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Lauren Goodger beaten after her babies funeral

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PutinSmellsPassItOn · 06/08/2022 01:17

Good God that poor, poor woman. How much more suffering can one woman take? First the loss of her baby and now this it's just horrific.

www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/lauren-goodger-hospitalised-facial-injuries-27672451

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ShirleyPhallus · 06/08/2022 05:16

Poor woman, she has been through so much

ShirleyPhallus · 06/08/2022 05:22

GerronBuzanDoThaWomwok · 06/08/2022 02:22

Send the bully my way, he'll soon change his mind when faced down by a woman who can fight.

Wtaf. You think the problem is women who don’t fight back?

Midlifemusings · 06/08/2022 05:23

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Orchidflower1 · 06/08/2022 06:08

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What a revolting comment- reported obviously.

knittingaddict · 06/08/2022 06:24

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What?

You think abusive enough need a trigger? Words fail me.

Roselilly36 · 06/08/2022 06:28

Poor Lauren, I hope she doesn’t take him back, once that line is crossed there is no going back. She needs to be surrounded by people that will love, care and support her whilst she grieves for her much wanted and loved baby girl. So sorry this has happened to Lauren. Never any excuse for DV, at anytime under any circumstances.

knittingaddict · 06/08/2022 06:29

Sorry. Autocorrect gone wrong.

men NOT enough

CosyHappy · 06/08/2022 06:33

Flowers Evening

allboysherebutme · 06/08/2022 06:39

The poor woman after everything that has happened to them he does that the Same day they bury their child, that would be the end for me, I'd ask him to leave. X

BordoisAgain · 06/08/2022 06:43

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What difference does "understanding the context" make to something like this?

GrinAndVomit · 06/08/2022 06:51

I hope she receives some really good professional counselling. She needs to realise that she doesn’t need to be with a man to feel valid. She needs to realise that when she is ready for a relationship she’s worthy of a happy, respectful and stable relationship.
She seems like such a sweet soul. I hope she realises how happy her’s and her daughter’s lives could be without these toxic men.

LadyDP · 06/08/2022 06:53

Its not just Lauren being abused. There is a little girl living in that home in that environment. Its a disgrace.
Get rid and stay rid for her sake.

EasterIssland · 06/08/2022 06:59

poor woman.
not that it makes much difference but is her bf the father of the baby ?

Arewerelated · 06/08/2022 07:02

Poor lady ❤️yes he's the father of her nearly two year old too.
Just no words for any of it

User56785 · 06/08/2022 07:03

What fucking triggered it? Seriously?

I know that there are people out there that think like this, like you do @marblemad . But reading it in the comfort of my own home on a lovely sunny morning is really quite confronting.

So much so that I hope you are a man and not a woman who casually asks her friends, mother or daughter how they might have triggered someone into beating them up.

DueyCheatemAndHow · 06/08/2022 07:06

Lauren clearly needs some real support. She got pregnant so so quickly after Larose was born - she only turned one a couple of weeks ago. Hopefully CD will.be charged and she won't take him back. She deserves better but she also needs to realise her daughter deserves better and she's the one that needs to ensure that happens.

anybloodyname · 06/08/2022 07:06

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Alcohol - emotion - stress -

No excuse but 100% alcohol

kateandme · 06/08/2022 07:07

EveningOverRooftops · 06/08/2022 03:46

We don’t need to wonder. Women are routinely subjected to DV shortly after the birth of a child or a positive pregnancy test. In this case, if it is her partner, not only is he a nasty DV perpetrator I’d bet he’s using the death of their child as his excuse to ramp up his abuse and blame her.

I remember after my 4th or 5th miscarriage my then partner blamed me for all the babies I’d lost. That I was murdering them. That I wasn’t a real woman because his ex wife managed to carry to term. His hostility and blame towards me got worse after each miscarriage then a few weeks after my 6th and final miscarriage he attacked me, told me if I ever got pregnant again he’d make sure I wasn’t because I wasn’t fit to be a mother as I was a baby killer essentially. I left, not knowing I was pregnant again. DC was born the following year and my EX has never had any real contact with DC.

Is he her dv abuser or one off event.sorry I don't know the story and can't access where I am.

She has had it so tough.i only ever see the poor girl when she's trying gain control or love by losing weight and being in papers with " transformation" then of course with all twatish diets falls off wagon and is all over papers saying how fat she us.

