Lauren Goodger beaten after her babies funeral

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Good God that poor, poor woman. How much more suffering can one woman take? First the loss of her baby and now this it's just horrific.

www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/lauren-goodger-hospitalised-facial-injuries-27672451

Maybe, but no one can live anyone else’s life for them and none of us have any insight into why anyone does anything. It’s not the time or place to judge imho. Indeed if her relationship is unhealthy it’s even more understandable why a false version of her own reality is of comfort to her.

The kind thing to do is ignore relatively harmless activities that are potentially giving someone a semblance of support.

Why should she? Her baby existed and died and was a part of her life and her family. Why shouldn’t she post about her the same way she has about her other daughter? Should grieving mothers shut themselves away for a year lest they offend someone’s delicate sensibilities?

I don’t have Instagram or Facebook and I’m not a fan of the whole “sleb culture” at all, but grief is a very personal thing and I’ll defend anyone’s right to express it in the way that they feel is right. If it brings more awareness to the pain of baby loss, stillbirth and neonatal death, it can only be a good thing.

I think grief can manifest itself in anger and violent feelings. But it is utterly appalling a partner can lose control and lash out at a partner and cause this type of horrific injury.

I can't begin to imagine what she's going through but I hope she withdraws from public life for a while to focus on healing and grieving fully. I hope the person who attacked her has the book thrown at them.

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Nails it.

As another grieving mother THANK YOU for saying this. I well understand her urge to tell the world about her beautiful baby and why the hell shouldn't she.

Woefully ignorant, misinformed and cruel too. Shame on you for posting this.

Didn't realise there was a "proper" way to grieve. do let us all know your rules won't you?

Everyone will grieve in their own way and if sharing their pain helps her, that's absolutely fine.

She would have been massively pestered for info so a post letting everyone know about her DD passing may have been done to try to prevent further intrusion.

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No excuse but 100% alcohol

My ex didn't need alcohol for him to beat me up. It was just that he liked doing it.

@VeryEmptyArms so sorry for the loss of your precious baby.

Por Lauren and her poor daughter.
In an ideal world he wouldn't be seeing his eldest child anyone either. She needs to get away from him now.

The Sun confirming that it was him

www.thesun.co.uk/tvandshowbiz/19431972/lauren-goodger-boyfriend-charles-drury-arrested-alleged-assault/

Apologies for those typos.

She has been through so much 🥺 maybe CD is grieving but it's no excuse to subject her to assault

She can Insta the bollix out of it.
If it helps another woman that's all that matters.

There's no "proper" way to grieve.
You do what you can to get through it.

I really hope she has some good people there, someone needs to have her back.

I think she gets validation and comfort from her fans, something she probably doesn't get enough of from the people closest to her

I really really do not understand the mindset of people who criticise the way that other people grieve. It’s absolutely none of your business how someone else conducts themselves during grief

This is heartbreaking. I can't imagine how desperately sad and alone Lauren must be feeling now having had her baby's funeral and the very same day being beaten by the person who is supposed to love and support her. I hope she finds the strength to keep this nasty piece of work out of her and her daughter's lives.

FFS what is wrong with men these days?
I know they’re both grieving an awful loss but why violence, how the hell is that going to help. Maybe alcohol, drugs involved ?

@TSIFT I don't think that's a very helpful comment. I know you mean well but reread what you've written

@Dagnabit I think she gets comfort and validation from her fans, something she probably doesn't get enough of from the people close to her

This.

I feel so sorry for her right now, I bet her spirit is broken at the moment. I recall her saying she doesn’t really have any family support and has been on her own with her daughter 😔

To whoever upthread suggested sending him to a woman who can fight (or whatever it was ).
This is irrelevant.
It’s very hard to stand up to a dangerous man, regardless of what sex you are , and whether you’re an international kickboxing champion, bodybuilder or whatever else.
Abusive men don’t just fight. They throw things, they use fire, they threaten children, they use vehicles, they threaten suicide, they use weapons, they steal your safety nets by working out cunning ways to stop you accessing places of safety/ money .it’s endless.