the pomp of ceremony and the royals give plenty of that. I like to go to all the events

Rosewaterblossom · 11/09/2022 16:34

YourLipsMyLipsApocalypse · 11/09/2022 15:46

I don't think that's really what it's about. It's more of a general feeling that a country is better based on fairness, as opposed to being born 'a commoner' and 'a subject' of a family which has done nothing to deserve their power and wealth.

It's not really based on fairness now though with the prime minister. They're all Eton/private school elite posh boys/women and we currently have a new prime minister who wasn't voted in via the public.