Yet more articles on her body.
More vitorol on her and hounding and bullying from press.
She seems to have taken a real beat g from every angle over the years.
I really hope she is ok.i can't imagine how she keeps getting up off the floor people keep kicking her onto.
I remember her in Essex.she always seemed desperately In need of acceptance and love then, from Mark especially who took this to mean he could be quite a dick.
But generally a nice person.i think.so I never got that hate.
Seemed like another one on the invisible lost of "celebs" We have to torture.

kateandme · 06/08/2022 07:10

User56785 · 06/08/2022 07:03

What fucking triggered it? Seriously?

I know that there are people out there that think like this, like you do @marblemad . But reading it in the comfort of my own home on a lovely sunny morning is really quite confronting.

So much so that I hope you are a man and not a woman who casually asks her friends, mother or daughter how they might have triggered someone into beating them up.

Could they have worded it completely wrong .and meant was this out of the blue attack,or he's been abusing her for a while in a dv situation. So is in shock as what the hell happened here and where did this cone from!
Trying desperately to see a better side to this wording.

georgarina · 06/08/2022 07:16

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His violence triggered the event to occur. 🙄FFS.

MakeadealwithGod · 06/08/2022 07:18

I have already been wondering who is looking out for her. I understand she is estranged from her parents. I hope she has other family and good friends for support.

PurplePansy05 · 06/08/2022 07:19

This is horrific. She's had an absolutely terrible time in the last couple of months and to be assaulted after losing a baby and immediately after her funeral is beyond belief.

There are things that raised my eye brows and that I disagreed with watching her relationship with the media over the years, as well as her unhealthy obsession with changing her looks. However, I completely agree with earlier posters, if you rewatch early TOWIE, MW was treating her really poorly and I wonder how this was considered acceptable then, it wasn't even that long ago. I am not talking about cheating, the whole way she was spoken too. And that's just what was shown on TV. I look back at one of my own relationship at the time, in my early 20s, and in hindsight I see the same pattern and a massive damage to self esteem resulting from it after 2 years. If I went through that for 11 years from a young age, this would have most definitely severely impacted my relationship with my body, MH and relationships with men. So I have a lot of sympathy for her anyway, I think she has been quite vulnerable for a while. But to now go through losing her beautiful daughter Lorena, ex partner and an assault is on another level of sadness. I lost babies in pregnancy and have a DC same age as Larose and this story has really hit me hard, I feel so sorry for her, no words feel right. I wish her the best, hope she is surrounded by people who truly love and care for her now and that this will be a turning point for her to get out of the toxic environment and have a happy life with her gorgeous Larose. I hope one day she is able to embrace her own strenght, worth and beauty and that she finds a happy, peaceful place in life. 💐

SandysMam · 06/08/2022 07:21

Might not just be alcohol these days, cocaine use is absolutely rife in these circles.

I feel so sorry for the girl, she has had such a hard life and been treated appalling by those who were meant to love her.

Badger1970 · 06/08/2022 07:21

I hope she deals with this privately, and gets a lot of support from her family/loved ones.

Ziggyisthebestdogintheworld · 06/08/2022 07:31

EveningOverRooftops · 06/08/2022 03:46

We don’t need to wonder. Women are routinely subjected to DV shortly after the birth of a child or a positive pregnancy test. In this case, if it is her partner, not only is he a nasty DV perpetrator I’d bet he’s using the death of their child as his excuse to ramp up his abuse and blame her.

I remember after my 4th or 5th miscarriage my then partner blamed me for all the babies I’d lost. That I was murdering them. That I wasn’t a real woman because his ex wife managed to carry to term. His hostility and blame towards me got worse after each miscarriage then a few weeks after my 6th and final miscarriage he attacked me, told me if I ever got pregnant again he’d make sure I wasn’t because I wasn’t fit to be a mother as I was a baby killer essentially. I left, not knowing I was pregnant again. DC was born the following year and my EX has never had any real contact with DC.

I had something like this happen
i fell pregnant and at ten weeks,I lost one of the babies I was carrying
the bastard told me ‘of all the kids you have,why is it mine you choose to lose?’
like I fucking choose to!
my brother is a 6’ tall,6’ wide muscleman and oddly ex didn’t have that view when confronted by him
im sorry you lost 6 angels-losing your baby at any stage is one of the worst things that can happen

im not a fan of Lauren-I never have been,but I wouldn’t wish this on any woman
i hope he rots in hell and she digs deep to get through this-and has therapy and a long and happy life (well as far as you can be happy with this happening to her)

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